Just a quick hi to all you lovely ladies. I have just got back from a weeks holiday, so it will take me a while to catch up. Hope you are all going well, or at least as well as can be expected in the frustration that swaying can cause!
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Just a quick hi to all you lovely ladies. I have just got back from a weeks holiday, so it will take me a while to catch up. Hope you are all going well, or at least as well as can be expected in the frustration that swaying can cause!
I hear you! It's all a balancing act when starting off with not a lot to lose. My dh is putting up with it for me to and worried about my health too. I think you are doing a great job! Keep it up , and hopefully you won't have to for much longer!Quote:
Originally Posted by dramabird
ok, so I am 9dpo, did not test this morning. I really want a martini -- I am thinking to just go for it. If I am pg its sooo early it would not make a difference.
I will start testing tomorrow morning (10dpo) thru Friday (14dpo). If by Friday I stil have a bfn then I am out of the game and waiting for af to arrive next weekend.
I really don't know what to think. I feel like I have a good shot but I don't feel like I am that lucky.
I feel like with my luck, I am not pg and have totally messed up the diet in this 2ww. Watch, I will get pg next month after only being on the diet strict again for 2 weeks and it will be another boy. That there -- that is my luck. Just look at my sig and you can see my "luck".
PFP, I don't really believe in luck, but looking at your siggy, I believe you are truly blessed. The diet and swaying made me crazy, so I am just trying to keep everything low, no breakfast, changed Clomid from cd5-9 to cd3-7 (dont' tell my doc LOL) etc...and let what happens happen. I have come to terms with another boy and have been even thinking of names and so forth. I just want a baby at this point. To hold another in my arms and know that I don't have to give it back to it's momma is something I long for.
I don't think a little martini ever hurt anyone, so I think you would be okay in some much earned indulgence.
Praying for you a BFP soon! Can't wait to see two pink lines for you!!!! Amen!
Give yourself a drink hun, i think you need it to help the stress levels....Quote:
Originally Posted by prayforprincess
From the sounds of things, i dont think you have 'totally' messed up the diet either!! You've not been 100% but you have certainly been a lot stricter then some other successful girl sways.
Dont base your hope on previous 'luck', try and convince yourself that everything happens (or doesnt happen) for a reason. Maybe your failed attempts are because the little person that will be joining your family is only ready now, or next month.
Try and stay positive - positivity breeds positive energy, and that can only be a good thing.
Chin up hun! :)
Prayforprincess~ Now's the time for the martini bc you won't be able to have one for 9months!! Thats why I had the wine Fri, and Sat night! and it was soooo enjoyable. At our cal count too it really was relaxing-you could feel the alcohol!! Enjoy.. I feel exactly like you, I actually have the mind set I won't get a BFP, but yet I have the wine with the mindset I won't be able to drink for 9 months. I think seeing them in Nov. & FEb (my 2 other attempt) really knocked me off my horse-having a history of oopsie after oopsie. Then getting BFN with DTD 7 times in a fertile window. WTF is that! And if I get preg will it really be a girl? Can I be that blessed will it be my turn?
Thank you ladies...what would I do without you???
Seriously, I talk to my firends about you like you ar part of my real life. Its as if I talk to you girls daily, cause I do. I think others think i am crazy. Maybe I am. You are the only ones who understand.
Boobs hurt. So weird. Told my mom today that I think my body is changing. Maybe my progesterone is stronger than before because I never had soer boobs waiting for af one week early.
Who knows. Will test in the morning. I can't be having these drinks unless i know for sure I am in the clear.
I wish it was not so hard...emotionally.....
And I know what you are saying KD, I just wanna hold my baby in my arms. My best gf just had a bbay girl on Tuesday night and I hold her and cuddle her...I wanna keep her. I see her breast feeding and I want that again. I want a baby!
PFP - it's funny I was telling my mom and dh about u at dinner. They were saying what a great site it sounded like and how amazing we all support each other. I even told dh we were going to Boston one day if we both had girls! He was like ok cool I would like to see Boston! I thought he was going to tell me I was nuts!
Hey, girls! This site is great, isn't it! Swaying would be so much harder without each other!!
pfp-sore boobs is a good sign!
hope-how are you feeling?
I bought some preseed yesterday, do you all think I should use it? I am afraid to b/c of the blue sway factor, even though the site stats show it doesn't sway blue. But I am also afraid not to b/c I am pretty lacking in cm and don't want to not get pg b/c of it. Decisions, decisions. Still neg opk but I think we should dtd tonight even though dh already fr today, do you think that is ok?