Abundant April 2WW Thread (3)

Hi all!

Iwant4kids I'm not sure I posted about your awesome news and if not a belated 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 woohoo is in order!!

I'm posting to tell you all about a horrible dream I had last night. Woke up feeling sick to my stomach and decided to Google about it tonight because it was bothering me so much!!

I dreamt a friends son died. He fell into the water (heaps of massive rocks around), they were on a school excursion or something and when someone asked where *insert boys name here* was the other kids said he fell through there *indicating water* I jumped straight in and the water was so cold I couldn't hold my breathe but could see him floating in the water (obviously deceased) about 20 metres away. I knew I couldn't swim to him, I could barely move enough to get back to air and I knew my own son had just watched me jump in. It was so so horrible and has bugged me all day BUT after reading through a whole crap load of dream interpretations it makes so much darn sense!!!! Just wish my mind didn't have to be so graphic and awful in conveying how it feels which is the following pic that I thought vest described it. So yes I do believe my mind has accepted this baby number 3 dream is over and that I was coming to some kind of peace with my 3 angel babies (or pregnancies, but I don't care if people don't think early miscarriages or even chemicals count, they are all babies to me :( ) So here is the explanation I liked best :) I'm just sharing this in case anyone has an awful dream and thinks doom and gloom (like I did 😂)Attachment 35809

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hmmm, online dream reading isn't very reliable. Although I certainly believe there's meaning to some dreams (not all), I also believe that it takes a qualified person who isn't biased or trying to make a buck to interpret the dream because oftentimes we interpret dreams the way our ego wants to see them, most dreams are from the self.

Your dream could mean a number of things. Taking an adult approach to things doesn't necessarily mean giving up on a dream or convincing yourself you don't want it. Acceptance should never mean giving up, acceptance means to embrace what is and to stop resisting what is happening. For example, let's take an obese girl who has always struggled with her weight. At some point she will be told to just accept herself as she is and embrace her body (implying she should give it up). YES, she should accept herself and embrace her journey, but that does not means she gives up on losing weight. It means she accepts herself as she is today and moves forward with her goals, however long they may take, without resisting or battling. I hope that makes sense.

In your case (assuming the online meaning you found has some validity), I'd be inclined to think it means that if you still have a smidgen of want for another child, just do what people have done all throughout history. Have sex and enjoy it. If fruit comes from it, fine, if not, at least you enjoyed the connection to your spouse :) No temps, no meds, no opk's. That, to me is taking an adult approach. Not forcing an issue and just letting thins run their course naturally.

Just my take on it hun :) I enjoy this kind of conversation lol.

That's awesome cosmo 😀 and thank you for your interpretation! I'm so annoyed and upset it 'had' to be a child in my dream but I guess it made it unforgettable too 😕

Oh and me too as in enjoying 'these' types of conversations 😉

Good morning ladies!

Pbn, so sorry about those dreams. I've had similar before and I know how disturbing they can be! I do like cosmos's take on it...

AF started late last evening. Extremely painful and strong this time, wondering if I had a chemical given the faint line on the IC? Anyway, going in for blood work on Monday to the OB and we'll see what happens this cycle. Spoke with DH about trying again this time and while he's not thrilled, he also didn't oppose.

I am glad that he is letting you seemingly make this choice maxim even if he is not entirely on board. DH was not entirely for a 4th baby either but there is no denying how much he loves her now. He thought because i needed clomid to have DD3 that it would take a long time (years) or never happen at all if he gave in and had unprotected sex whenever i wanted...and then i was pregnant LOL (thanks HE!!)

Ahhhh, hitting another obstacle today. Called to confirm my blood work for Monday and their office will be closed for a holiday. I leave for our april vacation with my girls on Tuesday and won't be back until the following Monday, which means that I also miss my day 3-10 window for my saline sonogram. Unbelievable... :hair:

I've hit A LOT of obstacles in trying these past months (first cycle was anovulatory, delayed O timing, husband travels a lot so when I actually do O, our cutoffs have been long, etc.). I'm starting to wonder if these are signs that it just wasn't meant to be!

Thanks, Burakoam! Did clomid work the first cycle for you? Doesn't look like I'll be able to get it this cycle either, sucks!

((HUGS)) Max. That is a pain. praying that you just relax this cycle and have fun with DH whenever you can. Don't worry about TTC and just enjoy each other. And hopefully you can go from there.
BTW - what holiday is Monday???

Pbn3 - you have me sitting at my desk crying. Good thing I work all alone on Fridays. What a horrible dream. Even if it means something else, that is NOT nice. I hate those dreams. When I was pg with DS3, I would dream about 1-2 times a week about him dying in various ways (mostly drowning) as a toddler. ((HUGS)) I hope that the meaning you get out of it is what you were trying to work through. Dreams are weird sometimes, but our whole body is crazy in how it works.

My take on the dream is you realizing that the dream of another child has affected your relationship with your son and that you are ready to accept what life has given you and spend time with your children. It does not mean letting go of the dream, but not chasing it so hard that you forget about everyone else. Just my take on it! :)

Pbn-interesting dream interpretation. Sometimes they're just so vivid & real,it's scary! I have several reoccurring dreams & I figure they must mean fear of the unknown/uncertain future.
Maxim-sorry for these obstacles & sure hope there's a way around them!!
Dancingdiva-anxiously awaiting your pic ;)


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Sky we went out to eat breakfast a couple days. The others I skipped. I had meat almost every meal but picked shrimp, scallops, or chicken. And I overall just ate wayyyyy to much.
Max that stinks you can't get in [emoji20] is there any way they can just order your blood work to be done at a hospital or something?
Looks like af has stopped. 4 days is super weird for me but whatever I guess I'll roll with it. Will start back temping tomorrow


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Pbn - Any dream with someone dying always disturbs me and then I am too scared to go back to sleep after that. All the more scarier when you see a child. When I read the interpretation, I could imagine how overwhelming it must have been for you though. But I like what Cosmosis said. Exactly my thoughts. And then you have all of us here who are always here. Hugs
Maxim - I m so sorry. I know it's sucks. I really hope that you can figure out a way around it.
Ash - I don't think eating breakfast for couple of days will harm the sway in any way. You have been on LE diet for long so a few days won't matter that much imo.
Iwant4kids - Wow 6 sleeps. Waiting patiently with you. How many days are you out for camping? I bet it's a good distraction.





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Max clomid did work the very first cycle with me but we are supposed to count ourselves very lucky if it works the very first month as the average is about 3 i think...so its very possible you only need it once!

Sky we went out to eat breakfast a couple days. The others I skipped. I had meat almost every meal but picked shrimp, scallops, or chicken. And I overall just ate wayyyyy to much.
Max that stinks you can't get in [emoji20] is there any way they can just order your blood work to be done at a hospital or something?
Looks like af has stopped. 4 days is super weird for me but whatever I guess I'll roll with it. Will start back temping tomorrow


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Sorry ladies, was out all day with the girls and just catching up. Nothing I can do this cycle - they can only do the sono during the days that I'm out of town. I guess we'll just see what happens this month and then pick up with the sono and clomid/femara next cycle.

Burakoam, I really hope I'm like you!!

Relatively Speaking.....

I have a question & I'm not sure where to post it so I thought you fine ladies would be as good a place as any....

I had a birthday party for my son this week and he invited his cousins ...and my sister sends them without a gift or even a Happy Birthday card! :worry:



This is completely rubbing me the wrong way. She would never send her kids to a stranger's house for a birthday party (or any kind of party) without some kind of gift but she thinks its acceptable behaviour for her nephew.

Not only is my sister his aunt, she's his freakin' Godmother! I want to say something but DH thinks I should let t go bc its family.

Maxim- I fell on the 3rd clomid cycle with DD, however the first two I took for PCOS but unknowingly had really bad endo. I had surgery to remove all my endo and took clomid the next cycle and fell - so technically it was the first round after my surgery.
And sorry ladies I tried putting the app on my phone but it doesn't like the app either :/ so I can't get a photo up!

MrsGoodies i have the exact same problem with my family.

I have always got things for their birthdays until last year when I had enough. They are in their late teens now anyway.

One of my elder boys kept asking when he was going to get his present and that it wasn't fair (i ended up having to ask in the end) because my other son got something for his birthday the week before his.

Even a card with $5 or some cheap toy would suffice. Ive told my kids not to expect anything however its frustrating when one received something for his birthday a week earlier.

I just hope my boys are paying attention and they know who is there for them and caring.



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Have you ladies ever felt like you have the flu right after your bfp? I have a headache, my nose is running (I also suffer with seasonal allergies), and every joint in my body aches like I have the flu. I'm not nauseous or anything, but this isn't a lot of fun. haha

Ash-AF has been short for me too, not sure why...but I'd like to think it's a sign of good things this cycle haha.
Maxim-you never know, things may work out this cycle even without a dr visit. Fx it's meant to be!!
Skyblue-I think we're cycle buddies & along with Ash too, my AF is pretty much over. So ready to get on to the next 2WW already!
MrsGoodies-I don't blame you for feeling annoyed! I'm soo not good with confrontation, but seems like a given to bring a gift to any party you're invited to! Is this typical of them?

Srg-pretty sure that's common in early pregnancy. Hope you feel better!!
Iwant4-forgot to mention...can't wait to hear about your OB appt coming up!!

Just another quick drop in about yet another dream. This one was just as traumatic but for the right reasons 😂😂

Anyone who doesn't watch The Walking Dead won't get it.....

Ok I dreamt I was madly making out with Darryl Dixon and I woke up just as things were getting heavy and I was unbuckling his belt 😢😢😢 all I have is a memory of too much tongue when kissing but his body felt AMAZING 😂😂😂 I tried sooo hard to get back to sleep and back into the dream but I couldn't 😢

So happy Rick and Negan weren't in it because I might have simply died if I woke up from that scenario 😂😂😂

Be reading up again soon but getting excited about everyone approaching the 2ww again 😀😀

Ash just quickly do you think you can convince hubby to have a 'spell' from bding when your opks start darkening? Even for a night! Please try and refrain from twice a day in your fertile window you superhuman bd'ers 😂😂

Pbn - I laughed so hard reading your post. I am a huge walking dead fan. I can totally understand waking up from
such an amazing dream [emoji7][emoji7][emoji7][emoji13][emoji13][emoji41][emoji41][emoji41]. Funny I can totally picture you trying hard to go back to sleep. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] How I wish I could get a piece of Rick. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]Dh and I are huge fans and watch together. But Thankfully it wasn't Rick or Negan in your dream. I would have someone hit me so that I pass out just to get back to dreamland if it came to that.Boy, Your dreams are intense. [emoji4][emoji4][emoji4][emoji4]

Ash - We all are jealous of you guys. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] I feel worried that I have to ask DH to BD 3 times in two days again. [emoji51][emoji51][emoji51]


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Sky it's awesome you love TWD too!!! You totally get my devastation at waking up then 😂😂😂 on a side note, I sent you a pm :)

For the record, he didn't smell near as nasty as he looks on the show (the man looks like he hasn't showered since the acopolyse or maybe longer 😂😂) in my dream I noticed no bad smell at all,I was too busy 😂😂. But dang he is one sexy man even with all the dirt (maybe abit because of it 😂😂)

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For the record, he didn't smell near as nasty as he looks on the show (the man looks like he hasn't showered since the acopolyse or maybe longer [emoji23][emoji23]) in my dream I noticed no bad smell at all,I was too busy [emoji23][emoji23]. But dang he is one sexy man even with all the dirt (maybe abit because of it [emoji23][emoji23])

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Tell me about it. I love Daryl,Rick and Negan. Dirt and smell has nothing on them. [emoji38] You know Jeffery dean Morgan who plays Negan, is my favorite ever since I saw him on a short role in Grey's Anatomy and when I saw him on TWD I was so excited and then shocked that he is the bad boy. [emoji51][emoji51][emoji51][emoji51]I still love him though.


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Oh yeah he does it sooo well though 😍😍😍

I'm going too far with this now but I'll still go there because I cant say all this to dh 😂😂 but I seriously just walked out the back, looked up and seen a penis cloud 😂😂😂 dh may be getting lucky tonight 😂😂😂

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Oh yeah he does it sooo well though [emoji7][emoji7][emoji7]

I'm going too far with this now but I'll still go there because I cant say all this to dh [emoji23][emoji23] but I seriously just walked out the back, looked up and seen a penis cloud [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] dh may be getting lucky tonight [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]

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You crack me up always. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]


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Wish I'd got a pic but by the time I thought about it, it looked like it'd been in a farm accident 😂😂

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Iwant4kids-that is awesome! So happy for you!!! Enjoy your camping trip & leave any worries behind :)
Pbn-enjoy your time away too! Sounds like you are having fun!
Dancingdiva-you're right, the Ava bracelet may not be as accurate. It's an interesting concept & I would try it if it didn't cost an arm & a leg ;)
That is too funny babypink!! Super random that someone would say that to you so matter of fact...fx they are right! ...and just can't help it, I def look at those dresses & dream!! I have 2 nieces both turning 1, one later in April, other in May. So I have been looking at all the girly stuff & dreaming of my own baby girl one day! So how many dpo are you & when will you test? We love to POAS & stare at them here lol. Unfortunately, mine were all boring this last cycle & not even a hint of anything to squint at :( I'm just waiting for AF to end so I can start all over. I just have a good feeling this cycle!
Maxim-sorry for the BFN, but excited you will visit the dr. You will be on your way to a BFP before you know it! Jealous about trying the clomid or femara haha ;) I'm trying one more cycle, then I may go to the dr myself!

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Not sure when I O'd since my cycles have been very weird from BF and starting and stopping BC. I think I either O'd on the day we BD'd or shortly after. I'm starting to think we didn't conceive this cycle, so I think I better start doing a better job at tracking.

Congrats to all getting BFP! So exciting!

@cosmo I've already interpreted this latest dream as unfulfilled desires, no google required 😂😂

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@cosmo I've already interpreted this latest dream as unfulfilled desires, no google required ����

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loooooooool!! you are funny! XD

I've never seen TWD, but sounds like I need to start... :)

babypink, were you not temping or doing opk's (sorry if I missed it)? I love temping so I know exactly what's going on (my type A personality coming through).

OMG pbn & skyblue-you are too funny!
Babypink-just started temping for the first time last cycle & agree with maxim, love how you can track what's going on!!


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lol don't be jealous of the BDing it's brutal [emoji23] seems like I get a break sometimes when he goes to lift weights with a buddy so I'm hoping that can be close to O. He says he is finally getting to do it as much as he wants he isn't going to hold back if we're trying [emoji849] he doesn't care about trying for girl or boy he thinks we will get what we're meant to have no matter what we do!


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I like that mentality ash...as much as we want it one way or another, I do believe everything happens for a reason!

Lola, are you doing vag temps?

Maxim-I'm doing vag temps & have found it to be more accurate. Are you going to try it this time?
We just got home from a spring festival. My boys were terrified of the Easter bunny lol...I think I scarred them for life trying to get a pic with this larger than life creature hahaha. We were in line for balloons with a Mom who was pregnant-she already had 2 boys and expecting a 3rd baby...she didn't want to find out gender. Think she was going for the girl, but afraid of knowing. I think I will have to find out when the time comes!


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I will totally find out Lola if I'm not old enough to qualify for the genetics I'm going to pay for an elective like I have with all my boys in the past at 15weeks


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I am thinking of going team green. We will see. It's going to be hard though. [emoji51][emoji51]


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