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Lola- Ita that the highly processed barely meat products are definitely a co-culprate, it's scary how many kids eat it 2-3-4 times a week. I would litterally lock my kid in a tower all rapunzel style if they got preg that young. I can't even fathom being a grandma in 3 years!
Hobber- I dread that day they ask how the baby gets in there, I thought I'd for sure have had that convo by now lol
Cemas- never a bummer hun. Don't keep all that frustration inside, vent away!
That is horrifying!! Can you imagine? I can totally see a correlation between the obesity/early puberty. Some of the chubby little girls I see actually have breasts! I thought at first that it was because of their weight being carried in that part of their bodies, but I really think they have breasts. Some of these kids are 9 years old!Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
Woohoo, hope that line continues to get nice and dark over the next few days!Quote:
Originally Posted by Flava
Oh my inseminations were done on the 5th and 7th. Was meant to be the 6th but he couldn't "perform". I don't think the 7th made any difference as I only ovulated on the 5th and a bit of the 6th so I think I got pregnant from the one on the 5th of July.Quote:
Originally Posted by iluvmyman
Yes I am having a voluntary C-section, I have a lot of bad anxiety issues and think it's the best option for me. Plus hearing horror stories about tearing ouch! Most of my friends had it and a few needed to go back in for surgery as the scan was causing a lot of pain, and one girl was tore apart so bad they had Doctors drive in from a town a few hours away just to have a look at how bad it was. I know that doesn't happen to everyone but if I think I could be one of them I know I'd panic about it and god knows that won't be good for me or the baby.
Yeah it has to be a mistake, I don't know if it will cause issues if they think I'm in my 2nd or not. I will call just to point it out to them and see what they say.Quote:
Originally Posted by begonia
Awww so cute! My next scan my NT will be in 3D and I can't wait to see the pics :)Quote:
Originally Posted by begonia
Kris- I hear ya, tearing stories are the worst. Fwiw I got a few stitches (less then 5) with my first and those came because she had her hand by her face so her elbow ripped me a tiny bit but I had none with the other two. I get the anxiety just wanted you to know some of us don't tear at all :)
If it makes you feel better, I had two stitches with my first baby (not even for a tear, just a "skid mark") and only one stitch with my second (again, another skid mark). And none with my 3rd! So you might not have torn... but you do what is best for you!Quote:
Originally Posted by Kris217
I guess your body gets used to it the 3rd time around lol. I know it doesn't always happen, it's just not something I'd like to go through.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hobbermittens
When I had my vbac, I did not have a tear or anything, and the reason why is because my doula taught us to "stretch" me out. It was actually not as horrifying as it sounds....every night (or every other night), from 35 weeks on, my DH would get some pure vitamin e oil and literally use both hands to stretch me and then hold it to the point where it couldn't go anymore for about a minute. He told me he could tell it was definitely stretching. I was afraid of the tearing and stories I had heard about sex hurting for years, etc. but I so wanted to have a vbac, so I was all about this. When I had DD2, she literally came out clean as can be, and I had not one iota of trauma. My midwife could not believe it, and she was 7lbs2oz, very average sized. Just a thought for those who are not squeamish of having their DH be in their lady parts that way. I told him he'd get some lovin' afterwards, plus the non-torn vag benefits for a long time, so he was down.
I know, can you guys believe that about the pg freshman? I could not at first, but my friend was so nonchalant about it, she's seen it for years now. I can't even imagine my oldest who is 9 being pg in a few years, it is insane. I mean, I was a little naive child when I was 12, not even thinking about boys barely! My girls will definitely not be allowed to hang out with boys like that either. Hopefully, they won't hang around kids like that when they get into jr. high and such.