Ladies wanting pink: My friend was told boy at 14 weeks and at 20 weeks she found out shes having a girl. They said her lady bits must have been swollen still. So keep hope alive! :)
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Ladies wanting pink: My friend was told boy at 14 weeks and at 20 weeks she found out shes having a girl. They said her lady bits must have been swollen still. So keep hope alive! :)
Sorry it took so long. We had to tell our family and well... IT's A BOY! I have to admit I am a little depressed. I know it will get better, but everything pointed to a girl. I tried not to get my hopes up but it was hard not too. He is adorable though and I know after I grieve for the little girl I thought I was getting I will be ok!! It doesn't help that our family is a little let down also. IT was hard to keep a smiling face when your family said "Oh no" "are you sure" "we were hoping it was a girl" I know that they will come around in time as well.
Im sorry sweet peas!!! I hate when people make remarks like that. I already warned my friends to just say Yay COnGrats! instead of oh man that sucks! They just looked at me funny. I tried to explain but if you dont have mulitple genders you just cant understand. I hope feel better soon!
Congratulations sweet pea! It may not be your dream gender, but you will love your darling little boy so much and he will bring huge joy to your life xx
[QUOTE=Lown;395758]Pinkprincess, I do not see anything that is penis like in your photos. I went for my scan a week ago and it looked just like yours, so different from everything else i had seen on the forum, because baby is upside down and viewed differently. all the lines seems to point in a different direction compared to the other 'nub' shots we see. If you look at the studies they discount all babies upside down. I asked the question about baby being upside down on the forum and the reply was you cannot tell.
I too spend the last week thinking I am having a boy because there was nothing girly about the scan and things just ' dangled' or looked 'stacked', I have finially hidden the scans and realised it is back to 50/50. You too are still at 50/50-hang on in there, fingers crossed we get our girls. /QUOTE]
I know with my 3 boys I DTD the day of O for DS1 and same again for DS2. DS3 I DTD 3 days before O. This time we DTD the day before O.
I've got just over a week till my gender scan now!
I hate that little voice in my head that every time I think "I'm going to see my baby boy, its going to be a boy for sure" says "its a girl" In the first weeks I thought it was my instinct because I had been right with all 3 boys but now after a very boyish nub and the more I learn about swaying and see what I probably did to get my other boys and how those things were not changed I think it has to be a boy. Theres no way it could be a girl.
A few little things were changed with out me knowing about swaying but not enough.
Just keep telling myself its a boy its a boy its a boy. And that voice is just wishful thinking.
I am feeling a little more depressed this morning and have been crying that baby is a boy. I prepared myself for this and promised that I wouldn't feel this way, but it still aches. Why couldn't it have been a girl!! I hope that these feeling go away soon.