TTC a BOY May Chit Chat Thread

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Originally Posted by Bec

It must be frustrating feeling like that. I am very frustrated at having to wait and not being able to TTC right NOW. Who says I should wait? It's unfair. I just have to keep reminding myself I have two healthy kids and some people don't even get to have one child, let alone two. I don't know why I've been feeling so sorry for myself lately because I really have no reason to. But just seeing pregnant people makes me mad and sad. I mean I am happy for them, but I'm so jealous. I should have been pregnant now too. Arghh rant over.

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This is exactly how I feel! Except I don't feel that way towards pregnants that I know here or irl....isn't that weird? It's only the pregnant strangers. You are right though, we are lucky that we already have 2 kids. I think the sad thing for me is that I want my DH to experience the pregnancy/childbirth/baby thing so badly (he met us when my girls were 2 and 5), but I desperately want one more also. It's almost like a mission at this point for me. I tell him sometimes that he doesn't even know how wonderful it is and what he is missing yet, and he just smiles, because he doesn't. Bec, if I can do it someday, you can too! And I bet you'll find you are pregnant soon enough without too much intervention.

Skrimpy, that is such a HE diet! Nice! How do you make the broth drink? Hopefully your move will be smooth....maybe the older kids can even help a bit? It's such a shame that people don't get as excited about your 6th as your 1st. I like your strategy for finding out and not telling, either. Glad you will indulge us, of course!!! LOL you must have been in heat, indeed! I can tell when I am and need to bd for sure. Aw, I am so excited for you guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok, I am just going to do a multi-post here.

Cinss, get on it, girl!!! Good luck!

POP, wowsers, sounds like you are pulling out every trick in the book, good for you! I find some comes out as well, but we try to prop me up before he pulls out (do you guys remember the legs around the neck hold while he puts the pillow under there?). Sometimes I will put an instead cup in while propped up too and I find that not too much comes out. But honestly, even if some comes out, there is still oodles in there. You know, men have a range of volume from 1.5ml to 5.5ml (those are the normal ranges), and so if your DH has a "larger load" as mine does, then it's ok if a little comes out, there is still plenty in there. Heck, Skrimpy probably only got a drop and look at her all pregnant! :wink: Hope this is your month and Cinss' too!

And of course, come on AF of Bec!!!

I bet 3P1B is busy as can be. You know how life gets this time of year when school is almost out, and she's got her little Charlie man too.

So, not that we want to leave this site, but what do you guys think about a FB group for those interested? Bec and I were discussing and we think it would be cool, and we can look at pics and such. I have one from IG with about 7 folks and we still chat even though they all have babies now! If anyone is interested, pm me and we'll link up and I'll add you. And this is not just for boy swayers, whoever is cool.

Lola, I will join that FB group once I announce to my family that I am pregnant--otherwise they might find out through FB. I can't believe I am 20 weeks and haven't told my parents, in-laws or sister yet! :worry: they are going to flip!

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Originally Posted by Princess of Pink

I find when DTD and DH pulls out heaps leaks back out....like a waterfall.

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Your DH must be...big? :oops:

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Originally Posted by skrimpy

LOL Hobber!! I promise there must have been some powerful hormones going on there... we are not normally so hot and heavy. I must have just been in heat, plain and simple lol. The time before this time had been a week before, too, since we were TTA, so there was some built up pressure, as DH likes to say :p

I do find him to be incredibly sexy though, it's nice to have a DH who still turns you on!

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I am still really attracted to my DH too after 12 years, so that's always good!! We used to be like rabbits, before having kids, but these days we are so tired it is hard to make time to DTD! Kind of sad. :( I am glad your sex life is alive and well!

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Originally Posted by LolaInLove

POP, wowsers, sounds like you are pulling out every trick in the book, good for you! I find some comes out as well, but we try to prop me up before he pulls out (do you guys remember the legs around the neck hold while he puts the pillow under there?). Sometimes I will put an instead cup in while propped up too and I find that not too much comes out. But honestly, even if some comes out, there is still oodles in there. You know, men have a range of volume from 1.5ml to 5.5ml (those are the normal ranges), and so if your DH has a "larger load" as mine does, then it's ok if a little comes out, there is still plenty in there. Heck, Skrimpy probably only got a drop and look at her all pregnant! :wink: Hope this is your month and Cinss' too!

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Yeah we try that but it still leaks out everywhere....I have pretty strong pelvic floor muscles and I find if I move or anything that makes those muscles tense it waterfalls out lol

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Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

Lola, I will join that FB group once I announce to my family that I am pregnant--otherwise they might find out through FB. I can't believe I am 20 weeks and haven't told my parents, in-laws or sister yet! :worry: they are going to flip!

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I was exactly the same with my last 2 children Hobbs. I waited until 21 weeks and will do the same this time too!! I know how you feel about it all.

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Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

Your DH must be...big? :oops:

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Lol...yup huge :oops:

Lola yep i'd join the FB group 4 sure :)

POP i know what you mean about the leaking, how bad is it when you have to sneeze after DTD, it's like "oh no oh no ahhhh choo, damn!" hahaha. I didn't leak any from last night which was not normal for me, DP said before we DTD he is empty and really wasn't that into it, and it actually really hurt, my cervix feels all banged up cause he is not a small fella either. I dont think we will be going again tonight, im still in a little pain :( So thats it for me this cycle, i hope i did enough, i am sure you have and if just one of us gets a BFP this time it will be you.

Bec im sorry you have to wait to jump back on the TTC train, but your body is just getting ready, and by the time AF comes and goes you should have a nice comfy place inside ready to stick your little bean to.

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Originally Posted by LolaInLove

This is exactly how I feel! Except I don't feel that way towards pregnants that I know here or irl....isn't that weird? It's only the pregnant strangers. You are right though, we are lucky that we already have 2 kids. I think the sad thing for me is that I want my DH to experience the pregnancy/childbirth/baby thing so badly (he met us when my girls were 2 and 5), but I desperately want one more also. It's almost like a mission at this point for me. I tell him sometimes that he doesn't even know how wonderful it is and what he is missing yet, and he just smiles, because he doesn't. Bec, if I can do it someday, you can too! And I bet you'll find you are pregnant soon enough without too much intervention.

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Oh yes, I should specify that I don't feel like that towards people on here, it's just strangers or people that I don't know well. Like, there is this girl at work who fell pregnant first month, no complications or anything. It is her first and I am very happy for her but every time I see her I feel a little sad. Silly. I guess in a way it is kinda nice that you're DH doesn't know what he is missing. I mean that in a nice way. I'm sure he desperately wants a baby but until he experiences it for himself he won't completely understand. It's like before you have gone through childbirth, you have no idea what it is like. I would like to feel like that again :) Ahh to be niave. Thanks Lola, I really hope we don't have to go through too much fertility treatment. What will be will be though.

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Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

Lola, I will join that FB group once I announce to my family that I am pregnant--otherwise they might find out through FB. I can't believe I am 20 weeks and haven't told my parents, in-laws or sister yet! :worry: they are going to flip!

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I can't believe your family don't know! I couldn't keep it to myself for that long.

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Originally Posted by Cinss

Bec im sorry you have to wait to jump back on the TTC train, but your body is just getting ready, and by the time AF comes and goes you should have a nice comfy place inside ready to stick your little bean to.

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I could totally accept that if I was waiting for AF to come naturally but because I've taken meds to induce it, it should have come. I don't want to have to wait months to get a natural AF. I wish I just had regular ovulatory cycles!

I spoke to my fertility specialist today and he was none the wiser either. I have an appointment on Monday morning to have an ultrasound and bloods and hopefully figure out what the deal is.

Bec- I hope that AF will come finally. I have no idea why it would take this long.

I can also join FB group if you guys like.

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Originally Posted by Flava

Bec- I hope that AF will come finally. I have no idea why it would take this long.

I can also join FB group if you guys like.

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That makes two of us!

Just PM Lola, Flava. She is starting the group up. I will PM you as well.

Gals, I started the FB group. It's just called Gender Dreaming Mamas. It is totally private, so no one outside of the group can see ANYTHING. You will see your own posts in the group in your own personal newsfeed, but no one else can see that. No one can see your group list or anything either, so don't worry about anyone else seeing anything at all! Just pm me and we'll link up and I'll add you.

Bec, glad you have an appt soon. I know how frustrating it is. They have got to have bigger guns to get that AF started, yea?

And you can add any of us that you are friends with too, it doesn't have to be me.

lola- what do you mean I see my own post but no one else? Then how do we read what others say? Im really lost on FB anyway I just don't get it .Good think no1 can see the group listing because I don't want ppl to see Im in a GD mamas!
Someone need to add me , i think Bec can?:)

Flava, it just means that no one else can see anything, not the group or the posts. You will see your own posts to groups in your own newsfeed, but no one else can see it (those are private posts). It's kinda weird how FB does it, but when you post in the private group, you will see, for example: "Flava-> Gender Dreaming Mamas: blah blah blah" but none of your friends will see that in the newsfeed, only you.

I added you Lola and Bec too....and requested to join the group!! Cause I could see that Bec joined it on her wall...

I don't have facebook or I would join you girls :)

I am not sure I will join or not--I had planned to, but I don't want my 'code name' as connected to my real name to get revealed on FB. I know the group is private, but I worry! I would hate for my family to find out we planned this baby (we just lied and told them all it was a surprise).

I've just requested to join... My "code name" is very similar to my real name, and my profile pic is my DD wearing a pink dress.

I just checked on DP's FB if he could see that i joined the group and it does show up in the news feed, so if you are trying to be secritive, probably have to delete that info right away if you can.

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Originally Posted by Cinss

I just checked on DP's FB if he could see that i joined the group and it does show up in the news feed, so if you are trying to be secritive, probably have to delete that info right away if you can.

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Good to know!

How exciting!! Dloui you need to get Facebook!!

Lola can we make the group Private?

Hi, don't know if any of u remember me but I was here a few months ago.. Well had my 20 week scan today and........
Holy crap!! It's a boy!!!

Good luck to all of you!!! And thanks for your help!

Congrats ams!

Congrats Ams!!!!!
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Originally Posted by Princess of Pink

I added you Lola and Bec too....and requested to join the group!! Cause I could see that Bec joined it on her wall...

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Well that's not good then. No way I want family to see I join a gender dreaming group!! No one even know Im pregnant.Oh yeah please don't post about it if anyone would talk to me on FB...

ams- I remember you! Why did you disappeared? Congrats on the boy!:celebrate:

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Originally Posted by LolaInLove

Bec, glad you have an appt soon. I know how frustrating it is. They have got to have bigger guns to get that AF started, yea?

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I sure hope so. Google tells me that some women need oestrogen with primolut so we'll see if my doc suggests that. I'd just be happy to know what is going on at this stage.

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Originally Posted by Princess of Pink

I added you Lola and Bec too....and requested to join the group!! Cause I could see that Bec joined it on her wall...

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So did you go on my wall and it showed it there that I had joined? I checked on DH's fb and it didn't come up on my wall for him. But he also saw on his news feed that I had joined the group. He got grouchy at me! Can we make it totally private? Or maybe just change the name of the group?

Cinss, looks like you O'd yesterday!

PoP, what methods have you been doing for you last few attempts? Are your OPKs getting darker?

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Originally Posted by Princess of Pink

How exciting!! Dloui you need to get Facebook!!

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I know, it just seems like everyone I know that has it is always talking about some sort of drama, I have no tolerance for that so I think it would just give me anxiety, plus I don't have a filter so I could possibly piss someone off :)

Congrats on your :DS: ams!!

I changed it to SECRET so no one can see....it was closed before but now it's closed and secret, so don't worry about anyone besides us seeing anything. Hobber, I totally understand...no one has to join, just a fun way to share pics and post stuff that is 100% private to our group.

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Originally Posted by Bec

So did you go on my wall and it showed it there that I had joined? I checked on DH's fb and it didn't come up on my wall for him. But he also saw on his news feed that I had joined the group. He got grouchy at me! Can we make it totally private? Or maybe just change the name of the group?

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I changed it! I didn't see it on my wall, that is weird. Sorry....just delete that post. It's completely secret now!

Ams, congrats on your baby boy! That is awesome!!!!

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Originally Posted by dloui128

I know, it just seems like everyone I know that has it is always talking about some sort of drama, I have no tolerance for that so I think it would just give me anxiety, plus I don't have a filter so I could possibly piss someone off :)

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I don't have a filter either....just don't really care if I piss someone off lol.