September 2013 babies!!

Northern- sorry for the scare! Waiting and worrying are the worst. Hope you get better news if you're restested. FX!!!

You need to give me your sil's address she sounds like a right one ;-s

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Originally Posted by Longingforgirl

Oh no I am so sorry!! I cannot even put it in words. I am so scared of my scan and I just know how devestated I will be when I hear "boy" again. I am so so sorry :sad: I would also still be having a little hope.. as long as it is not 100% I guess... there's always that slight chance. I am so sorry! I wish none of us would have to suffer from GD anymore.. I feel like the more you wish for something the less it is becoming true :sad: Others get their DG so easily. Others struggle and struggle and still be disappointed :sad:

Today a friend of mine who accidently got pregnant (she already has a 3 year old daughter) found out that she was not carrying another girl but a boy. I have no idea how she could have been that naive, but she honestly expected the next baby to a be a girl as well. She had a 12 week scan and the tech said "could be a girl". Now she is almost 18 weeks and they already painted the room and everything. They are both devestated, but more than I ever imagined to be. They are even thinking about giving him away after birth. She does not want to carry a boy and would like to put an end to it. But it is illegal here so she cannot act on that. She thinks she is not able to love him because he is a boy. I am a little shocked...
I am really glad we all love our children no matter what gender. Even though we are struggling. But still we love them.
Sorry just had to get this out. She just told me and I am the only one who knows already. I am just shocked at how she is reacting. Wouldn't have expected that as she never said anything. Although she knows how I am wishing for a girl and how I am struggling with myself at the thought of this being another boy.

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Oh wow. If that was my friend, i'ld definantly be question what type of person I was friends with! I hope she is just thinking out loud and not really considering terminating her child :(

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Originally Posted by divakotka

Now that I am home with DH and DS2 napping and DS1 at preschool, I am sitting here bawling. I wasn't expecting the emotions to hit me so hard. I just posted on FB and got two comments: "Another boy??? Wow!" and "Oh, a girl would have been a good fit though."
We went out for lunch after the scan and I saw cute little girls everywhere. I really hurts. And I feel like an ungrateful idiot for crying in the first place. :SS:

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Dont feel bad for the way you feel :) It will pass in time. you allowed to feel which ever way you like. We all understand.

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Originally Posted by fish2012

You need to give me your sil's address she sounds like a right one ;-s

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Hubby said it might not have been her, but the night I lent it to her I showed her how it worked so I knew it was working!

Anyway, I've got a good Hi-Bebe one now that has a speaker rather than earphones.

My cousin let me borrow her summer brand one when I was preg with ds3 I know it's a cheapy .... I was never able to find his heart lol... So the other day I take it out and for fun try and find it knowing I wouldnt find it and I didn't so I tried to find my heart lol and could bare find it putting it directly over it lmao what a joke... She claims she found her babies all the time I don't believe it

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Originally Posted by 4Giffins

Thought I would share a couple pics even though you cant see much!
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Thats all I got! lol

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Lovely images. Very boyish look skull shape :)

phew - took me all morning to catch up on posts :) I have my Midwife appointment next week so I'll find out when I can book my scan from there.

Is there a list anywhere with whos due when and what they are swaying for/having?

Yes there is I did one let me see if I can find it.........

Elements here it is xx

Anyone with an update let me know x