:( I am sorry ladies, I know exactly how you all feel, I was heartbroken when my 2nd one was a boy and it took me well after he was born to bond with him but I can't imagine my life without him!!!!
Hoping4agirl, I am sorry :(
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:( I am sorry ladies, I know exactly how you all feel, I was heartbroken when my 2nd one was a boy and it took me well after he was born to bond with him but I can't imagine my life without him!!!!
Hoping4agirl, I am sorry :(
Aidansmum - I wouldn't worry about the intelligender... I've heard it be wrong sooooooo many times!!! There's still plenty of hope for you!
Dreams - I'm sorry the bloodwork showed boy :( just try to focus on the fact that you have a healthy bubba! I know that's easier said than done! *hugs*
Hoping4agirl - I'm sorry for your loss hun :(
I am so sorry hoping4agirl.
Hoping- I'm so sorry..hugs to you.
Dreams- I'm sorry the blood work said boy, but congrats on a healthy little one.
Adiensmum- I wouldn't put much stock into intelligender. I think mine was a pink/ purple but more purple. The box said purple is boy..and we know that was wrong.. are you getting any blood work done or waiting for u/s?
I've been trying so hard to think blue.. But at night all I do is dream it's a girl and dream about finding out and dream about announcing it. I dream about it every night and it's exhausting... I wish I could stop :(
Sorry you heard boy, Aidansmum and Dreams529 :SS:
Dreams- it's not fair to be mad at yourself for being sad. You feel what you feel. Of course you're sad!
So sorry hoping :( hugs
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I'm sorry to hear that, Hoping4agirl. Take good care :sadflwr:
No one who does intelligender gets a girl result. Are you still eating the way you ate when you were swaying for a girl? If you drink a ton of cranberry juice before the test , like magic it turns orange! I bought 5 tests!! Yes, I am on crack, but I finally got smart with the test. Nothing about that test is real & everyone gets boy result. Just because u get a girl means that maybe that is how you eat and it really just goes back to how we all swayed and what we ate. 4 of my tests were all boy & then when i drank cranberry juice I then was amazed it was orange!!
I am so sorry dreams it stinks but in the end all that matters is the baby is healthy, and I got a quick lesson that swaying at the end of the day doesn't matter at all & THE ONLY thing that matters is the health of your newborn baby.
Thank you everyone. I really didn't think hearing boy would hit me this hard. I am so very grateful I heard healthy boy instead of a girl with possible concerns. Don't know how I would of dealt with that. I know the sting will wear off eventually its not like I didn't know this was possible. I guess I just really thought I had such a good chance to hear pink I started to believe this may be a girl.
My 2cents if anyone has to get maternit21 maybe don't find out gender. I'm thinking this might not have been as bad if I had more time with baby before I found out. 11 weeks for me might just be to early to know I mean I haven't even felt my LO move yet. All I've been is sick & now let down. I've thought about trying again but that's not fair to anyone. My fingers are crossed for all those waiting to hear!