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Oh hun, I am so sorry you didnt hear girl, I too have no idea what that is in the pic, doesnt look like your typical boy shot but Im not sure what parts Im looking at. We are all here for you hun, it will take time to have it all sink in and to come to terms with Im sure but we'll be here to support you along the way xx
Any other pics?
Congrats!! It took me a sec to see the bits, but I see them.
:( Ive been stalking this like others! I was sure it was a girl! Im sorry! Welll 3 boys arnt that bad its kind of fun having a bunch of monkeys running around! :) IS this your last?
I don't see them either, this is the most elusive baby ever!!! I am sorry you didn't hear girl, but I am happy that the baby seems healthy! Boys are great too! So sorry you didn't hear girl!
I zoomed in really close with my ipad and I do see the boy bits, it is camouflaged by the cord!
So sorry you didn't hear girl :(
I don't see the boy parts??? Take time to adjust and know we are all here for you xx
Congrats on a healthy little boy. Sorry you didn't hear pink. I hope your doing ok.:hugs:
I really can't see a penis in that pic at all though.
Awh sorry you didn't hear Girl, but you already know that boys are the cuddliest most loveable little guys, take care of yourself!!! XXX
Oh honey. All I can say is that you did everything possible to make a girl so it's not in your control and this was just your fate. You and dh together must only make boys (as I suspect is the case with my dh and I too).
I don't see the boy bits at all, but if she was sure then I guess there is no argument. I was so sure you were having a girl.
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This pic has been circulating fb and I just love it. I saw it the other day and it gave me a sense of calm about TTC and swaying. If I get 3 boys, this is me in 20 years, surrounded by handsome sons and happy. I think it's you too.
So sorry you didn't hear pink, was sure you would. Little boy determined to have you as his mummy xx
Ah so sorry you didn't hear girl :( ugh I hope you're doing ok!
That's all we have so far. I'll get my negatives at my next prenatal appointment.Quote:
Originally Posted by ynwa
I'm sorry you didn't hear girl but thrilled to hear you're growing another healthy little boy. You probably feel a little bit strange at the moment and like you have lost your girl but remember you've gained a boy, another beautifully perfect little human being. Once he is here you'll find it impossible to imagine he could have been anyone else and that you wanted him to be. Saskia may well still be in your future. Sending big hugs and enormous congratulations from the other side of the world. X
So sorry you didn't hear girl...HUGS
HUGE ((((HuGs)))) So sorry mama <3
Congrats on a healthy baby boy:)
So sorry you didn't hear girl. I remember the sinking feeling I had when I heard DD3 was indeed another girl and I so desperately wanted a boy.
Time will help the sting fade and having a new little baby to snuggle will help separate the desire for a girl from that little bundle of joy.
Lots of love and understanding!!
Not the best pic! So sorry it didn't turn out the way you had planned :(
I'm sorry your baby isn't a girl. But there's something very special about three of the same.
Sorry you didn't hear pink.. Your nub shot did look
quite boyish. I am sure he will be the most delicious little
boy. My DS#3 certainly is the love of my life.
^^^^^ totally agree my third boy is by far my strongest bond :)
Sorry you didnt hear girl :(
I am sorry you didn't hear pink, but congrats on your boy! I hope you are doing okay
Im sorry you didnt hear what you wanted. I too cannot work out that pic. But I think Fish has refreshed our minds that gender really is not our top priority. Having a healthy beautiful baby in there is really what counts. I know it doesnt make that disappointed feeling any easier.... sending you biiiiiiiiiiiiigggggggg hugs from Perth...... Wish I was closer I'd say we could catch up for a coffee and go buy something reallllllly cute for the new bundle.
I always went into swaying with the mentality that I'll try all that I can for a pink one, I'll sway as hard as I possibly can. If I still end up with a boy, then boy oh boy was he meant to be a part of this family!! After all the hurdles I threw his way lol
So your new little man is certainly going to be so special.... he was meant to be here x x x
I have to tell you that I've shed a couple of tears for you hun, as I know how much your really wanted a little girl, and I understand that longing for a daughter. Little boys are adorable and I love mine very much. My third son is so so sweet and his big brothers love him very much. It's separate completely, loving your boys and wanting a little girl to feel complete. I'm so sorry you didn't hear girl. I'm sure you little one will be so lovely and bring you lots of joy for years to come.
I am so so sorry you didn't hear girl. I am expecting our 4th boy and it hit me like a ton of bricks this time. Am just longing for the birth as I know I felt like this with ds3 and as soon as he was born it all just melted away. I can't imagine life without ds3 but its not that thAt hurts its trying to imagine life without a dd that hurts. Am thinking of you xx
Sorry hoping, but at least you can planing now. Think of a name and start on the nursery. Keep yourself busy if you need to xx
Sorry you didn't hear girl, Hoping. I was really crossing my fingers for you. I'm sure this little man will be perfection, congrats and big hugs to you.
So sorry you didnt hear girl! Congrats on your healthy baby boy!
Congrats on your third charm!!
3 boys is amazing, a brother band is for life!!
Can you imagine the future, 3 of those "men" sitting on your dinner table?
:HH:Oh Hoping, my friend. I am so very sorry to hear that you did not hear pink. I am shocked, I really thought you had your DD. You did absolutely everything in your power to sway. I believe she will come, she just has one extra and wonderful brother now that will probably be the light of your life!
Sorry you didn't hear pink... Just remember your third will have an own, lovely personality. He was very determinant to come to your family, that has to mean something!
Im sorry hun, so my husband wasn't right.....I will spank him hihihihihihi. How are you right now? I think with 3 boys in the house and your husband you will be the queen and the boys will carry you on their hands!
I'm glad there is an answer for you Hoping, but surprised and sorry that Saskia is having you wait out and stocking a home of big brothers.
Your support and knowledge has been so essential to many of us here.
Know that we all have some inkling of what you're experiencing and that there is a great big network of women out here for you. It's our honour to support you in the grieving for your not-this-time daughter, and to also celebrate your beautiful boy.
So sorry it wasn't the magic "it's a girl" you were desperate to hear. I too found out this week we're expecting our third boy, after doing everything in my power to sway pink.
For 3 days I just sobbed, uncontrollably at times, the sadness at never experiencing a daughter broke my heart and the guilt this feeling brought was heart wrenching. I was so angry at myself for feeling that way, when I have a gorgeous boy growing in my belly. But it is fine to feel disappointed.
After 4 days though, I am feeling more positive and excited. I went through denial, sadness, anger and acceptance. Now I can genuinely say that whilst I am still sad, I feel more positive. We are planning on how we are going to decorate the nursery, thinking of a name and I'm stupidly watching birth programmes. All of these are taking the focus away from my longing for a daughter, towards excitement at my gorgeous son, who started kicking me for the first time yesterday.
Anyway, I guess with all of this rambling, what I'm trying to say is that it does get easier. I think the immediate shock and disappointment is heart wrenching, but that does disappear and feels less raw. Even for me, just in 4 days, I feel so different to how I felt Tuesday.
Take each day as it comes, let yourself cry and come to terms with it all, focus on doing nice things, whether its eating your favourite food or putting on your favourite music. Just things that get you through each day. With time, you will get excited and thrilled with your new son, a beautiful little brother for your two boys.
Take care x
I"m so sorry, but congrats on a healthy baby.
I'm sorry. Hope you're okay.
I am betting it will be amazing in ways you can't yet imagine.
I am so sorry you did not hear pink. Your baby will be so special and loved. And he is sure to have a great name...I love your style! I hope you are taking some time for you and pampering yourself. Hugs!
I'm sorry you didn't hear girl.
You are such a pretty lady in your picture, I bet your boys are just heart-breakers! Is your husband as good looking as you? What a beautiful family you must all be :)
You are three times blessed. I know it doesn't seem that way now...but someday you will busting at the seams with pride at your three handsome, wonderful boys.
Be ever so kind to yourself, I know our kids genders seem like a big deal, but its just a small portion of who we are. You are a strong, lovely lady that deserves the utmost happiness out of life, and as we all know at some point, it IS up to us how we deal with our cards. I have made up my mind that having all boys is something wonderful and I refuse to be sad about something wonderful. I hope you get there too <3
Sorry you didn't hear pink. I hope maybe you have another chance......you never know.Hope you are ok.xxx