October Chit Chat Thread for Blue Swayers. All welcome!!

So I just need to cry it out here guys.
I am an emotional wreck this morning. I cried and cried myself to sleep last night so much I could not eat dinner and I can't eat this morning :( We received a phone call from our bank yesterday, our mortgage is going up $70 a week as of January. Not what we need right now, we are kind of toughing it out as it is as dh left work to study this year. I only get relief work as I can not work full time due to a medical condition (vascular problems) so income is no very little right now. I am now not sure if we can afford another baby and I am heartbroken. I am stressed and worried what if we can not afford to keep our home, we have only been here two years and worked so damn hard to get this far :(

I really think no matter what we do we are going to end up with what we are suppose to.

I think by doing the whole swaying thing is just a way to find relief in ourselves if we end up with the undesired gender, knowing we done what we could.

Really who knows by me doing what I did according to my calendar, just may make me get another girl, and maybe if I conceived in another month I would have got a boy, you know the feeling when you start doing this to yourself :fight:

Months, food, supps, ions, preseed, eggwhite, weight gain, for goodness sakes it was driving me crazy!!!!!!

Dd1 :ballerina: Dd2 :giggle: & OMG Im :pregnant:

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Originally Posted by TTC5

So I just need to cry it out here guys.
I am an emotional wreck this morning. I cried and cried myself to sleep last night so much I could not eat dinner and I can't eat this morning :( We received a phone call from our bank yesterday, our mortgage is going up $70 a week as of January. Not what we need right now, we are kind of toughing it out as it is as dh left work to study this year. I only get relief work as I can not work full time due to a medical condition (vascular problems) so income is no very little right now. I am now not sure if we can afford another baby and I am heartbroken. I am stressed and worried what if we can not afford to keep our home, we have only been here two years and worked so damn hard to get this far :(

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Im so sorry TTC5, it can be tough on many people these days, I really hope you guys pull through :hug2:

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Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

so two people due at the same time could have conceived 2 days apart, in different moon signs, right?

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Yes!

Dd1 :ballerina: Dd2 :giggle: & OMG Im :pregnant:

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Originally Posted by Flava

CA-well we can plan and O late like me:mad:

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Yes I know Flava, stinks doesnt it???

Dd1 :ballerina: Dd2 :giggle: & OMG Im :pregnant:

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Originally Posted by CapricornAquarius

Im so sorry TTC5, it can be tough on many people these days, I really hope you guys pull through :hug2:

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Thankyou xx

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Originally Posted by TTC5

So I just need to cry it out here guys.
I am an emotional wreck this morning. I cried and cried myself to sleep last night so much I could not eat dinner and I can't eat this morning :( We received a phone call from our bank yesterday, our mortgage is going up $70 a week as of January. Not what we need right now, we are kind of toughing it out as it is as dh left work to study this year. I only get relief work as I can not work full time due to a medical condition (vascular problems) so income is no very little right now. I am now not sure if we can afford another baby and I am heartbroken. I am stressed and worried what if we can not afford to keep our home, we have only been here two years and worked so damn hard to get this far :(

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I'm sorry things are so difficult for your family! We have had some hard times recently too, and I know how you feel. The economy where I live is really lousy, and my husband is a carpenter, so we have been hit pretty hard. I hope things turn around for you!

Hobber - it is totally possible to have conceived in two different moon signs but for my friend and I we conceived during the same sign.

ttc5 - Ita, I don't think people are completely honest when they post their sway. I was completely honest here but I would have lied my ass off if I was posting on IG.
So sorry about the mortgage, that's a hell of an increase and I'm sure most of us would suffer from a jump like that that. I really hope you can figure it out.

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Originally Posted by CapricornAquarius

I really think no matter what we do we are going to end up with what we are suppose to.

I think by doing the whole swaying thing is just a way to find relief in ourselves if we end up with the undesired gender, knowing we done what we could.

Really who knows by me doing what I did according to my calendar, just may make me get another girl, and maybe if I conceived in another month I would have got a boy, you know the feeling when you start doing this to yourself :fight:

Months, food, supps, ions, preseed, eggwhite, weight gain, for goodness sakes it was driving me crazy!!!!!!

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I don't know if I agree that I am "supposed" to have anything... I think it might just boil down to luck, really. If I am lucky enough to have things line up really well, then great, but if not... well, I don't know. I wish I knew how I got my son so I could do the same thing again.

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I was completely honest here but I would have lied my ass off if I was posting on IG.

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why?