Big huge hugs tm. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Big huge hugs tm. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Oh tm, I am very sorry. Sending you love, strength and healing. But, thank you for sharing your information.
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tm29 so very sorry for you :'(
Wishing you all the best for the future!!
Thanks Trueblue - I'm going to focus on getting strong again and restoring my cycle. I think Atomic advises you to wait until you've had x2 AF before ttc after a loss, so I won't be trying again until Spring. It's sad - but we'll handle it. I have a fantastic DH and an incredible little girl.Quote:
Originally Posted by True Blue
Thanks everyone for kind words. What a lot we women go through!
Tm29- I am so sorry for your loss. I know words can not heal but I hope time and love from your family and friends do. I will be thinking and praying for you.
tm, big *HUGS*. Do whatever you need to do to honor the life that was inside you. I m/c my first at 5 weeks 4 days, and it was helpful for me to make new curtains for the room I hoped would someday be a nursery. As for blaming yourself, I feel your pain. I will forever wonder if it was the Lyme disease that took my baby or the doctor's fault. She put me on harsh drugs without checking for pregnancy first. We will never know. You just have to trust that things happen for reasons you can't understand, part of a bigger picture you can't see. I did get to see the bigger picture in my case and that I got to have dd who was conceived 2 months after the m/c. I now understand my little angel was paving the way for her and making me a stronger mommy to take charge of my own health treatments. But I still think of my angel regularly and appreciate the life that was with us for such a short while. If you're up for it, look up the lyrics to "Rhythm of Love" by Plain White T's. That's my special song for my angel baby. Now a couple of years later I especially like the line, "And long after I'm gone, you'll still be humming along, a beautiful song to be sung." Sending you lots of love and prayers!
I hope you ladies have a wonderful healthy baby boy making new year!