Yea we are definitely finding out! Although I feel this sort of "calm" now! Did any of you ladies find that? Like very "it is what it is".
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Yea we are definitely finding out! Although I feel this sort of "calm" now! Did any of you ladies find that? Like very "it is what it is".
Hey all
Its been ages since I've been on here but today we got some terrible news and I thought id update you all…. (I also posted in the pregnancy loss group so sorry for the double up to those who do read those posts too).
Things have been going really well wit the pregnancy. I had my 20 week scan and things were great and it was confirmed (after our previous non diagnostic gender scan) that we were indeed having our much desired/dreamed for daughter that we swayed for and a bonus little man. They were both happy and healthy and doing well.
But today that changed. We went in for a scan today and were told that our little girl has died. I am heartbroken and lost for words. Ive had no pain, no bleeding, no nothing…..just was a little concerned about lack of movement from them both, but was not expecting this.
After swaying, an early m/c, swaying again, finding out we were having twins and that one was a girl to now this…. its just all been such an ordeal and now I have to go through the rest of the pregnancy not knowing what the impact on the surviving twin will be, having to deliver both of them, then we have to go through everything afterwards.
This is all just not fair! Its like some cruel cruel joke.
Im just so devastated.
Sam
Sam honey words cannot describe how heartbroken I am for you I think all of us are going to shed a tear for you tonight, life really is unfair to take this precious life from you, I'm sending you a million hugs and want you to know we are all here for you to talk too or rant too XXXX
Oh Sam there are no words to describe my feelings. We were all praying for you and your babies all this time and to have such an update is beyond unfair....I really hope your baby boy is not affected by this and just know that I am praying for you and your baby girl in heaven..
Oh MumofSix Sam... I am so unbelievably sorry for your loss. There are no words.
Im so so sorry momofsix :(
I cant imagine what ur going through..
Hugs .. :(
:sad: Devastated.
Mumofsix I'm so sorry!!! I have no words. I wish you all the strength you need to go trough this.
I just don't know what to say.
Big Hugs
Mumofsix what an awful thing for u to go through, To find out u finally Got your girl and to suddenly lose her,I can't imagine what u are going through.big hugs, love and strength to get through the rest of the pregnancy xxx
Oh my god...mumofsix. I have no words: ((((
Loads of hugs and prayers for u n the family