Make sure you call before to find out if they have the pregnancy massage beds with a hole for your belly. Its pointless if you have to lie on your back. It’s worth it!! Hang in there [emoji177]
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Make sure you call before to find out if they have the pregnancy massage beds with a hole for your belly. Its pointless if you have to lie on your back. It’s worth it!! Hang in there [emoji177]
Well, I took a pregnancy test this morning and it was negative. My period is “predicted” at six or less days away. Obviously there is no concrete proof I’m not pregnant until I don’t get a period. Would you say my chances are slim if I’m testing negative six days out?
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Eighme that’s still very early in my opinion! I think you still have a chance!
Thank you! I thought it probably was. I just decided to test anyway 🤷🏻*♀️Quote:
Originally Posted by Girlswaylondon
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Yes I'm also temping. But if I look at my past two months, my temp doesn't spike much. And spikes a little late.Quote:
Originally Posted by Noemi2017
Honestly I'd rather go for girl for the first few months and not risk boy but then switch over to go for baby after 4 months or so.
So maybe this is a sign to just wait for January.
I talked to hubs after he asked when we need to dtd. I kindly explained the situation. He feels bummed that he messed it up on Monday and Tuesday. So he wants to be given a heads up on the e4d days so he can work it in his schedule.
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c
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I had massage every few weeks last time when pregnant. Totally worth it. I wish we had the cut out belly ones but we didn't do they had me lay on my side. Still great!Quote:
Originally Posted by Filzma
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GirlswayHGmama oh my days! Those massage beds are worth their weight in gold especially in 3rd trim.I would come back feeling like a human again. Definitely search some that have the belly cut out in future. Felt soooo good to finally lie on my ‘tummy’.
Eighme lol that’s too early. I think we need to tie your hands. You seem susceptible to the poas virus. [emoji13]
Oh and I think the only thing I wasn’t prepared for is just how much pressure scheduled bding puts on DHs. There was moments I could tell he felt strained and irritable. Mentally it puts them off and puts so much pressure as they know they have to ‘deliver’. Only thing we get to worry about is watery/EWCM and even that can be bought. It’s hard. So take heart GirlswayHGmama, it’ll happen and hopefully the other ladies can chime in on how not to make it so scheduled.
PROBABLY! Just go ahead because I’m so anxious! 🤣Quote:
Originally Posted by Filzma
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Lol tell me about it. We literally need to stop! I really see the point of making a thread just for the 2ww. I do! This is so hard.
YES! I agree!Quote:
Originally Posted by Filzma
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Hey girl, how many DPO are you? I'm 7dpo and this 2ww is killing me! Haha I just want to know!! LolQuote:
Originally Posted by Eighme
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And I have to admit I'm a POAS addict too [emoji57]
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:poas: here too!
You were right pbn!
My tests are now getting lighter on cheapies and still negitive on the digital. I didn't miss my serge did I?
I don't feel like I ovulated and I'm still only cd12... We haven't bd yet though [emoji848]
8 day’s over here!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Star4012
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So we are really close in our cycles!! Yay! I have tested each day since 3dpo bahaha I mean I know it's early but it helps me pass time lol. Are you swaying? Im swaying girl :) fingers crossed that the clomid worked and swayed. Here's my chart:https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...f672855ee1.jpgQuote:
Originally Posted by Eighme
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Yay! Love having people so close! Yes! I am swaying girl over here. Hoping drastically changing my eating habits has swayed!Quote:
Originally Posted by Star4012
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Yuuuumm perfect dinner tonight: marinated salmon, roasted baby carrots, 1/2 baked potato and some organic malbec!! 3rd meal of the day (small 2nd meal). Totally within my fat, protein, and calorie limits, and I'm going to do my YouTube workout video tonight. Yay for a better day of swaying!!!!!!
Man this board is moving fast lately!! I can't keep up!! I'm hoping all of you ladies get your BFPs this cycle!! Sadly that would mean I may be the only one left on the January ttc board but oh well. It would be worth it to see all of you with your rainbow babies!!!!
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Robin I wouldn't think you've missed your surge. You may o later than usual being an unmedicated cycle. Just keep testing and your line should start coming back in again hopefully in a day or two [emoji4]Quote:
Originally Posted by Robin2014
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Star that's a nice sharp dip at prime time for implantation! (Anywhere from 6-10dpo usually) however it could also just be you secondary estrogen surge which happens around now too. I prefer to think its the former though [emoji6] can you post a pic of your chart the next two/three days please?
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My hubby is driving me nuts!!! Actually he doesn't want to try for a third child yet... But I do. Yesterday we bd'ed completely unprotected. It was CD7 and normally I o on CD13. Earliest is CD11 so I think there are not really any chances of getting pregnant from this. Especially since I'm still spotting a little bit from AF. What do you think about the chances? [emoji51]
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Oh ABC, I'm getting hungry!!! Sounds really delicious!Quote:
Originally Posted by ABC.2606
Why do you actually want to wait until next month?
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Verena I'd say zero chance unfortunately [emoji17] I'd just try a bit closer to you usual o time (maybe cd11) and try your luck at initiating an unprotected bd? If he goes along with it then he's aware there's a chance.....
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Girlswaylondon one or two more temps and ff will shift your crosshairs.
Noemi glad to see yours has [emoji4]
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I thought so... [emoji24] I actually regret yesterday's bd. I think he would maybe bd unprotected again today or tomorrow but not at peak fertility. But today or tomorrow would be so blue friendly that I don't want to go for it. Both my boys were two attempts in fertile window... Sigh...Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
So I'm going to be a pee on an opk addict the next days hoping for really early ovulation [emoji6]
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So if you bded unprotected tomorrow that would be cd9 right? If the earliest you've oed is cd11 (and let's say you did again) there'd only be THE smallest chance of any swimmers left over from cd7's attempt and I would say none if you oed cd12. If he'd go along with dtd cd9 then I would definately go for it. That at least gives you the possibility of a 2-o or a 3-o attempt if you o by cd12. If you o cd12 then it would definately only count as one attempt IMO. You may want to get Atomics input to be sure though. Just raise a new thread under ttc girl forum :)
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Oh brilliabt, had no idea it did that I’m still figuring it all out :D thanks for letting me know!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
Exactly, tomorrow will be cd9... If I really oed on cd 11, then that would be an O-4 attempt and if we bd again tomorrow an additional O-2. And the bd last night was at midnight, so almost on cd8 instead of cd7... I think I'm too scared to add another attempt [emoji30] at the moment I think I will make sure there are two full days between attempts, even though that could mean hubby doesn't want to bd unprotected...Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
But hubby keeps surprising me with "risky" (in terms of getting pregnant) bd wishes. So I just hope he is making up his mind and will be fully on board soon [emoji110]
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Well I've convinced myself that my O day has not come. Opk are near positive but haven't changed over the last few days so no true blazing positive. My temps arent spiking. Looks like we are going to just restart ed4 tonight (it's almost 8am here in the middle of america) and see what happens.
If I would like to increase some old school sway tactics, what would you use? Which ones were you surprised debunked.
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I'm with you girl! I'll be on the January one too. Besides skipping breakfast and of course I live on coffee haha, I've kinda blown any diet and have totally slacked on my work outs...maybe once a week. So many cookies!! Damn you holidays haha. It is what it is. I didn't sway last time and I had a girl. With my son, looking back I seemed to sway blue....lots of bd and we used preseed, no coffee at that point ha.Quote:
Originally Posted by ABC.2606
I did abruptly stop shakeology and vitamins. Not a huge coffee drinker but definitely started a daily dose last month. What do you put in your coffee? Okay to be iced? What's the theory on coffee, atomic?
Pondering rePhresh for tonight's attempt? Am I crazy?
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I honestly just drink mine black. I know that doesn't work for a lot of people. It has zero calories and it just seems easier. But, if I do add something, I only add the tiniest bit of almond milk and stay away for sugar and the creamers (the calories tend to add up quickly for me). I think iced or hot doesn't really matter one way or the other. Coffee is supposed to sway pink, from what I've gathered.
GirlswayHGmama I second you haven't oed going by temps. Hopefully you'll see a pos opk in the next few days but you'll be doing an e4d pattern instead did you mean? I would probably opt for one attempt at pos opk instead this cycle if you're wanting to do your best mini sway in the shortest circumstances.
Coffee is fine however you have it. Most just do the dash of milk to keep calories below a 'snack' amount (anything above 18 calories from memory) I loved my cafe flat whites far too much so I would make my coffee a meal usually around mid morning, always a skinny though to limit calories but the downside was they were high in protein [emoji23]. Rephesh can really drop conception odds but if you are wanting to use it then maybe do so a few hours prior to bding? Alternatively you could try a j&d after 5 minutes instead? Other old sway unproven tactics you could try is hot shower/bath for both you and dh prior to bding, antihistamine to dry up cm (although I'm pretty sure I've read awhile ago Atomic has stopped using this as it hasn't proved to make much if any difference).
What I would do if I was you is create your own thread under the ttc a girl forum asking for last minute, old school tactics you can try? Atomic will see it and respond over the next day or two. She doesn't monitor these support threads, something may catch her eye on a rare occasion but it's just far too much for her to keep up with so anytime you want her to answer you directly always create a new thread under the related forum [emoji4]
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Eighme are you 4 or 5dpo??!! So excited for all the testing coming up [emoji3]
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Thanks so much Pbn3!!! Yes I was thinking of getting back on e4d since it's been a week since a release and I have no idea when O may happen. Today is cd14. Really curious what my body is doing this first cycle off of birth control. I've been searching for the CM- been barely having any at all. Maybe the stress of the holidays, changing my diet a tiny bit, and the lack of hormonal birth control has me all messed up. I'd kill for regular cycles right now.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
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They'll become regular but yep I'd expect the unexpected this first cycle [emoji23] Conceiving in the first few cycles after stopping BC is another pink sway tactic in itself so you also have that on your side! If you want to bd to have dh releasing every few days I'd use protection and then drop it for one attempt at pos opk. There's a theory (scientifically proven apparently) that people who bd regularly (I'm guessing regularly means 2-3 days/wk) on average conceive far more quickly than those that bd irregularly or once a week/fortnight kinda thing (again I dont know the exact details, thats just my interpretation of less). They believe it has to do with the female body becoming 'used' to having sperm in the body and therefore our bodies dont seek out and destroy the sperm 'invaders' as much as those who dtd less. So by using protection for your attempts that dont count you're keeping your body more hostile. This would just be for the first few cycles though (so any pink swayers who have already been ttc this isn't directed at you). By then you'd move onto e4d of unprotected attempts so you are still having just one attempt but your body may become more receptive to conceiving. Up to you which way you go, just thought I'd throw that out there [emoji4]
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You were absolutely right pbn!! :) ff changed my o day!
We're waiting bc I miscarried last weekend and I don't feel ready to try again next week (when I'm expecting I'll ovulate again). Plus I want to be back solid on the diet for at least a few weeks, plus my obgyn is going to put me back on Clomid next cycle so I want to wait for that. But yea waiting sucks :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Verena
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Ugh I know - big family dinners, cookies everywhere, it's killing me! Trying to do the best I can now and then get really strict again starting January 1.Quote:
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Girlsway so when was your ovulation? 20? Mine 19 decemberAttachment 38490