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Thanks mummy! Hoping it's yours too! Sorry momma! That's annoying! Bodies don't cooperate when we need them too! Hoping everyone gets good news this month!!
Abc thinking of you!
Babybeaublue rooting for you!
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Wowzer this thread has moved quickly in the past couple of days. I shall deffo have to catch up tonight when the boys are in bed.
Question about when I should bd, I'm on cd15 and totally got an unexpected +OPK today (I normally have long cycles) we dtd on cd12 & cd13 and hubby was going to abstain until cd20 (last month that when I got +OPK)
My question is do we dtd again or not? Last month we dtd on same day as +OPK and didn't get pregnant.
On another note I joined weight watchers and lost 7lbs this week...so happy right now :D
ABC, thinking about you! Did you get the results back?
Mummy, remind me if you've ever tried clomid or any meds?
Happy lea my instinct would be bd again tonight, but I mainly want a baby more than gender so I'm not much help. I'd definitely ask Atomic!
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Mommy - thank you, I have asked on another thread but honestly maybe fate but tonight is 1st night in ages that me n hubby are out for a night out child free for absolutely ages and I'm sure dh will expect to be doing a bedroom dance later anyways.
I would love a little girl but I have done different ways of swaying previously and it has never worked the only thing we hadn't done was abstain. We would be happy and gender but would love pink...but our babies choose us I guess.
Great way of looking at it happylea! I kind of let the lord take over this cycle and let my dh take the lead! Hoping it worked!
Definitely as much as we would love to hear pink, I want a baby more!
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Hi max, no I've never had any meds, I spoke to the doctor about it but she said they wouldn't do any tests etc as I already have two children and she thinks it is down to my age that I'm not conceiving as quick. I may go back again next month though if still no luck.
Happylea, I think you should bd! What will be will be. And well done for the fab weight loss!
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Mummy2boys thank you hun, I hope you get your bfp, so sorry to hear about your loss.Quote:
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Oh my gosh - I woke up today with the most killer headache!!! I don't know if it's because of caffeine withdrawal since I've cut back so much since BFP or if it's something related to pregnancy! Have any of you had this in early pregnancy, or even as a miscarriage sign? I have basically no other pregnancy symptoms right now, which is adding to my thinking that this pregnancy is not going right. I know it's early still (4.5 weeks) but with my 2nd son, by this time I was SO sick already!
Doctor hasn't called yet :( I may call in a few hours to see if they have the results back yet.
Mummy that doesn't seem right that they wouldn't do testing or meds if you've been trying for a year! Are you in the UK? In the US I believe that if you're over 35, they start testing after 6 months of trying.
Stinks they haven't called yet abc! Would definitely call if he doesn't soon. My drs always called around 1pm with my results
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I know and mine usually calls by 8:30 before the office opens. So I'm thinking either he doesn't have the results yet or maybe he's in L&D today. But maybe at lunchtime.
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Prayers you hear good news at lunch time!
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Hi ABC, yeah I'm UK. I think they would do something if I didn't have children but she didn't seem very helpful tbh. She said she could send me for a scan but I've already had one last year for something else so I didn't think that would help.
I bet this waiting is so hard for you!! Praying you get Good news when you hear.
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Happy I'd bd again just in case u don't actually O for another day or 2
Mummy I'm in the UK too. My Dr got me to have blood tests, can u see someone else??
ABC phone your Dr!!!
Max clomid can create very high/healthy progesterone levels. My doctor told me it is from having a very healthy/strong ovulation...which it should be if its medically inducedQuote:
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Hi everyone. I am back on swaying again. I was ttc back in April but that cycle was a wreck due to moving and lack of sleep and stress. And we had lots of things happened after that so didn't ttc. Now everything is back to normal so I'm back on again. It looks like many of you got pos hpt (yayyy so awesome!). Congratulations and hope you guys will all have smooth pregnancies.
Pbn: It is very nice to see that you still sticks around to help us on our ttc journey.
ABC: i'm so sorry to hear about your test. I hope that you will get good results today. Fx!
Well my hope is quickly falling.... I haven't heard from the doctor and unless they just don't have the results yet (seems unlikely), I'm guessing it's bad news. I called and left them a message asking about the results 2 hours ago and they are usually pretty quick in calling back. If the numbers were good, I'm thinking the medical assistant (who has called me with results before) would have called. My guess is the doctor wants to call me himself since it's not good but hasn't had the time yet.
And I didn't mention this earlier but I did another FRER today and the line was a little lighter that I've seen it. I *know* that's not scientific but it doesn't seem good. And I feel like I'm having cramps. That may just be stress-related (I definitely have stress-related stomach issues going on right now too), but I just have a growing bad feeling now. Mainly - I really just want to KNOW.
Welcome, Shinay! Are you going to start ttc-ing this month? Going for blue? We have lots of blue dust on this board we can send your way :)
Hi shinay! Nice to see you back. Have you had an attempt yet?
ABC, I'm sending you so many hugs! I hope the results come through quickly. I know how it feels for the tests to get lighter as that happened to me last month and it was awful. Fingers crossed it was just a blip and everything is going to be just fine for you.
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ABC: dont give up yet till you see the results. Sorry i cant offer much help since i'm ttc for my first. Please let us know as soon as you get your results. I pray that you dont have to go through the heartbreak, but if it happens, we are here to support you in any possible way. Hang in there!
I am going for blue, and I am debating whether I should try this month or next. Since I stopped ttc in April, I still maintain taking prenatal. My diet has always been blue friendly so i think I am okay with that. But DH always eats very little and on the skinny side, so if we ttc this month, I only have a week to make him eat more (I think I'm gonna O next week). So if I wait for one more month, I might have more time to make DH consume more food and nutrients. And also he wanna start workout next month so that might also help with blue sway. Not sure if I should give it a go this month or give us some more time to make our conditions even stronger.
mummy: thanks dear. i am so sorry you had to go through that last cycle. Fx this is your lucky month! I just looked at your chart. You seem to have much later pos opk this cycle, right? Do your cycles fluctuate a lot or it is just an odd month?
Abc! It could be good news! 🤞🏻[emoji1317]
Welcome shinay!!
You can have all my blue dust!!
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Thanks shinay. I'm usually pretty regular but I had a chemical pregnancy last month which seems to have completely messed up my cycles. I've still not ovulated yet [emoji17]
You can have all my blue dust too! Have you written a post for atomic to see what she suggests? If it were me, I'd just go for it anyway, I think it's your condition that matters more but I really don't know what I'm talking about!
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Heyyyyy stop giving all that blue dust away!! I need it more than anyone lol :bigsmile::giggle:
Lol I have plenty to spare babybeaublue!
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And I have lol, you're welcome to share [emoji23][emoji23]
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Mummy, maybe it's starting to rise now!
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Yea I think us pink swayers here have more than enough blue dust to go around Babybeau :) :) :)
Shinay - I agree with mummy I don't think DH's condition is going to make that much difference, but I don't know how the blue sways on here are supposed to work so maybe check with Atomic. Are you going to use Pre-Seed? I used that when we conceived our first little blue bundle! I also ate a LOT of cereal when we got preggo with him!!! :) All those good extra vitamins (that I guess are actually just sprayed on the cereal - yum!)
mummy: duh stupid me for asking. Sorry for reminding you about CP last month. your tempt probably will spike tomorrow. Fx!
It's good idea. I probably should make a post and ask atomic. I wish I could just let go and enjoy the process but a freak in me keep trying to control everything. I would love a girl too but I always wanted to have a big brother :(
BBB: that made me laugh. we dont have many blue swayers here, i think there are plenty of blue dust for us to split :D
ABC: did they call you back yet? Maybe you should give them another call since they might have been busy during lunch time.
I'm going to try Mucinex this time. DH doesnt like the feeling of preseed even if i use only little, so I dont even bother with that. I'm drinking tons of lemon water everyday so hopefully that and mucinex will help with ewcm.
Way to ruin my mood Husband [emoji24]he said is that rag breath are you getting ready to start? I said I hope not. [emoji24] I said not for another week he said well you will be starting. Probably true. I'll probably never get my rainbow baby.
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I hope so mommy! 🤞
No worries at all shinay, I'm okay about it all. lol about the control thing, I'm exactly the same! Need to control everything, not a chance of letting go for me. That's a good thing for swaying boy though I think..
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Just a super quick post until I get ds1 to school!
Shinay hello!!!!!!! [emoji847][emoji847][emoji847] so good to see you back!! I held onto your chart for ages before giving up and removing the link but thought of you alot [emoji173] can you post another link to you chart? I'll be back in a couple hours with more to say [emoji6][emoji3]
Mummy2boys are you still doing opks? Gosh what a pain in the butt cycle this is turning out to be!!!
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Abc hope you hear something in the next hour and I'd also be ringing back! If your hpt looks lighter at this stage then I would prepare to hear bad news (hugs) Hpts are not good for seeing pregnancy progression initially in the early days of testing but by now there should be an easy line progression at 17dpo from your earlier ones. Do you have a pic with them all together?
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Hi Pbn! I did an opk this afternoon and it was completely negative. You are right, this cycle is a total pain lol!!
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Mommy2apples every morning I wake I work out how many more sleeps till the 31st! [emoji23] like its going to go from 10 sleeps to 1 overnight [emoji23] well its 6 more by my calculation [emoji6]
Mummy2boys are you going to still try this cycle or do you think its worth a try dropping temping, opks for a week or so and just bd every 3 or 4 days. Maybe a more relaxed approach will speed things up whether o or af? Try taking a temp in a weeks time or something to see if its in post o range yet?
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Thanks pbn. If dh is right like he always is I probably didn't conceive anyways. He was so smug about it too. When you going to learn I'm always right? I'm like are you sure you didn't just say that to ruin my day? Yea cause I like ruining your day sarcastically. He doesn't even get why that would ruin my day. I just want to cry now. Going to get my workout in and cry.
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Pbn: aww how sweet of you! Here is my chart link https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6a8e52 I only mark bd without protection. Other times, we use pull-out method (tmi, sorry) since i originally plan to ttc next cycle. But since my cycle is so long (34 to 38 days), it's quite dreadful to wait a whole month. I'm too impatient! hahaha
HUGS Mommy -That was so uncool of him!
Thanks Shann! I agree! He must be on his! [emoji23]
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Doc called - hcg went from 66 to 92. 50% increase, it should have been at least 60%. He didn't check the progesterone again. Wants me to come in for another draw on Monday.
He said all we can do right now is wait & watch. He said it's leaning towards this not being a viable pregnancy but he can't say for sure yet - since he's seen unexpected things happen.
So basically - I still don't know where this is heading :(
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