Cocoo I feel the same way when I see a mom with 2 boys and a girl. And I always see them too
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Cocoo I feel the same way when I see a mom with 2 boys and a girl. And I always see them too
I know what you mean about fate. I had signs everywhere. You name it, it pointed in the direction of a girl. And this is my first real sway. I just thought everything lined up and this was it. I've had a bad day today with gd. I really hate it. It's put me in a very strange place. I need to be thankful for what I have and move on...after a few more days of crying...lol.
And again ladies, please know I do feel blessed to have a girl and I'm not trying to rub it in anyone's face. My desire to give her a sister is worse than the desire I had for her...if that makes sense. I'm upset that many women here didnt get the gender they swayed for. I don't like to think there's anyone out there feeling like I do today. I really wish we could all get together. It would make me feel so much better!!!
So I was reading and it seems like a lot of peris make gender guesses at 12 weeks! I don't know if it's bc they look for early gender signs bc of genetic disorders that occur in only one sex or what. Anyway now I'm freaking out even more!!
I wonder why? That's interesting. With dd I saw a peri (partial previa) and they did lots of us but were very businesslike and wouldn't talk about gender at all. Of course, that was 9 years ago lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by spinningmadly
My Doppler arrived today and I just found the hb. 164 bpm. It is so reassuring to hear! I'm trying not to be nervous about my nt scan tomorrow. It's at 820 central time so I should have an update pretty early in the day.
good luck shell on NT scan :)
Goodluck for tomorrow Shell :)
Good luck shell xx
Good luck for your scan Shell.
Lassie - I would guess girl from that u/s but I'm no expert on nubs. Fx for you! x
Good luck today at your scan shell
Lassie such a cute baby :) can't see a obvious nub though xx
Good Luck Shell :)
Oh winngrin, sorry that you didn't hear girl. But congrats on your little boy. I'm so surprised at all the failed sways so far, fx that the numbers start improving soon x
Good luck today Shell x
It's so hard to keep up with this thread because it moves so quickly (which is great that it is very active :-))
Sorry to hear about the opposites!! I went through GD with DS2.
Hopefully the scans in the future will start changing the odds on this thread.
NCBeachyGrl - Do you mind adding me to the list on the first page? Bub is due 22 April and we swayed :XX:
Thanks! :)
I'm so sorry for those who have heard the opposite of what they swayed for and thankyou to everyone who was so kind to me yesterday after my scan; we have not been told for sure that this is another boy, I am going purely on what I saw (although of that I am pretty certain) and the nub shot. It's so reassuring to have this group to talk to without anyone judging, I really appreciate your support and wise words. Am clinging onto that tiny ray of hope for now but I'm not even kidding myself at this point.
Big hugs to those who need them today and huge luck to Shell for your scan..
Beachy: it'd be great if you could add me to the list too, we didn't really sway as such as I had only just heard about it 2 weeks before I conceived but as you know we're desperate for a girl.
Considering the odds everyone on this thread should start having girls to make it even!! It's crazy
Hi all, I'm due in June so texting in another thread, but I do sometimes come over here and read your thread girls to see how you all are and if your sways worked. I'm so sorry to read that lots of you ladies who swayed pink are having blue. My heart is with you. I know that in the end you will all love your sons so much but I understand that you are heartbroken right now. I don't know yet what I'm having but am quite convinced that I'm carrying a boy and I'm already feeling sad about it, let alone when I hear 'It's a boy!', so I understand you. All this blue on this thread seems crazy, and it's making me feel less hopeful than I already was. I wish you all find peace within your hearts and for those who still have to find out, I wish you luck and that you have your desired gender. You are so lucky to have each other to support without judging here :)
I'm so sorry to hear about everyone's gender opposites! It really is unbelievable how poor our stats are for this group. I suppose on the upside, the good news is that everyone's babies appear to be very healthy, Which is such a blessing as we all know. I have my NT scan in six days, and I'm still not sure if I want to look for a nub. Our sonographer is known for being very open to making gender predictions at the NT scan. However, it seems like so many ladies in this thread have struggled mightily with gender disappointment, and I'm not sure if I can put myself through that at this point. I will be so happy and blessed to have a healthy baby of any gender, but this is our last and to know with finality that I will only be the mother of boys is something I'm not quite ready to deal with. I change my mind back-and-forth on the whole thing at least four or five times a day-ha ha! So we shall see. My heart goes out to all of you ladies, and I know from the bottom of my heart that you will adore those sweet, wonderful little boys when they arrive. Xoxo
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Tech says she thinks maybe boy because she thought she saw something "sticking out" but said she's nowhere near sure. What do you think of this nub?
Sure! When is your due date?Quote:
Originally Posted by Sunshiner
NCBeach - can you add me as well? Due May 14, swayed pink.
Awe Jheitz that's my b-day:) I'm due May 23, swayed boy but my nub is alllll girl. GL to you!
Oh NCBeach can you add me too? Due May 23, swayed boy :) Thank you!
:) I swayed girl but the one possible nub shot I got looks all boy to me. GL to you as well!Quote:
Originally Posted by Mae
I just got caught up reading through this thread and it looks like we're the bad luck club:) Lots of opposites, so we may fit right in! At least we'll have each other, as I don't plan to talk to anyone else about GD. GL to those still hoping!!
Okay, put up a nub thread:
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ultr...-nub-pics.html
I just want to be prepared if this is a boy, because I know I will need time to get used to the idea.
Hi Beachy I am due March 26th, thankyou!
I just got a call from the u/s place I went to for my gender scan. They want me to come back in because they weren't happy with the pics they got. WHAT???? It's not that close and I was stuck in tons of traffic. I know it's a boy. Why do they care??
OK ladies I need some help here. I thought I would be better today but I'm not. I cannot wrap my mind around this baby being a boy. I so strongly felt it is a girl. I still do and am obsessing over stories online of women who were told boy at 16 weeks and then girl at. their big 20 week scan. I can't let go and am probably not going to be able to until the 20 week scan if boy is confirmed. I'm obsessing over my potty shot. One looks very boy, one looks like cord, one has 3 lines but the middle line starts further out. I can't post the pictures from my phone and our laptop is done for.
Is this denial? Grief? Mother's intuition?
Weird Three, maybe they got it wrong?!
Big :hugs: to those who need them, my heart goes out to those of you feeling down right now.
I'm trying not to stress out but pelvic pressure started yesterday, just shy of week 17. Didnt happen until week 19 with my angel.. Waiting for my Peri's office to call back to see what they say. What I wouldn't give for a normal cervix. :(
3M, when are yo going?? That would instantly drive me crazy!
Winn, I am in the same position as you! I refuse to 100% accept this is a boy until my next ultrasound. My potty shots sucked and I don't believe the, yet. I too have been obsessing online over stories of wrong gender guesses at 16 weeks. So you are not alone and not crazy...just hopeful!
I know they didn't. I swear one of the pics looks more obvious than NC's new ones...lol. I'm thinking the only issue is the fact that the baby was upside down and the cord was all over the place. But she did get good shots. And she pointed out the penis and scrotom. We're having a nasty storm today so I told them there's no way I'm going.
And they were potty shots to boot. She said everything look good with the baby so I'm not concerned that he has any issues. I'm good never seeing that place again. The feeling I left with was terrible.
Here are all my confirmed boy pics...
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/conf...-16-weeks.html
I went back today and not one ounce of me was sad. I know you ladies will get there and it is hard to imagine being happy, but I promise it gets better. I already feel so much more connected to this baby than any of my other babies and I just feel like everything is meant to be. And...talking about signs...the owner of the private place was talking to me about how unfair it is that all these unfit mothers have kids and how there needs to be better parents and moms out there and that her biggest regret is that she didn't have one more baby. I knew right there that I was meant to have a 4th.
I am sorry so many ladies are suffering and sad. It does and it will get better. Big hugs!
Threemen - that is so strange! When is your u/s at the OB office? Maybe it would be best to wait until then if you don't feel like going back to that place. What a weird phone call for them to make!
My anatomy scan is the 28th of this month. I'm waiting till then. Weird though.
Thinking of you TT, I hope you can be seen and that it is nothing. I get pelvic pressure too but I can see how it makes you nervous with what happened last time.
TT I'm thinking of you and praying all is well! GL :bighug: