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No so frustrating no nub shot photos that I could see and by policy she couldn't mention anything about gender. I thought I saw a girl nub during the scan but want sure, but she also referred to babies foot as 'his' foot once but after I said 'he' asking something. So I have no clue... [emoji17]
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At my NT scan the sonographer asked what we already had and despite the girly nub, he made a comment about it being likely to be another boy!x
Congrats 3'sacharm!!! It was pretty obvious from the nub but so exciting to be confirmed!
Sorry you didn't get a clear nub shot magical but it is awesome bub is looking healthy!! Hoping it was a girl nub you saw :)
Looks like boy #3 is on the way [emoji170]
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I am getting the test on the 31st and the results a few days later. Seems like forever!!
I'm so nervous to find out, though!!
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How? Is it confirmed?Quote:
Originally Posted by Magical22
I thought this was a boy as soon as I got my BFP too. That's why I am so certain that it's a boy.Quote:
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Magical, did you get gender confirmed after all?
Lissa glad to see you pop up! How are you feeling?
Yesterday I had my NT scan and they couldn't say anything by policy. But today I had my 13 week scan with my obgyn and she said it was a boy. I was told DS2 was a boy at 13 weeks and they where right with him.
Having a tough day today, had a big cry after my appt I'm at work now trying to hold it together but it's hard. That's it for me and babies so no chance of me ever having a daughter which breaks my heart. [emoji174]
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Im sorry Magical, I wish you had gotten your girl this time 😔
So sorry magical. This is my last baby too. I'm mostly at peace with never having a girl but some days it sneaks up and I get a little down :(
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So sorry magical, sending hugs. Be gentle on yourself x
Such a neat bump! XQuote:
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Thanks ladies [emoji846]
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Nice bump Jenren :)
Sorry Magical... I'm still hoping your ob was wrong and maybe they just had a lucky guess last time.
Love your bump Jenren.
I'm so sorry Magical!!!
We had our NT test today as well and found out we are having boy #3. She wouldn't confirm it 100% but it was crystal clear. I was tearing up after the sono when I was in the waiting room, waiting to see my OB. I managed to hold it together until the second I got out of the office and then I sobbed the whole way home. Of course we had family pictures tonight, so I had to pull it together again and try to cover up my swollen, red eyes and nose. Then the second pics were done I bawled all over again. There are no words that my friends or family can say to make me feel better, no one else I am close with has gone through this as well. They either have one of each or all girls, or only have 1 kid. My husband says we can have 1 more but at this point I can't even process the thought of having more. I know if we have another it will just be another boy, and I am not sure that I want 4 boys. I know this sounds awful, but I don't even want this baby anymore. I know I am not going to bond with him during my pregnancy. All I can hope for is that I feel something for him once he is born. I am terrified he will always be a reminder of the daughter I never had.[emoji26] I wish gender disappointment wasn't such a taboo subject to talk about. Everyone keeps saying "well as long as he is healthy it doesn't matter right". They don't understand. My heart is broken.[emoji17]
Here is the potty shot we got today.
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Jdd I'm so very sorry, i could of written word for word of what you have just said, except there is no way my husband will have another child. I feel surrounded by pigeon pairs or families with at least one of each, yesterday I just felt like the biggest joke. I have my nieces 1st birthday Saturday which I know will be pink central and I'm not sure I can go I might make something up.Quote:
Originally Posted by jdd1017
I feel a tiny bit better then I did yesterday where I cried all day, I'm still on the verge of it today but I've told a few people and they have been fantastic!
I've been trying to focus on things to make me feel better this afternoon I'm going to go for a quick shop and get some cute blue items. I feel I need to get excited about this baby and that might help. Part of me wishes he was ready to be born now because as soon as he's in my arms I know all the GD will go away.
Seems like we are on the same journey so feel free to PM anytime if you need to chat.
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JDD you may not have anyone in real life.. but you have me. I will always cherish your kindness to me during some of my darkest moments of GD. If you need to vent or ask anything, I am only a message away
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Originally Posted by Burakoam
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Jdd you cant see gender from potty shot at 12 weeks both boys and girls have parts that stick out its the nub, did you get a side nub shot?
That's what I went into the sono thinking, I truly did not expect it to be so crystal clear. I wasn't even going to say anything about looking for the gender to the tech, bc I didn't think they would even want to try to look. But she pretty much all but said it was a boy. I do have a nub shot and now that I'm looking at that more closely, even it is very obvious[emoji17] Attachment 33384 Here is a different potty shot that looks even more boyish. Attachment 33385Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinss
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Thank you Magical, that means a lot!! I can't imagine being at a birthday party for a girl right now. It would be torture. I doubt anyone would blame you if you made up an excuse not to go.Quote:
Originally Posted by Magical22
I am going to cope the same way as you...go shopping lol! I had planned all along to re-do our nursery, knowing that if this baby was a boy I would need to do some shopping and get some new things to to get excited. Those blankets you posted are cute.
My husband tried to be understanding tonight, as I was hysterically crying most of the night, but he got upset when I said I don't have any feelings for this baby. I'm sure it is hard for him to hear me say that, but he has no idea what it is like. He has always said he "only wanted sons" and now he's getting his wish. I'm trying not to resent him for it. The way I have been crying you would think someone died, but in a weird way it sort of feels like someone did.
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Thank you Burakoam!! I feel like I am turning this board into a depressing whine fest lol, so I will prob message you and Magical at some time. Do you still feel extreme sadness or has the pain eased a bit?Quote:
Originally Posted by Burakoam
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Jdd not sure if that is the nub? They dont usually stick up at that angle. Will you have a gender scan or wait for morphology to confirm?
I was thinking the same... What at first appears to be stacking, looks like it could be cord as there's a similar pattern higher up the abdo near belly button??! Not to raise your hopes but potty shots are very unreliable at this stage - did you say how far you were actually measuring?? Sorry if you did, I've just finished nights!! Big hugs to you, I felt such anguish with my 2nd boy having wanted a girl from the beginning; the only thing I think that prevented such strong feelings with my 3rd boy was the late pregnancy loss of my 2nd.xxQuote:
Originally Posted by Cinss
I was told gender of one of my sons at 11wks , it can be really obvious even at this stage x so sorry for u from a mum of 4 boys xQuote:
Originally Posted by jdd1017
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Jdd i think MAYBE you still have a slight chance that the chord is obstructing a girlie nub..i know the testicles take a while longer to develop but normally the stacking seems to look more rounded at the bottom but yours looks like a straight line (typically girlie at 12-13 weeks gestation) but with a possible penis on top of it...There is a small chance its chord that is bent from higher up and going between baby's legs...but to be on the safe side i would prepare to hear boy and if you do hear girl at 16-20 weeks then that wouldnt surprise me entirely. However i think if its really a boy your son may just be what they call an early riser and thats very possible. It does happen.
We will have an anatomy scan (I'm assuming that is the same as a morphology scan?) between 18-20 weeks.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinss
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I was 12 weeks and 1 day. She measured baby twice and one was spot on and the other was 12 and 5. If the sono tech wasn't so certain it was a boy I could prob have talked myself into thinking MAYBE I still have a chance...but there was pretty much no doubt in her mind[emoji26]Quote:
Originally Posted by 3'sacharm
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I don't want to give you false hope, but even 12w5d is still too early! All of my boys had visible scrotum and penis at 13w+. With my DS2, my NT scan was at 12w3d and there wasn't clear boy parts visible. I think that is why my DH GD was so bad with him, because he had hope he would be a she.Quote:
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My point is, both boys and girls look the same at this stage. I would expect to hear blue at your morphology scan, but know you still have a chance!
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Agree with xxhubbyxx and as I said to some one else, somewhere on here, the sonographer at my scan told me my baby looked like another boy, despite the long flat nub and later gestation of 13+1. He did later say it *could* still be a girl and that it was too early to tell, but obviously I've had it confirmed that baby is a girl....
Defo go in prepared to hear boy but I wouldn't be going it to buy blue just yet based on a scan so early on x
Yeah same thing, they check all the organs aswell as gender. I was pretty much in the same situation as you, I was told gender at my 12 week scan but waited for the next one to confirm, turned out to be correct from the 12 week one.Quote:
Originally Posted by jdd1017
I'm sad for everyone who is experiencing gender disappointment with this pregnancy. I feel like there are quite a few of us :(
My midwife told me today that my weight was OK at the moment but I needed to slow down. I was like wtf??? I've only gained 10 lbs and I'm almost halfway.
All I could think was gee thanks...
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This GD sucks!!! I can't believe I will never have a little girl!!!
How are you going today JDD?
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I was thinking that as well jenren, I think there are only about 3 members of the group who have gotten their gd. I think there are only maybe 4 or 5 left to find out. Seems to be an unusual time on gd site re recent results.
So sorry magical, x oQuote:
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I agree with the other ladies, it is much too early. I think you should prepare yourself to hear blue but it may not be the case. Am keeping everything crossed for you that they are wrong and it is a pink one x oQuote:
Originally Posted by jdd1017
Yea it does seem like a high number of sway opposites in our group!!!Quote:
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