Linz shine girly vote for me x
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Linz shine girly vote for me x
I hope you guys are right and part of the nub isn't hidden or it was a fluke nub shot!
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Linz
It looks super girly but I dont like to guess at this stage I believe its too early , because I saw super girly 12 weeks nubs ( at ingender confirmed boys nub) and they turned out to be boys !
If I were you I will wait till 15 weeks :)
Fx fx fx its your little girl :)
Well Happy New Year to you all!!! Hope the new year brings lots of lovely bubba's!
I told my family on boxing day we are expecting our 5th boy and got mostly positive comments but a few not so positive ones too.
Im ok with it but when on my own have shed a few tears, not because he is a boy but for what I will never have ;(
Hubby also said he would have liked a girl to have that daddy/daughter bond and I get upset that I can't give him that :(
Huge hugs HappyLea xxx
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Originally Posted by HappyLea
You would have given it if you could. You gave him 5 sons! What a treasure!
My dh said the same and felt guilty about giving ME a girl.
In the end we do get one but stop blaming yourself about giving him something.
You both recieved 5 boys.
I mean this in a kind way. Its just that we cant give in that way. We can try and with 5 children you both certenly did try.
And you may shed a tear. Just dont feel guilty in any way.
Glad most fam is sane and positive!!!
HappyLea - Huge hugs for what you are going through! We are here for you and I'm so happy you do have some family that is supportive.
I guess I'm lucky in that my DH doesn't want a daughter AT ALL so I don't feel guilty if we never have one. That being said it's more lonely this way because I'm the only one in the family that wants a daughter so I feel alone in my desire. DH just doesn't get it at all. DS is a true mini-me for DH - he looks just like him and already they are the best of friends. They love playing lightsabers together and soccer and DH loves dressing him in outfits that match daddy. I know none of that matters that much, but it's still a little hard thinking I may never have that sort of relationship for myself. That being said I think all of us boy moms are supremely blessed and lucky - my DS worships the ground I walk on and kisses and cuddles me non-stop and my mom (who had all girls) admits none of her daughters ever had that relationship with her growing up. There's somethng quite special about being surrounded by men that adore you! Every night I pray not for a daugther, but for peace and acceptance of the beautiful family I'm meant to have. May all of us find happiness in 2015 - either by fulfilling our GD or by finding freedom from it.
This is so well put--I too pray for peace and acceptance of the family I was meant a to have. I always thought I would have a daughter, and it just wasn't meant to be. I'm sure my boys will be into all sorts of boy stuff, and they will have lots of fun rough housing with each other, but I sure hope they still adore their mom the way your son adores you! My son is 1, so of course, he is still all cuddly, but who knows how long that will last.... Dh is such a hands on dad that my son is a bit of a daddy's boy, which is great, but sometimes it makes me feel that as they get older that I will be left out. But I suppose I am the one who makes the choice on how involved I get, so I guess I can choose to be part of all the boy activities...Quote:
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My son sees me the most but when dad comes home its straight to daddy because he is not around as much. Its part their choice and part your involvement :)
Well my dd adores me and her dad
But she is so her dady's girl , she even prefer him over me lol ! So I always thought having a boy will be momy's boy ! Hopefully :)
after Tomorrow is my appointment , Iam now almost 14 weeks
Hopefully I will get good nub shots ! I cant wait anymore
Although Im fine either way