LOVE IT LOVE IT LOVE IT and buying 7 of these! One for each day of the week!Quote:
Originally Posted by ILindGurl
LOVE IT LOVE IT LOVE IT and buying 7 of these! One for each day of the week!Quote:
Originally Posted by ILindGurl
Im going to try and get this point across in as civil and diplomatic way as possible.Quote:
Originally Posted by 5 Gorgeousboyz
Reading the posts objectively, it is very apparent that what is happening here is that you take offence, and see as personal criticism, anything that is said to you that disagree's with your opinion, or your methods. At no stage has atomic done anything other then 'show' you a different perspective.
It quiet obvious that anything other then 100% agreance is perceived by you in a derogatory way, as a personal attack.
Im not saying any of this to be rude, or nasty, or to put you down - or any of the other phrases that you have accused forum members of. Im saying it merely in the hope that you can perhaps look at if from a separate standpoint, not your own emotionally vested standpoint. When we are so emotionally tied to something and we pin all our hopes to it then its very easy to fall into the trap of being far too subjective - misinterpreting things - and therefore alienating all those who want to welcome you with open arms, and have nothing but the best and purest intentions for you.
It would be a shame if that were to happen because this forum is without a doubt the most informative, friendly and supportive forum i have ever had the privilege of being on. In fact the only 'nastiness' that I have seen at this forum at all in my time here (albiet a limited time) are the comments that you have made towards Atomic....
Perspective, please please gain some, and this forum can and will help you achieve your GD - and if not, then it will help support you past it.
People can be responsible for what they say, but not how it is interpreted - that responsibility is down to the listener to accept and see for what it is, or to twist and misinterpret it.
Best of luck :luck:
You ask right in this post if I am saying that sperm spinning doesn't work 100%. And my answer is, no, it doesn't.Quote:
Originally Posted by 5 Gorgeousboyz
I am bowing out of this thread permanently for the health of my baby because I really do not need this. I'M TRYING TO HELP YOU and I do not profit or benefit off of your success or failure in any way. I'm sorry I spent time away from my children that need me and the others on this site who need help, to get slammed for doing nothing other than attempting for a second time to assist you. My advice is, if you don't want people to answer questions honestly and to the best of their ability, then don't ask them. There are other sites out there where people will tell you what you want to hear. Good luck to you.
???The only reason I spent time out of my day to reply again, was because you seemed to need help and it seemed petty and catty to me for not to respond when you were asking questions that were in my area of expertise. I never said I wouldn't respond to your post. Believe me, I wish I wouldn't have LOL.Quote:
Originally Posted by 5 Gorgeousboyz
The reason why I begged you to pay attention in the name of a higher power was because I wanted you to truly understand the importance of why you should not sway while going HT. That's an expression I just happen to use in my day to day speech, I've written it many times in many places. You don't gain yourself a thing by doing so and you hurt your odds. I WANT YOU TO SUCCEED and get your desired gender.
sorry ladies, I'm closing this thread now as bickering isn't the atmosphere we want on here