Mother after 35

Once again my congrats, Leticia! I'm so glad for you. Seems to me hotel is not so expensive if to take to consideration that you should stay there only 1-2 days. How long will you stay there during your second visit?

:kissy:

thank you for congratulations, ladies. But the most important things are still waiting for us) Our second visit will be in 4-5 weeks. Our doc. will tell us when it will be high time to go. Yes hotel was ok and no so expensive, we were satisfied. The second visit will be 5-10 days.

great!that means that the procedure takes up to 5 weeks. and in case of success you will be pregnant and within 9 months you will become a happy mother!!:pregnant:

I hope very much for success but also I'm ready to the first fail. I know I have 8 attempts, I know I have guarantee but somewhere deep inside I prepared that first attempt will fail( I know that it is not good to think like this but can do nothing with it. But I'm sure that till the end of the program I'll be a mother) It is for sure.

you know i read a lot of books abt psychology and all of them say that our thoughts have the tendention to change our life. and in what side - depends on our thoughts.
if we think that we will fail - we will, if we think that we will succeed-we will.

so don't think that your first attempt will fail and everything will be good.

Thanx, I will try to change my attitude to the situation. I know that there are no reasons to think that everything will be bad even vice versa. I always think that people need psychologist after the fail but as I see I also need before the procedure)

maybe it's a great idea.
and remember that you shouldn't be worry bcz it can spoil everything and be the reason for failure.

I don't know weather it is needed now to go to the specialist but if you feel you need it, surely you should go. I support ann and agree that our thoughts make our life. Be positive, hun!!!

Thank you all that you tell me all these, it helped me and now I'm trying to look at it from the other side. We took a few days off and went with hubby to the picnic)) It was great time. We went through difficult times and this picnic was the first great moment after all that dark times.