Abundant April 2ww - Part 2

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Good luck sky! Hubby stayed home from work today he could tell I was a nit disappointed and surprisingly has been very sensitive I was so excited yesterday! He told me to get out and go shopping. So I'm getting the oil changed, went to mops, and am going to get last minute vacation things picked up. It's so disappointing even if it's only been one month trying. I don't know how pbn and mommamia can stay sane . You ladies are so strong!


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I m sorry you are feeling this way Ash. But like I said it could still be early. I havebn telling myself right from the beginning that it will take months before a bfp just to be prepared for the Bfns. I actually want to delay testing because I don't know how I would feel. I m almost certain that it can't happen in first cycle. See, we all are the same that way. It's way too early for us to be disappointed. You have us. Vent whenever you want.
Truth be told, I am not even discussing anything with dh. I don't know why but may be I just don't want to see me hopeful and fall apart. We are leaving for our vacation tomorrow . It's either going to be bfp or af for me. Have faith. Hugs. Fx fx.


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I have collected my fmu. Couldn't hold any longer. Will go get frer as soon as dd is up.


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I will be stalking sky! I have two frer left one for Thursday on Friday then we're leaving for vaca. Af is due Tuesday so I may bring a could wondfo in case it doesn't show


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Mine due anytime
Now. [emoji51]


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Ok here it is the clear end is the second test.
First 7dpo (because I'm crazy)
Second 8dpo morning
Third 8dpo evening after 5hr hold
Fourth 9dpo fmu (absolutely nothing)
Why I'm baffled if because 8dpo evening has obvious pink tore apart or not the others do not look like that.
I'm truely crushed I feel I hate that we all have to go through bfn to get a bfp!! I wanted a Christmas baby [emoji20]


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Ash-I completely understand that disappointed feeling, but you're not out yet!! Let's see what happens over the next couple of days!! Enjoy some retail therapy :)
Skyblue-this is my 3rd cycle ttc. I know that's not very long, but it was so much quicker with my boys...feeling impatient. Let us know as soon as you test-waiting to hear fx!!!!


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Ash-your chart still looks good!

My coworker just announced that she's pregnant with twins!!! I'm so happy for her (and super jealous lol).
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Ugh Lola hold the happy for her lol we all know the truth! [emoji23] maybe if it takes us 6mo Lola we can get some clomid! Def. DO NOT want to wait that long though


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Ash, your chart still looks great! Fingers crossed for you!!

Lola, augh that's the worst...I swear everyone around me is getting pregnant. Also with girls. It's very strange, wish it would rub off on me! ;)

Sky, did you test???

Well I did the test and it's a bfn as expected. I was bummed for a minute but then I am also really okay with it too since I was freaking out that I didn't really do it right and want to change that in coming cycles. I want to do my best and then rest is not in my control. I will try to upload the pic soon too. I really hope you guys get your bfps. Hugs.



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Question time. We are going for a vacation tomorrow and it's close to a beach which would suck if af shows up.
If it does show up then I atleast want to have some fun so can I enjoy any drinks? Beer or wine? I am swaying for a boy.
That is Only if AF arrives.


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Morning all!

Well not the news I wanted to wake up to :(

Sky I'm sorry (hugs) and when af shows up absolutely treat yourself to some alcoholic beverages on your vacation🍷🍺🍸 trust me ladies when I say the worst thing you can do is put your life on hold while ttc (I learnt the hard way 😂) Enjoy your vacation!!!

Ash I know you're disappointed but I still don't feel you're out. 9dpo is too early to throw in the towel. If implantation didn't start until 7/8dpo then you may not see a faint line until 10dpo. Your chart is still looking so promising so I'm going to give you virtual hugs and say I'm sorry but I'm still looking forward to the next two days tests.

Lola love the photo!! Thanks for uploading in tapatalk. I'm sorry its another bfn :( (hugs) when is af due?

Meant to say yesterday you all have such beautiful boys (the pics I could see at the time lol) I will post one of my boys later.

Maxim are you stil temping? Cant see a link to your chart (I was going to have a sticky beak)

Hope I've not forgotten anyone 😬

Afm I had a rise this morning in temp when I was fully expecting a dip..... not getting my hopes up, I will wait and see what my next two temps do. Been here too many times with a pretty chart that ends with bfn 😂😂 I'm off to work in a couple hours (I do bookkeeping for a small business once a fortnight or so) but I will catch up as soon as I'm home.

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I'm o help sky sorry i do know I have 4 boys and don't drink at all. My stinken af is due to show on our beach vaca also [emoji35]


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Thanks Pbn. Also, do you think it's a good idea to get a bbt to get temps. I am gong to order some wondfos opks so wanted your advise on bbt. You all can tell a lot looking at the chart and mine doesn't have temp so it doesn't show much.


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I m sorry Ash for both of us. It sucks. I am so mad that dh booked everything without telling me the date. Anyway I also think it will be a nice change for us. Good luck for your test tomorrow. You are not out yet. Hang in there.
Pbn - Have a great day at work and I am rooting for you and waiting patiently. Fx


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Yes absolutely skyblue!! Make sure you order a basal thermometer that records to .00 not just .0

Can I also recommend temping vaginally as its very accurate. Happy to answer any questions you have regarding this (remember there's no such thing as tmi)

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Thanks for the tips. I am going to order everything once af shows up. And then ask all my questions. [emoji4]


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Ladies don't be discouraged yet! With my DD I was stark white at 11dpo and I know I was at 11dpo because I had follicle ultrasounds etc. At 14dpo I had a scheduled blood test but I wasn't expecting any good news and my hcg was only 40 or something that day. She was a late implanter - there's still hope! :)

Ash-rofl-maybe we can beg the dr for some clomid & maxim, I know, it seems everyone around me is getting pregnant...I need to drink the same water!
Skyblue-I rarely drink these days, but I've always liked white wine & before I knew I was pregnant with DS1, I had a frozen screwdriver & it was amazing! I agree with pbn, enjoy yourself on vaca! You're not out either, but you def have a good attitude about it either way!
Pbn-thx, my boys have the ability to cheer me up & drive me bonkers at the same time lol. Yay for your temp rise!!! I sure do have my hopes up for you!!! Fxfxfx. We're getting so close to your testing time :) My AF is due Sunday. I would love to go into my spring break on Friday with a BFP, but not too confident at this point.


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Dancingdiva-thanks for that! Gives me hope! What is the latest with you?


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Thanks dancingdiva... I just felt pregnant yesterday I'm scared to say it today but I don't have much hope I got a bfp 10dpo with ds2 (the only other I've ever tracked) and it was on a cheap 25miu test. Just not feeling it anymore. I'm frustrated that last nights test was more positive than this am. Makes no sense


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Ah bummer ladies.... sorry to hear you had negatives.... :(
Ash - it was my first month too and our lines showing then fading etc are quite similar. The good thing is that it means the sperm fertilized the egg, but maybe it means there was something NQR. Yours could still darken like mine did. If not, we can move on together.
Sky - still hope that you'll get that pink line.
Pbn3 - yay for temp rise!

Lola - ahhhhh twins would be amazing! Hope you find that magic water and share it with us!

Afm- temp below cover line so she should show her face today!
FX so then I can start clomid tomorrow. Here's a pic of my darkest line from yesterday too (as I always say it's darker in person)
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Iwant4kids what time will you get the results from bw?

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Iwant4kids what time will you get the results from bw?

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Probably around midday (so 5-6 hours from now)
I'm mostly interested to hear about my progesterone and whether I could do with extra. Does anyone use it?


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Momamia does :)

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Thankyou everyone for all your support. I am doing not as bad I thought. I big part of that is not telling dh about my POAS. He is my biggest strength and weakness too. I would fall apart if I would have had him hoping with me. He has been almost certain that we will take time to get a bfp just like dd. I was not that sure coz of the Opks. Anyway I really want to have some fun on our vacation. Having af on vacation isn't actually the most romantic idea anyway. [emoji51][emoji51][emoji51]
Pbn - I am going to keep waiting, hoping and praying for you. Fx fx.
Ash - Don't give up just yet love. Fx. Hugs.
Lollabelle- Keep us posted. I m rooting for you all.
Iwant4kids - When do you get your test result? Fx
I don't feel super sad because I had you all for sharing my feelings every step of the way. You guys rock. Xx



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Iwant4kids, I use progesterone. Ask me anything you'd like. I've been taking it since September.

Pbn, I'm so excited about your rise!!! I'm crossing everything for you!

I know what you mean, Sky. DH is the same for me. He's completely convinced that I'm pregnant right now, so I know he'll be really sad if/when I find out that I'm not. I purposely try to be super pessimistic in order to protect myself. I'm totally ready for a bfn.

I had a bit of a dip this morning. I also started the progesterone, so my temps won't be very reliable until around 14-15dpo. Tomorrow I take my second trigger shot too, so I can finally start testing it out!


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She's here! CD 1


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Momamia you have to post pics every 3 days while testing it out please!!!

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I'm off to work so enjoy your day or night all xx

Sky I'm really happy to read your post :) and super excited for your next cycle!

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She's here! CD 1


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I'm glad your limbo is over Iwant4kids. Very sorry still but glad the dreadful wait is over. Just quickly can you take clomid on a chemical cycle? Might be worth double checking just in case?

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Iwant4kids, I'm so glad your limbo is over!

Pbn, I'll probably post them more frequently than that so I don't forget, lol!

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I am sorry Iwant4kids but at the same time excited for the new cycle. Waiting is the worst part. Good luck for the next cycle.
Momma - I am the same. Keep saying it's not going to happen and hoping inside just so I feel in control of my emotions. Keep
Us posted. I am praying sooo so hard. Hugs.


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Thanks Sky!! I'm so praying for all of us!! 😊😊😊 I really want us all to be in the ddg together!!

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Thanks ladies! Hoping my HCG is below 5 from yesterday....
Pbn3 - I need to ring my ob and find out what next. Hoping it's okay to take it. Might need to wait until a later cycle day


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Iwant4kids-that is exactly what I went through except AF was late. I'm sorry, but glad that there's no more waiting & you're ready to move on. This is my 1st time charting temps-which I wish I had done the last cycle...maybe I would've seen the drop in temp & would've been more prepared. Crazy how accurate temping is!
Moma-can't wait for your testing to begin! I'll be watching for your updates!
Skyblue-lovin' the positivity! Have fun on vaca :)
Ash-when do you leave for vaca?Fx that things change in the next few days!!
Blue swayers-food for thought....I got pregnant right away with both boys & really feel like the FertileCM supplement I was taking had something to do with it. I didn't find out until researching later that it sways blue. Def not using it this time, so I'm wondering if maybe that's why it's taking me longer?? I need to find the pink swaying version!!


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Iwant4kids-that is exactly what I went through except AF was late. I'm sorry, but glad that there's no more waiting & you're ready to move on. This is my 1st time charting temps-which I wish I had done the last cycle...maybe I would've seen the drop in temp & would've been more prepared. Crazy how accurate temping is!
Moma-can't wait for your testing to begin! I'll be watching for your updates!
Skyblue-lovin' the positivity! Have fun on vaca :)
Ash-when do you leave for vaca?Fx that things change in the next few days!!
Blue swayers-food for thought....I got pregnant right away with both boys & really feel like the FertileCM supplement I was taking had something to do with it. I didn't find out until researching later that it sways blue. Def not using it this time, so I'm wondering if maybe that's why it's taking me longer?? I need to find the pink swaying version!!


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Thanks Lolabelle. That's one thing I have always been thinking about. I was ready to take it and then didn't. I am going to include fertile CM too now. How long did you take it?


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Iwant4kids that must be a relief to finally be able to move on to next cycle. I wish mine would come today lol so I can get on with it


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Skyblue-I read a little about it, but had no idea it swayed blue...so gave it a try. I took it every day in the cycle until I got a BFP then discontinued. There were other blue swaying factors that I didn't realize, but I think the FertileCM only helps since it increases EWCM. I guess there's not a pink swaying version b/c the idea is to have less CM haha... it may just take me longer to conceive my long awaited princess!!!


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