Surgena, I see two lines! FX for you!!!!!
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Surgena, I see two lines! FX for you!!!!!
I see a line!! are you testing again with FMU??
evaps are less common with pink dye tests :)
Yeah, I only have one test left... nervous to use it!
BFN digital test.
Bah! Stupid rollercoaster. :(
I don't mean to be a downer, but i had this on one of mine and it was an evaporation line. Do you have any more tests? Can you do another one? I hope I am wrong! fx!!
Oh, sorry, it must not have rephreshed and I didn't see your other post. Sorry for the bfn.
I'm going to be on clomid too. This will be the first time I am using it. I think I take it CD3-7. Have to check, have it here ready for me to use this coming cycle. I WANT twins!! DH knows the increased chance and is TOTALLY fine with it, but not so fine trying for a 4th so I'm reallly praying!
Amari~ Thanks for the info on the new thread I'm going to check it out. I've been meaning to PM you been so busy Friday and Saturday. Need to get through the rest of the posts here too.,
Suregena~ Sorry your body is driving you crazy! I'd order the stuff now too, or I have Amazon prime (anyone whose a mom can get a free trial (BTW) for like over a year. You get free 2 day shipping on eveyhting that qualifies for prime shipping, its AMAZING. You get extended as you order more things. This way you can order stuff at CD1 and have it by CD3don't know if they do this outside the US.
Kraisy~ NOt long now...YAY!!! Keep us posted :)
Lemon~ Hi mama, where have you been.
Pinkin~ I get where you are coming from, but on the other hand if you never try you for sure get BFN's!
So anyone else feel like the days they have off are busier then when you work (if you work)! The last 2 days were like 12 hrs non stop between school projects, bday parties, errands etc. Did the COOLEST 100 day of school project for DS1 Kindergarten project. DS whose a budding artist drew what he wanted to do, we went to the art supply and bought all the materials. We took a huge poster board made and made a 3 dimensinal ship with a mast, sail, men, and cannons. We used 100 mini black pom poms shooting from the cannons and spelled out "100" and had cannon balls all over the sky. Want to post a pic but its so hard to get a good one that shows all the detail. No wonder I have boys sounds so obsessional!! DH really did most of it and me and DS helped, DS made all the extras that got glued on- it was actually fun as a family to do :)
Anyone else celebrate this? Seems to be a big thing here.
I've just got everything on order and am just going to sit and wait. Wednesday will be 1 week that AF is late (and I hope it comes before then!), which is very, very, VERY unusual for me. I cannot even remember the last time I have ever been late. I don't think I ever have been. The supps must do a number on your body! The ANNOYING thing is I have been cramping for AGES now and nothing is happening. It makes it all the more maddening. :(
sorry for your BFN suregena hun, if you took vitex it can really mess with your cycle so can stress and weight loss, thats about everything we do for a sway !!! bloody bodies !
il be on clomid too this cycle peony il start it cd 2, im at 9dpo today and last month AF was here at 12dpo so wont be too long now i hope ! has major cramping all day yesterday i thought it was on its way but no,
how is everyone else ?
I"m sick with a sinus cold thing, so not feeling so good atm :( I'm sneezing so hard I'm afriad I'm going to sneeze the baby out!
My nausea hasn't really been around for three days, and while at first I was excited about this, now I'm worried that maybe something happened to my bean? I go in my 8 week scan tomorrow and really, really think seeing the heartbeat will be great reassurance!
Hope and Dreams, the school project sounds awesome! How cool to work together as a family on it. Twins would be so awesome!! FX you get sweet baby girl twins on clomid!
Surgena, sorry about the BFN :( I was hoping you just had a late implanter that was causing the tests to be neg be4. I hope AF does eventually show up then so you can start with CD1.
OOTB, I hope your AF has come by now....
Amari and little miss, good luck with attempts coming up on Clomid.
sorry if I forgot anyone else...much :heart: ...gonna go lie down for a while now.
And you know, that line is less noticable this morning AND there is what I believe is the evap line... i.e. a stark white line same width as the control line, but blank/colorless.
Sigh. Oh well, in a way it's a relief because so many things went wrong with 'cheats' (friend visits, son's birthday, Christmas, etcetera!) as well as getting hang of the diet in meals that will 'work' and be easy for me (which I worked out halfway through) and it was almost like a practice round, so I feel more confident this round.
... so, AF, please, please start... enough with this drawn out cramps... this is my last month to try before I have to pause for some months! :(
...and I have TWO boxes of clearblue digital OPKs coming. Count 'em! TWO!
That will leave NO guessing work this time around for me!
And, I have to say, even though my husband thought I was being totally goofy to try this "science project" (what we are calling it since we're fine with another boy since we only have one child right now), he got really diligent about his "duties" and taking the licorice root and so on... it was helpful for him to 'play along' so well!
thanks auroara hun, i cant wait super excited now !
I'm here today as super Debbie Downer but I am so sad/mad/aggravated I am super crabby at home and I feel guilty. I'm still not sure what DPO I am but I feel very much like AF will be arriving shortly. Every pg test I take that is negative sends me spiraling to another level of depression. I know it's ridiculous to have thought I'd get a BFP right away but why let me get pregnant last month (in a big time oops) only to have a chemical miscarriage? Add that to my age and I have a lot against me. I had to go shop for my 2 yr old nieces birthday yesterday and no lie I almost completely lost it in Gymboree. The girl clothes slay me every time. I got the cutest lavender tutu with a beautiful little shirt that had small sparkly lavender butterfly wings on the back. REALLY??? Just put a knife in my heart ( can you tell I'm a drama queen)?
I obsess over every test. I take them apart just to be sure there is no faint line. I'll be in a straight jacket before maternity clothes!
I'm sorry to all of you that are feeling the same pain and frustration. I am keeping up with each of you and still holding out hope for a number of you. Just having a rough time sorry to be so depressing! Thanks for letting me rant!!
I am just curious who here is temping their cycles? I use a bbt thermometer and also a Clearblue Easy fertility monitor that I borrowed from a friend. I have been off the pill for four months (test cycles only, no ttc) and all four months the temping and monitor completely agreed on my o day each time. I know I tried using the cheapie opks when trying to get pg the first time and I did not know what to make of them at all. If I didnt temp I would be lost.
I just feel so badly for everyone who is being tormented by late afs and I wonder if they are not late at all, but rather o came later than usual. I dont think atomic checks in on this thread or she might be warning about stress making t levels spike. Temping doesnt work for everyone (the friend who loaned me her monitor could not temp because she works staggered shifts and never wakes at the same time). It is a bit of a hassle but it is sure worth it to be able to confirm that o actually happened.
I am sending lots of relaxing vibes to everyone. Fx for afs, bfps, and pink dust all around! And if your dh can throw in a backrub, even better! ::hugs::
Sis4O~ please don't be sorry, and I'm far from a drama queen-far far from it- and that put a knife through my heart. I WANT to buy that for a DD so bad its beyond words. I had high hopes for you after eveything being in the hopital with DS and all... but its not over right.
Auroara~ Fell better hun. I meant to add before I remembered your scan was tomorrow, good luck :) I'll be checking in.
Dramabird~ I temp- I don't actually know how ladies do without it. You can check out my charts below by my siggy. I was super sick in December thats why its all over the place in that month. I don't think its hard at all. The second I wake up, I stick it in my mouth, relax for a few minutes till it beeps (its nice to stay cozy in bed for a few mins) and then just put it in the FF app on my phone next to my bed. MY DS's also know I'm not moving till its done! They wait to have their tushies wiped in my bathroom till I'm done!!!! LOL
I am worried because i know it will be difficult not only the work part,but since this is my last baby i want to really take it all in you know and with 2 i think it might be difficult ..but i think if it happens then i will be totally o.k with it,my sister has twin girls naturally ,i really doubt i will have twins though.
Sis4o, I am sorry you are feeling down. It's not over till the fat lady sings, so try to stay optimistic. I know it is hard, but try. We are all rooting for you!!!
My DH is such a dorkfish sometimes, he just bought me OPK sticks for my CB monitor and not just the digital smiley face OPKs. Almost 60 bucks for something I already have!!! GRRRRRRHHHH!!! Men!!!!!!
:wave: ladies can i join you? The witch got me yesterday :( so now on CD2 and this will be month 2 ttc!
We did a very hard sway in Jan with herbs, antihistamines, rephresh and tbm splime etc but i think this attempt we will keep everything the same but drop the splime tbm and go for natural.
Think we will go for O+12 with DH abstaining. :nails:
This thread goes fast so i will do my best to keep up! Eeek
GL to those ttc and GL to those testing soon xxx
hi guys i hope you all start feeling better soon with feeling down and depressed, i will no doubt be in the same boat after my first attempt, i too temp would be like a fish outta water if i didnt, and im up in the night sometimes with DS2 and i still get a really good chart through my cycle, 9dpo today come af i wana start my comid lol !
hey happy lea im doing a 0+12 too with abstinence of 2 weeks im on clomid,
it is recommended yes, but i have some studies that say 0+12 on clomid is a great way of getting a girl basically, so il try it prob just the once and see what happens,
im still umming and arring about the 0+12 to be fair RF so i may just do a one bd on O day closer to O to achieve pregnancy,
one try at it probably won't do any harm, then! how good are you at timing OV?
the last 2 months not to bad, ive got to do it as soon as i see creamy cm thats right isnt it ?
that's not always a guarantee... some women have a day or two of EWCM following OV before the CM turns creamy (I've had this a couple of cycles, but not every cycle). By the time the CM turns from EWCM to creamy the egg could be dead as it only lives for 24hrs unless fertilised
Hi dramabird :bighug: cycle buddy, lets see those BFP's this month!!! :D Are you swaying? What kind of sway you doing?
Good Luck, Im not on clomid but would like to give it ago for at least 1 cycle. I think i have become pretty good at tracking my cycles so :fx: i get it right and those :pinksperm: get my egg. Is your other half ok with the abstinance? My DH just said tell me when and where and i will do it. I would like to abstain from now but my cycles vary and ov could be CD15 to CD21 so i think i maybe release onceabout CD4 or CD5 before the abstinance, otherwise he would drive me insane :rofl:
Would like to send babydust to all and hope we get some pink sticky beans very soon xxxx
my DH is the same lol he will do as i ask of him bless him, im not on cd 1 yet but hes already abstaining hmmmmmm im thinking we need to dtd some more before AF shows so its not too long to abstain,
Bless him, lol! I wish i had done same before my AF arrived. My cycles are quite long so should be able to let him have abit of fun before the torture of abstinance :rofl: Dont think he could do it month after month after month tho. But as he works shifts he couldnt do FR.
Its so funny my DH is also taking licquorice root and he says it has a horrid taste when taking the pill, i laugh so much when he takes it but bless him he takes it religiously except once when he took my one of my vitex instead by mistake. I told him he was going to grow boobies, swaying can be fun :D
Dramabird, my DH is a goofygoober as well LOL! Still irritated about it. So he is taking them back to the store whether he likes it or not! He was like, oh, I thought you said, blah blah blah....!!! LOL!
AF is finally here! :cheerteam: Which makes my theory seem more plausible that I never did o when the opk said I was going to on the 15th and acutally o'd when I was having all that over stim pain on the 26th. I will talk to the ob about it tomorrow at my apt but the dates sure do add up better. But that would mean another month went by with zero chance at conception since we didn't have sex at that time!! AAAhhhh!
I think you will just have to BD every day in February Amari!! Problem solved - lol. I think my AF should start tomorrow or Wed, so I'll be right behind you!
:flowerz:My Diva Cup runneth over, lol....AF has come!!! :flowerz:
Thank you everyone for sending AF vibes my way! It worked!
Ootb and amari- yay for AF. A while new start!!!
Aurora- wanted to wish you good luck today at your scan :)
Happylea- welcome!