Originally Posted by
meeks32
OMG that's crazy! After all this you are WAITING? Hats off to you, that is some determination there, I could never achieve! I actually felt the opposite with ds2, I was SO glad I found out while pregnant, for a number of reasons. Firstly to get over the disappointment (only took about a week), secondly for names, because let's face it, boy names are damn hard! And thirdly because I wanted to bond with who was in my tummy before birth, so that by the time I got there, I was accepting and ready to love and not disappointed or feeling guilty. That was my personal take of course, and everyone is different. But I felt it helped me to know in pregnancy and process those feelings before baby arrived.
Nothing wrong with finding out to try something new, especially as this is your last you could tell people you wanted to see what it felt like to know.
But if you hold fast and stay team green I think that's amazing too. I do understand it especially when hubby wants to wait.
Good luck!!! When's the next scan?