Part 4: Due December 2017, January, February and March 2018

Pbn3- I have had about 5 ultrasounds already due to a larger sized subchorionic hematoma. But i havent had one for the 12 week scan. From what they said because the hematoma was getting a little bit smaller each week they are going to wait until 13 weeks I guess for another ultrasound. I hope by then the hematoma will be completely gone but it has been taking forever to heal it seems like. I was diagnosed at 6 weeks with it and it's still not gone according to last ultrasound last week which was at 11 weeks. This has definitely been different. I have never had a hematoma with any of my previous pregnancies. And it has been really scary because they won't even tell me that they think it will be fine they actually wouldn't answer me on if I would possibly lose this baby or not. They just told me we would have to wait and see. Between that and the severe sickness that made me lose about 20 pounds over the past 5-6 weeks it has been really hard to deal with. Although once i started to eat beans it has helped tremendously with the throwing up. I havent thrown up in over a week!☺

Pbn3 I am glad to hear that you have a healthy baby that is such good news!☺

Also to anyone who is interested The Children's Place is having great deals on jeans today only they are $6.99 a pair. They also have great deals on everything else but the jeans were the best deal. They even go up to size 18 for older boys. This sale is today only though.

Thanks you MOFM!!! And you are so right! As soon as you have one gender people make you feel the very next baby has to be an opposite or you are told you have to be hoping for an opposite. Whether its true or not its just simply inappropriate to comment on but society is also heading towards having no filters 😂

I asked my boys whether they hope baby is a boy or a girl and they both chose boy 💙 The more time goes on the more I'm hoping I hear boy as a boy will fit so well into our family and I love the idea of brothers for life. Me and dh aren't young and I can only hope our children have a strong bond in life and be there for each other when we die. If I had a girl I sometimes wander and worry if she would feel alone being the youngest and the only girl when we pass on 😕 Gah crazy brain 😂😂😂 Here's the pic I sent through to family last night. Its very simple and straightforward 😂 I'll leave it up a couple hours then remove :)

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Oh wow momoffourboyz I have to go for now but I'll be back after school drop off to comment xxoo

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Sooo cute Pbn!! Ok I ordered the Doppler bc I have 3 more weeks until I see my baby again.
Ash - did you get a heartbeat at 9/10 weeks? How do I know it's not mine [emoji23]


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Pbn3 - You have some handsome little dudes! Could they be anymore cuter?! :cool:

I agree pbn3 they are very cute little boys!☺

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Sooo cute Pbn!! Ok I ordered the Doppler bc I have 3 more weeks until I see my baby again.
Ash - did you get a heartbeat at 9/10 weeks? How do I know it's not mine [emoji23]


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Your heartbeat will be slower and the babies will sound like a galloping horse or a train because it's faster. You should be able to hear at 9-10 weeks depending on where your placenta is. With my last pregnancy I was able to hear it at 8 and a half weeks. This pregnancy was sbout 10 weeks because my placenta is towards the front. I have the same Doppler as ash does by the way. Hope that's herlpful. ☺

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Bluebooties do you get a scan at your appt this month? September feels like such a long time away but I'm sure it will fly by.

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I dont think so. I have a 12 week visit on the 14th to go over how i am feeling (boring) and discuss results from blood tests taken last visit. Then on my 16 week visit they will offer the quad screen. No ultrasounds involved in the process except at 20th week on september 8th ...

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Kat I got my Doppler 10w4d and found it. I guess I've had so many babies lol I just know it's not mine. Yours will be slower and baby will be fast
Momoffourboys hopefully that heals for you and you can get a good nub shot at 13w scan
Pbn I love the announcement super cute! I'm also torn boy or girl but I know deep down I'll be upset if I don't hear girl.


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Wow! Y'all done started a new thread and I was only out for a few days it feels like lol. I posted on the other one but I'll post here too :)
Had my second appt today and was only suppose to hear the babies heartbeat but after my Doc could t find the heart beat and me freaking out, wedod am ultraskund. Little peanut is all ok and was just hiding! Heart rate was 170 and growing right on schedule.

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Countrymomma what a cute baby (girl) [emoji6]


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Thanks Ash! Set my appt today to find out what we will be having Sept 7th. Sounds soooooo far away!!

Nawwww gorgeous bub countrymommy 😍😍😍

Thank you everyone for you kind comments about my ferals ❤

Momoffourboyz what a stressful 5 weeks it has been for you! I really hope you hear that the hematoma has shrunk dramatically or is completely gone next week. What day is your scan?

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My next appointment is on July 19th. I am praying everything will be healed up by then.

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Your heartbeat will be slower and the babies will sound like a galloping horse or a train because it's faster. You should be able to hear at 9-10 weeks depending on where your placenta is. With my last pregnancy I was able to hear it at 8 and a half weeks. This pregnancy was sbout 10 weeks because my placenta is towards the front. I have the same Doppler as ash does by the way. Hope that's herlpful. ☺

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Thank you!! It's on the way!


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Countrymommy glad the baby is ok. It does look like a girly nub to. ��

14.5 hours till a hopeful nub shot... im stressin soooo bad about what this baby is I've gotten myself a yeast infection 🤦*♀️


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🤷*♀️ why does that man up there always show up? I hit the lady! Maybe that's a sign it's another boy! Talk about reading into things to much


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Oh no Ash!!! So glad your scan is so close xxoo And you're definately reading into thingstoo much! Sending positive pink baby dust your way xxoo if I could I'd send you a convoy of trucks carrying pink dust 💓💕💖💗💞💟

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Ash- is this pregnancy different then your pregnancy with your boys? When I was pregnant with my daughter it could have been 90 degrees out and I was so cold I was wearing sweaters in July. People thought I was nuts. With my boys I was always hot all the time. I also had zits with my daughter and none with my boys. I was very sick and emotional with my daughter as well. I am sure every pregnancy is different but if you look back at the boy pregnancies are they different then this one? Also I can't wait to hear what baby might be. Hoping you hear girl or see a girly nub if they won't tell you either way. Hopefully you'll be able to get a picture or a CD. Every ultrasound I have had they have given me a CD, so I have 5 already and they don't seem to mind. I would just ask them for either a CD or a really nice clear picture of the whole baby so you can send it out as an announcement. Plus it's nice to ha 've them for the baby book later. ☺

Thanks pbn!
Momoffourboyz this pregnancy has been night and day with my boys but I have not admitted that to anyone close since I still feel like it could mean nothing. I've been so much sicker. I thought the ms was easing up but the last three days (today being the worst) I have been so so nauseous. I've had zits but not horribly bad. My skin is just off. And the most noticeable difference is I've had such bad aversions to anything sweet. Cake, cookies, ice cream 🤢 blah so gross. But I've been thinking of these differences and remembering when I was ttc and having "symptoms" in the tww only to have af arrive


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And momoffourboyz I think I will ask for a cd since hubby won't be there and if they don't do it I'll ask if I can video a little bit of it. So hopefully one way or another I'll get a nub shot! I told dh I'm going to drink an orange juice on my way so maybe baby isn't cooperating and the scan takes longer for them to get what they need [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]


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With my daughter I had morning sickness until 20 weeks. I sure hope it doesn't last that long for you. But it sounds to me like you are having a girl. With my daughter I just knew because it was so different that she was a girl. I really hope you get your girl!!

Hi ladies I thought I would touch base and check in!
Congrats to all those who have had recent bfps - it's been a while since I've been on and soo many pages I haven't had a chance to read through - will try do so tomorrow
Had a private gender scan today at 15+4 and we are having another girl... I'm so happy baby is ok but admit I've shed a few tears over not hearing boy and also guilt at feeling this way... we've been getting the gender comments since we announced ie no chance it will be a boy and I think part of me was hoping to prove them wrong but alas.. I think it's made worse by those who make the comments aim them at me as if it's my fault it's not a boy... anyway don't want to dampen this thread any more..
Looking forward to seeing some more baby scans and have my fingers crossed everyone else gets their dg [emoji4]


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Pbn-awww I missed your pic! [emoji20]Could you possibly PM it to me or post again briefly?? I meant to mention the comment from your family member about you wanting a girl. Ugh, there's always that one annoying comment right?? Hope your healthy baby comment quickly shut them down!
Mum of four monkeys-have your boys suggested any names yet & do you like them? Mine would suggest something like Lightening McQueen lol, but they are young!
Momofffourboyz-prayers for the hematoma to be completely gone by your next U/S!!!
Kat-I haven't heard the hb on my Doppler yet, but will try again soon. If you search some YouTube videos, you'll be able to tell the difference.
Ashhhh-yayyy tomorr is appt day! What time will it be??

Boywish great to hear from you and I'm sorry you didn't hear boy

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Whoops hit post by mistake! We've been discussing the 'comments' people make and why it hasnto be this way 😩 Happy to hear baby girl is healthy :) Do you have a scan pic?

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CountryMommy-cute baby!!! Maybe baby is camera shy saying "no pics" lol. I had a freak out moment like that at 16 weeks, OB couldn't find the hb right away with the Doppler & as I started panic, he went straight to the U/S and there was the heart beating away...so lovely to see!! [emoji173]

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Whoops hit post by mistake! We've been discussing the 'comments' people make and why it hasnto be this way [emoji30] Happy to hear baby girl is healthy :) Do you have a scan pic?

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Thanks PBN - I think that is what makes it the hardest the comments make you feel like you've failed and yet there is no failure in creating and bringing a life into this world.. ugh [emoji58]
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Pm sent Lola 😀

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Thanks PBN - I think that is what makes it the hardest the comments make you feel like you've failed and yet there is no failure in creating and bringing a life into this world.. ugh [emoji58]
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Agree! The word failure does not even belong in the same sentence as baby ❤ Have you got any names in mind?

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Boywish-congrats on another healthy girl! [emoji175]These are the same feelings I've been struggling with wondering if I'll have another boy. I know I'd feel the same way shedding some tears, then feeling guilty. It's completely natural! I also feel that strong need to prove the naysayers wrong! I've only told close family/friends, but have had many comments like "bet money on it it's another boy." Ughhh. Comments are the worst! A few years ago, one of my coworkers found out she was having her 3rd girl and was so upset. She now says that she wouldn't have it any other way, they are her girl team & have so much fun together! The important thing is, you have a healthy baby girl on the way who will LOVE her momma [emoji175]

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Ah boywish. Your feelings are totally valid. I too wanted to prove 'em wrong. It does feel like failure when those comments come up. Just know that you have girls but some others have just boys and those who have just one of each may not have the same type of bond as our babies and some just may. It doesn't matter logically. Emotionally it's tough to reconcile. I hope you find that you can always come back here and be surrounded by those who understand you completely. We're in your boat!


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Just saw a family that made the news they hadn't had a girl in 4 generations, for 137 years. And one of the son's and his wife just had a baby girl.

boywish: Congrates for healthy baby. but sorry you didnt hear Boy.

Thank you for the support ladies. I'm feeling calmer about it all after some sleep. What will be, will be and all that.

It was indeed the quad test combined with nuchal fold measurement. They offered an amnio but I opted to pay privately for a panorama NIPT. We're hopeful the test will come back negative but if it doesn't, it doesn't.

Good luck for today's scan Ash

Boywish: congratulations on your healthy baby. I'm sorry you didn't hear boy.