Originally Posted by
daisyfay311
Hey ladies, just popping in to give an update on me.
Last night I started having this crazy back pain--lower back, down the right side of my butt and leg. Then while I was trying to sleep, I kept noticing uncomfortable cramping in my abdomen. It was on both sides a bit and then increasingly just on the right. It was very uncomfortable and I couldn't sleep. Finally I woke up DH and he helped look up things online for me. Of course, one of the first things was ectopic pregnancy. He was like, go take a pregnancy test now! I was pretty sure I was pregnant because af was late but I had wanted to wait a bit longer to test. But anyway, I tested early early this morning and got a bfp!
I was so worried about the cramping that I called my doctor this morning and they had me come in for blood work. My beta is 571. I don't know if that is supposed to be good? They seemed to think it was fine. I'm supposed to go back Friday to see how it looks then and my first regular appointment is the 14th.
I'm sure it could be a variety of things but I'm nervous about it, particularly that it's so uncomfortable and just on one side. I do remember having cramps with Lillie but I don't think it was just on one side and I don't think it was this sharp. Of course, my symptoms now are already different from when I was expecting her, so who knows. And my menstrual cramps are usually very mild so I guess my cramp frame of reference isn't great.
Anyway, I'm cautiously optimistic for now and just waiting to see what will happen. All vibes and thoughts and advice and shared experiences welcome. Oh, and I took an Advil last night for which the nurse promptly chastised me so if anyone has any "took an Advil early and baby didn't immediately disintegrate" stories, those are also good.
Nothing is ever easy. Sigh.
ETA: Due date would be first week of May, SO perfect for two teachers. And I think my sway was good, at least I was doing bsd, coconut water, eating breakfast, larabars, meat, all that, supplements, pre-seed...SO much was different from dd. But I feel like no matter what it is our baby and that's what matters and right now, I just want baby to be okay. :(