October 2013 babies!

Good Luck Katie I will also be stalking the page!

My boobs are really tender, when I cuddle my boys and they lay their head on me its so sore.
The only time my boobs ever hurt with my boys was in the beginning if I was really cold they would hurt and at the end when they were getting bigger and starting to fill up.
I'm 15+5 now and still so tender.

Trying not to think it could mean anything, I'm pretty sure my body is just being mean and tricking me because I have had quite a few differences this time.

Mine are still really tender and are getting so big all of a sudden! Wish that meant girl but my 12 week potty shot was just too convincing. I went to Pea in a Pod today and bought some really cute maternity Capri jeans & white jean legging capris...made me feel good! A little retail therapy for my GD. It is getting rough for me again...as well as just not wanting to be pregnant in general. The weather is warming up and that makes me want to sit on my patio and enjoy a few, no, a LOT of beers. This summer is going to be brutal. I feel guilty thinking this would feel a lot more "worth it" if it were a girl. :( I'm a terrible person! Just wish I could do this attempt over, ya know?

Katie, good luck tomo! I forget what had you so down and thinking boy...did you have a boyish nub shot?

I have never felt so alone and hurt about having another girl. I wish so bad I never even tried again and to just be happy with my 2. My kids and husband are getting it bad from me . I'm so bitter sad and think that I will just never feel and have my dream come true. Everyone around me is having boys except me :*(

Is there anyway you can have another scan just to completely confirm?? It may help you bond a little more with your new little one:( I wish there was a switch for choosing gender, things would be simple then xx

Well I just scheduled an early gender scan and now I feel like I just need to cancel it!! Tell me to cancel it!!! I have this crazy feeling that God wants me to be patient and if I am not patient and get this scan done it will be a boy, if I wait and be patient then it will be a girl. I am having this internal battle with myself right now. I keep praying on what I should do.

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Originally Posted by Navywife620

Well I just scheduled an early gender scan and now I feel like I just need to cancel it!! Tell me to cancel it!!! I have this crazy feeling that God wants me to be patient and if I am not patient and get this scan done it will be a boy, if I wait and be patient then it will be a girl. I am having this internal battle with myself right now. I keep praying on what I should do.

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I felt exactly like this weeks ago when considering booking my scan. I was sure if I found out I'd have a boy. Some said to me "there is no tempting fate, the sex of your baby was decided at conception and there's no going back whether you find out early or not at all" and its true. I have to keep reminding myself of this as well. I often find myself thinking "I will do anything if this can just be a healthy baby girl" (also feel if I just say girl, with out the healthy bit then I'm jinxing myself) then I think that its too late, baby is what its going to be and that's that.


As for retail therapy, I really need a hair cut, but I'm waiting an extra week so that if I do hear boy I have a little something to cheer me up and make me feel good. I just bought myself some new maternity clothes last week LOL

And the 'worth it' feeling. Although I love being pregnant, when we were TTC it was taking what felt like forever (was a total of 2 and a half years and I still now feel I should just be grateful to be pregnant at all) but I kept thinking "after all this time and all this heart ache it better be a girl so that its worth all this" but I know in the end my baby will be worth it all and all that is still to come to get him or her here. And I'm sure once you have your LO you will feel the same.

Also Navywife I think God has a plan for each of us and if that includes a girl it will include one whether we find out or not, I don't believe he would take away some thing as precious as a daughter just because we were excited to know a little earlier.

Ive been feeling better lately. More good days than bad. Even though I REALLY I think Ill br fine with another boy. My friend just had a baby boy last week and hes so cute. I think Im excited for a newborn regardless of gender. And I was staring at my 1 yr. old today and he is just such a doll
, so it just made me realize if god wants me to have another boy then I will
be happy about it and I will him just as much as my other 3. Now I might have totally different feelings after my Sono! But Im just happy that Im content now and not as crazy as I was last week.

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Originally Posted by Lld2006

Mine are still really tender and are getting so big all of a sudden! Wish that meant girl but my 12 week potty shot was just too convincing. I went to Pea in a Pod today and bought some really cute maternity Capri jeans & white jean legging capris...made me feel good! A little retail therapy for my GD. It is getting rough for me again...as well as just not wanting to be pregnant in general. The weather is warming up and that makes me want to sit on my patio and enjoy a few, no, a LOT of beers. This summer is going to be brutal. I feel guilty thinking this would feel a lot more "worth it" if it were a girl. :( I'm a terrible person! Just wish I could do this attempt over, ya know?

Katie, good luck tomo! I forget what had you so down and thinking boy...did you have a boyish nub shot?

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The tech said that if she had to guess she'd say boy. That was at my 12/13 week ultrasound. She also said cord was between his/her legs though.

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Originally Posted by Navywife620

Well I just scheduled an early gender scan and now I feel like I just need to cancel it!! Tell me to cancel it!!! I have this crazy feeling that God wants me to be patient and if I am not patient and get this scan done it will be a boy, if I wait and be patient then it will be a girl. I am having this internal battle with myself right now. I keep praying on what I should do.

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This is exactly how I've felt since scheduling my scan the other day!!