Definitely looks all boy, I don’t mean to upset you but also don’t want to give you false hope. I’m sorry you didn’t hear girl but that is one gorgeous son you have on the way! [emoji170]
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Definitely looks all boy, I don’t mean to upset you but also don’t want to give you false hope. I’m sorry you didn’t hear girl but that is one gorgeous son you have on the way! [emoji170]
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Magical i hope i can be positive like you one day about it. Right now im not sure if my hearts a dark abyss or a solid shut volcanic rock.Quote:
Originally Posted by Magical22
Ive pretty much lost all people to talk to about this. If i drag my husband through much more im not sure what it will do to us so i need to find my fake smile. My best friend is 2 weeks ahead and having a girl after 2 boys. Everyone else fills my head with empty words of 'at least you know what to do with a boy', or 'think of all the money you will save', 'at least you will miss the teenage drama years', 'have one more, the next one will be a girl' or the most common 'as long as its healthy'. All words, phrases that ive heard too many times and left another hole in the heart of dreams.
I have zero feelings towards this baby. I have a birth that i don't even care about but the only promising thing is the pain i will endure for feeling this way. Then i look at my other kids and think i don't even deserve them. I usually already start thinking about 1st birthday themes and i can't be bothered nor do i want to see anyone. I don't think i will bother confirming gender at anatomy scan. Im not sure my heart could take any more words...'its a ***', its words ive heard far too many times. And the way i sound when i read this is like a self absorbed, selfish, ungrateful, unappreciative cow but i know those words are lies because thats not me, thats not who i am.
I've got years and years of hope and dreams that i held onto and just like that, it's gone. Not even ashes, not even dust, just non-existant, gone.
The part of me keeps thinking, i should have stuck with the wonder. The wonder if the next one would have been a girl, the wonder that had abit of hope left. Not what I'm feeling now, not this. I don't even know what it is. I don't even know if it has a name.
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HUGS Netti!!!! Praying for you. I know EXACTLY how you feel right now. Praying you will feel better with time and I am very happy to hear that your little man is healthy! Let me know if you need another large boy family mom to talk to!!!
Thanks Shannshaff. Part of me is just so dumb founded and speechless ive had 6 bloody kids and they've all got penises!! I hope time is exactly what will help cause i certainly can't put up with myself much longer.Quote:
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We are all hear for you! I may not have 6 sons but I have 3 so can relate to an extent. For me having kids is so difficult to begin with years of trying clomid, injections, IVF. DH didn’t want 2 kids so to push him to 3 was crazy! We did HT in the US which failed I’ve had 3 miscarriages and 1 D&C (the day my niece was born) life can be so unfair can’t it. My friends so easily get PP. I have suffered severe depression I have seen a therapist, the guilt I feel pushing my husband for just 1 more (something I do now) the guilt over money wasted, it’s all so crazy. Don’t ever think your alone we are all hear for you, we can relate we understand, gentle hugs lovely! XQuote:
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Just to update ladies. After much deliberation, im disregarding my u/s pics. They do not make any sense in the slightest to confirm either gender. I have pretty much confirmed that what is pointing to boy in 1st pic is clearly cord. You can see where it travels off the supposed penis and around to the placenta. This pic also doesn't clearly identify boy bits as where i should 'see' the scrotum its not even attached at the base. There is also another pic with cord. Side profile looks girly. And another potty shot is not able to identify either. 3d pics don't really show much either to have me give a guess, other than 50/50.
I think it was just too early to be able to tell and i am not a small woman and that plays a part. I wish i had asked a 100 times if they were correct rather than face value. The heartache for an indeterminable result and waste of $$ has me furious especially when I voiced my concerns a few days later only to be brushed off. I will await anatomy scan and leave them my review after. So for me its still 50/50.
Ive also had some feedback about the pics with the same thoughts as mine and that they really don't provide any answer to a specific gender. Now to wait patiently til mid November. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...9758c2629b.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...98602e3d93.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...6e0066bfb1.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...1d082771cb.jpg
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The pic where they labeled boy is confusing to me because it doesn't even look like connected boy parts... The other photo definitely looks more girl than the other one looks boy, if that makes sense? The boy pic definitely reminds me of a cord photo. I'm not convinced, I don't even see the testicle shadows. I will be following to find out!
Did you not do the blood test then?
Blood test is $400 here in Australia [emoji58] I already paid $100 for this scan and i won't be able to get anymore til anatomy.
But thankyou for pointing out what i also think is off with the pics. Im trying to be patient. Anatomy scan will be in a few weeks.
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Oh Netti I am so sorry it didn't go your way.
BUT I do want to congratulate you on having an amazing and unique family and a beautiful baby boy on the way. :heart: