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Oh Wanting im so sorry to hear your challenges! If this site has tought me nothing else it is that we are so lucky to have the children that we do and that health really is the top priority above all esle! Im sure your boys are lovely and although it sounds like they have some challenges to overcome Im sure the amount of love they give you outweighs everything else!! I will be thinking of your sweet boys!!
Thank you!! I hope you will get your girl too. I didn't realize you also accidently fell pregnant. That makes us two :happy: I didn't want to get pregnant at all at that time. Last year, I was on the IG diet for a few months, and then I realized I couldn't cope with another boy. So I stopped and we had the IVF with PGD for a girl, but it failed. While I was planning the next one for september this year, I fell pregnant all of a sudden.Quote:
Originally Posted by shiningstar
Now I think I will be ok with another boy. Although I know it is going to be hard because I don't know if I will ever have another chance at having a girl.
I am having my next scan on tuesday and I am constantly dreaming of seeing boy parts at the scan. Every night. It has not once been a girl in my dreams..
Have you all picked out favourite names yet? I tried today but I cannot really find a boy name I could be excited about. Have to keep looking though, I want to be prepared for tuesday. Even though I am not sure if we are going to see anything. My OB told me he won't see it until 20 weeks.
WANTING, I just want to say I really admire how you are dealing with all this. I have to agree with the others, you are still relatively young, but already so mature and examplary! Your boys are so lucky to have you as their mother!! I really mean that, this is not common at all. I truly admire that.
With ds2 I was a nervous wreck for like two years before he started school mainly worrying about the bullying and it is crazy the kids love him.... For now.... But they hold his hand the play with him it's insanely different than it would have been back when I was in school... My son an IEP (individual education plan) so he does less than the others... Although he has become insanely smart lately... We took him for stem cell treatment in panama in summer 2010 and since then he has learned to talk I can't conversation with hi. As he doesn't understand how it works I don't think... He could spell any word under the sun he is crazy to watch he is super smart...
For Ezra on the other hand I don't think we can afford to take him for treatment but he is a lot better than ds2 he does talk a bit and understand more an ds2 at that point so I have high hope for him
Surgery sucks when your kids are having it no matter what... It is sooooo stressful! I swear my nerves could honestly kill me as I'm in the waiting room... I'm gonna try and postpone his surgery till this babe is about 5 months cause when he has his surgery he has to have 25 eye drops a day for a few weeks and I can't stand the thought of it right now... On a positive note his ophthalmologist is very nice on the eyes ;)
When my thoughts of wanting a girl really bad get the better of me I try to back myself up and think of what I really wnt and it does help me
I remember my cousin she had a girl when I had ds1 and then before I got preg with ds3 she got preg with dd2 but she was told it was a boy and she was telling me she was so upset.... I had nooooo sympathy at all I even told her she is ridiculous told her she has a girl and has no reason to be sad about a boy... Then a week before her dd she found out it was a girl by this time I was about 3 months with ds3 and she calls me rubbing it in my face.... Lol I honestly don't know what people get from doing that!
Thought I would share a couple pics even though you cant see much!
Attachment 9640
Attachment 9641
Thats all I got! lol
Wanting, wow I'm sorry for all you have gone through you are such a great mamma!! My DS3 is speech delayed and his understanding is delayed too! He is on the waiting list for free speech therapy from the state because he qualified for it in the evaluation. The funny thing is, i know he is SUPER smart he just cannot communicate! This boy melts my heart everyday and even though I cried for days when I found out he was a boy, I wouldn't have it any other way....
Lol also your comment on your DS Ophthalmologist being easy on the eyes!!! My DH is an Ophthalmologist and I think he is easy on the eyes too!
Yep no nub shot, but cute healthy baby! Congrats!
Skull looks boyish for what it's worth
Thanks guys I do try my best.... My life experience def made me open my eyes... Take a step back and let things ride out... There are way too many things that are not in my control so it's so much less stressful to just let it be.... DH has not jumped on that bandwagon yet hopefully he will soon
Ooo thorz luckey you! I have I thing for drs lol... Ds ophthalmologist is from London and his accent makes me melt mmmmmmmmm I get to see him in April lol
Well Ill talke that! Im not sure on the skull theory and dont have pics of my girls at this gestation to compare it too but it sounds good to me! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Thorz300
Glad you're scan went well but that stinks you couldn't see the baby much. As for not getting a nub shot, that may not be a bad thing. At lease you don;t have something to obsess over for the next few weeks! Nubs can drive you bonkers sometimes!Quote:
Originally Posted by 4Giffins