Thanks ladies...i feel so awful for being upset. If ahe would have been given another name i would be in a much better place but i feel like my hopes and dreams were just crushed. ..like if i can't use that name then it cant be a girl. My mother would love a grand daughter too and i feel awful i couldn't give that to her .
Trimester wise i thought it was 13 weeks...however my ticker says 2nd trimester At 12 weeks. Weird.