That's brave. I have the same plans when I get a bfp. Let's see if I can keep up or cave in. For now just wanting a bfp. [emoji4][emoji4]
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That's brave. I have the same plans when I get a bfp. Let's see if I can keep up or cave in. For now just wanting a bfp. [emoji4][emoji4]
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You team green ladies are crazy! Lol how in the world do you have that kind of patience
Wow shan, good for you!! I wish I could be that brave...I want to know gender NOW and I'm not even pregnant LOL!!!!
Thanks sky & lola, all good and hoping that maybe it flushed something out that will help with this cycle. Having some serious cramps now, but hoping it goes away soon. Lola, I just looked online and saw that he only tested for Estradiol, Third Generation and Follicle Stimulating Hormone (FSH), Serum. Is that enough?? Augh....and my results for those aren't back yet.
Sky, your temps look great! Maybe an implantation dip?? :)
Sky a dip at 3dpo means nothing and will temp will likely go up again tomorrow. Its the temps from 6dpo onwards that count. Surprised ff hasn't shifted crosshairs, maybe tomorrow... you can try ticking the discard box for temps on cd15 and 16 and see if that shifts them for now?
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Pbn, Where are you? Hope u slept well..
Max-How are u feeling?
LMSM - How are u doing?Did af come or still just spotting? And next one is the The cycle. 🤞🤞🤞
Kat - How are u? I wish to sleep through the 2WW too. [emoji4][emoji12][emoji12][emoji12]Glad that I have all of u waiting with me. I would go nuts alone.
Mummy - Did u POAS?
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Sky-Max may be right...implantation dip possibly???
Max-I had Anti-mullerian hormone (AMH) tested-which checks for egg quality (decreases with age-so maybe he did that b/c I'm 38) and also bw for thyroid. I'm sure pbn will be able weigh in on what tests you need-I'm new to this!
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Thanks Pbn.. I must be typing when u replied. Should the temp be going up after 6dpo?
Lolla,Max - How I wish..[emoji4][emoji4][emoji4]I was bummed to see the dip then googled and read about the implantation dip. Not sure if that's what it is but happy to not be out as yet. 🤞🤞🤞🤞
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Kat hubby is pretty reserved at the best of times lol and I think we are both just waiting to see if I make 12 weeks :) My boys are 5.5 and 3.
Shann great to hear from you!!
Maxim glad its done and wasn't too bad. You're all shiny and new for this cycle 😀 bring it on!!
Mummy2boys cant wait for tomorrows test!
Lola cant wait till next week!!
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Shann-awesome to go team green!!! I did that for DS2 & it really made that day extra exciting! The dr's & nurses get excited for you too b/c you see that many team green's these days. However, I'm with Max this time around!! I need to know NOW lol!
Ladies you wouldn't see an implantation dip until 7-11dpo. Its just not possible prior to that as that would be far too early for implantation to take place. There may be some confusion as to what dpo you are sky because ff has your crosshairs in the wrong spot :)
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I agree Pbn. FF does that to my chart every cycle. I knew it's too soon to be an implantation dip. I was just happy that it doesn't mean anything negative. Let's see if ff changes anything tomorrow.
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Also I think there's some confusion about egg testing. Amh gives results on ovarian reserve (as in whether you have a lot or a little) there is no test for 'quality'. My amh and fsh were woeful and is why I was given clomid to try and get pregnant quicker through extra released eggs, the downside is clomid can make what little reserve you have go down quicker.
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LMSM where's that test picture? I see the temp rise [emoji322]
Yes LMSM did you test??
It's my ds1's very first sports carnival at school today. I'm so excited!!!! I can't wait to see him do some athletics! Luckily dh is home to look after ds2 so I can go for the whole day!!
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Pbn-thanks for the clarification! First time getting all of this fertility bw!! Have fun at the sports the carnival!! :)
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Pbn - yay for a fun distraction! Our kids are almost the same age! I totally get the reserved husband thing. I had a chemical before my second baby and my husband wouldn't even almost acknowledge I was pregnant again until the ultrasound. Everyone deals with things differently!
Sky - I'm good. I remember now why I dislike temping. I don't sleep well. I start getting anxious early in the morning that I won't be able to temp. So basically I'm tired [emoji23] But, a long Memorial Day weekend will be nice!
Um, so I told my sister today we are TTC (mistake) and she said she never had to think about a 3rd because she had a girl and boy (face palm) seriously? I'd love a boy but I wouldn't be trying if I didn't want a 3rd child in general. Ugh!!! Comments are why I want to go team green, BUT I'd never be able to go team green [emoji23]
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Ohhhh where is LMSM's chart?? :)
I was wondering too!! LSMS have you tested today?!?!
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Woohoo Kat your chart is looking fab!
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Kat-I know how you feel with annoying comments like that...as if you HAD to have a 3rd b/c you didn't get a PP...smh. I guess when I look at from other perspectives, people assume that this time you're "trying for the boy" or "trying for the girl." One of my coworkers is pregnant with her 4th and she has 3 boys...I'm not gonna lie...I wondered if she was trying for the girl, but certainly didn't ask lol!
So DS1 just had his 1st school program and it was great, BUT I feel completely defeated and cried the whole way home. I've been so emotional over the last week! After the program, DS2 didn't want to hold my hand in the parking lot & broke free & started running all over the parking lot. I'm chasing him with DS2 in my arms b/c people are backing up theirs cars everywhere. He almost gets hit by a car to the point that other parents are yelling & signaling for the car to stop. I felt completely overwhelmed & burst into tears feeling like a complete failure b/c I can't control my children. I'm embarrassed that I'm sure many saw me crying...several parents ran to assist me which was so kind...just overwhelmed! DS2 chokes yest & DS1 almost gets hit by a car today...ugh. Sorry for venting!
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I m so sorry Lolla. Hugs. It's bn rough two days for u. That must have bn so scary. I would cry my eyes out too over it. I am glad everything is ok. You are an awesome mom doing what's best for the kids and family. There are days when it all seems hard but it's just a rough day. Yesterday, I thought I messed up my dd trying to teach her the right things and it just backfired and today it seems like nothing happened. Give those beautiful boys a big hug and don't think too much. If it's making You worry u a lot, may I ask if u would be interested in buying the toddler leash thing for your peace of mind. Hope u don't mind me saying this. One of my girl friend used it regularly so I bought it for my sister's son too because he is a handful. She loved it and still uses it. He is almost 4 and a half. You can always vent here. This has become my safe place. ❤️❤️
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Lola, we ALL have those days!! I'm so sorry, rough few days but it can only get better. And it also gets sooo much easier the older they get. [emoji8]
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I hear you Kat. Every morning, I take my temps 10 times in my sleep only to wake up and realize that it was my crazy sleeping dreaming self. I obsess over my temps too. [emoji12][emoji12]Quote:
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I m sorry for what your sister said. Comments like these scare me too. I m not someone who will confront anyone specially my sisters. [emoji849][emoji849]
That's why I have just told the families that we are ttc soon. If I give them a time then they would be up in my business. I can't handle that. Every month I won't get a bfp, would be broadcasted on the family channel. [emoji12][emoji12][emoji12][emoji12][emoji12]Don't pay too much attention. I just feel that there are two kinds of people in this world,one who get everything they desire without even lifting a finger and other who have to work hard for it. I m in the second category. I have friends who have had an oops bfp and it turned out to be perfect other gender for them. I m happy for them but jealous too. I m happy I found this site and all u wonderful people and I count my blessings. Lecture over. [emoji847][emoji847][emoji847][emoji847]
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LMSM - Where are you and How are you? Your temp looks great. Did u test???[emoji51][emoji51][emoji51]
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Kat, sorry I missed the comment from your sister. Trust me, I've gotten every comment imaginable from friends and family that know we are ttc...most think that we are totally crazy to go back to the newborn phase after life has gotten so much easier, but you have to just listen to your heart. If you want it, go for it and disregard all the other commentary!
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Sorry ladies, for not coming earlier but June cycle here I come! Starting spotting red so AF is here as I thought
Will read you tonight if I get a chance, FX for you all in the tww !
Thank you sky & max! Those were just the words I needed to hear! I know I shouldn't complain b/c I know there are others in far worse situations, but when it comes to my babies & feeling helpless like I can't keep them safe...it just eats me up inside!
Kat-I think you're going to see some crosshairs tomorr [emoji322]
Sky-interested to see what your chart does & if ff shifts it. Forgot that you may not actually be 6dpo when I was thinking of the implantation dip. If you're actually 3dpo...then we're on the same day! When are you going to test? Since these OSOM tests that I ordered are supposed to be extra sensitive...I may test as early as Tuesday eek!!
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Sky-I meant to respond...I see how a toddler leash is so necessary in times like those. I would so use one if I felt like I wouldn't be judged. You know how people are that don't understand sometimes!!
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Lolla - It will be fun to test together if all goes well. Yes I am 3dpo. Ff does that to me every cycle. [emoji4]
I have the curvy frer and a few wondfos. [emoji51][emoji51][emoji51]🤞🤞🤞🤞
I know about people judging. Don't worry, you won't need it. I m sure everything will be good. We all have these days. Hugs.
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LMSM - Booo af. But 'the cycle' begins. Good luck and we will be cheering each other on. Go girl. ❤️❤️❤️
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Thanks hon ! Just drugging myself up coz man the pain...and did some toddler lifting to get into exercise gear hahaQuote:
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Will be back tonight to read you all!!
Kat-I spy crosshairs! [emoji322][emoji322] We are only a day apart! When will you test?? Sky will be right there with us if/when the chart shifts!
LMSM-sorry for AF! March babies are awesome though! (I'm partial b/c DS2 is a March baby lol). I have a good feeling about your next cycle 🤞🏻🤞🏻Hope your pain goes away soon!
Max-you're on track for a Feb baby right? Hoping & praying with all my might that this is our cycle...since neither one of us are taking the "magic pill" maybe, just maybe...things will happen naturally soon 🤞🏻🤞🏻
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Lola - sorry you've had a couple of rough days!! We all have those days. My 2nd did that one time and I didn't sleep for a week bc I kept visioning her being hit. You are a good Mom. And I do think kids act worse/crazy when you decide you want another one [emoji23]
So my plan is to do what Ash did and do the opks around 5/6 dpo and see if they get darker. Then start with a wondfo htp around 9/10?? That's my thoughts just for fun bc I have so many! It's really comical that I'm so positive about this cycle bc I'm usually a realist and 10/15% chance is not great [emoji854]
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Oh and this AM I was totally temping under the covers with both kids in the room [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] Fun times. It was later than normal hence the open circle!
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Love that your positive kat! Your attempts are on point! We need daily updates on the opk so we can judge the fade [emoji23].
Lola, sky I'm sooooo ready for everyone to start testing and have everyone back together in one group. The ddg that is. Hopefully a busy fun filled weekend will make the time pass a little quicker!
AFM I realized the other day I have a phone call with an rn in my ob office to get all my medical history before my appointment AND it's next Thursday the first. So I should be able to find out if I can have the nipt done. Only 6 days of torture left to find out!
And I just got a reminder it's Friday not Thursday [emoji30] 7 more days of torture lol
Sky can you try discarding or removing temps from cd15 and 16 to see if your crosshairs shift? You may need to do cd13 as well if they don't move....
Hi everyone!! Huge day yesterday but was so much fun watching my ds1 all day at sports! Brought back alot of memories from my own sports days many many years ago 😂😂😂
Cant wait for a few more days to pass so the bfps can begin!!!!
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I did that and ff changed the chart and I m at 4dpo.
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Ash-so excited for you!! Hope this weekend/week flies by for you & have something planned for the long weekend! Def update us here too!! Hopefully we will all be able to join you before too long fx!!!
Sky-yay, we're officially dpo twinsies now!! [emoji322]
Pbn-glad you had a great day! I know DS1 was proud to have you there [emoji4]
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