Oh kasey how horrible:(. I'm so sorry.
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Oh kasey how horrible:(. I'm so sorry.
I'm so sorry kasey, what a horrible thing to be going through.
Sorry to you Kasey, sending strength and healing your way.
My nausea sounds as bad as most of you ladies on here. Have to eat every 2 hours to keep it at bay. I'm worse in the afternoons/evenings. Still hopefully it means all is well with the growing baby!
I feel like I just won't get my desired gender. Like it would be too much of a good thing to get. Never wanted something so bad as this and already feel guilty for the probable 3rd boy in my tummy :( sorry to moan as I know others are going through such grief termoil at the moment. To add to this I know 2 mum friends who have boys same age as my oldest and now expecting their girls. I so want to be happy for them and feel that I could be happy for everyone as long as I get my girl...know what I mean??
I know exactly how you feel. EVERYONE around me is having boys. I, too, feel like it would just be too good for me to get a boy as well. I don't know how I'll deal with the devastation if this baby is another girl.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ugee
So glad we can say it on here belleboi! To know we are not alone with our thoughts is reassuring and it's not just me. I know it sounds crazy but feel I would be a better person if I got my girl...like I would enjoy hearing announcements and not feel like I want to hide away! Really have true happiness for people instead of trying to force out a smile when I should. I truly love my boys and wouldn't change them but i already feel some gender disappointment at the prospect of this being another boy.
I know JUST how you feel. A friend gleefully told me today she was sure it was another boy. I smiled but the way she smirked when she said it (she has a PP) was so obnoxious. I've been saying we think it is another boy and really I wouldn't mind another boy but when people respond like this I want it to be a girl just to spite them. It's so awful!!Quote:
Originally Posted by belleboi
yes and the guilt for feeling like you'd be a better person is the worst! Like we should just be happy to have a baby...but it's not good enough. These are all thoughts I could NEVER admit to people in real life. It's so reassuring knowing that other people feel the same.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ugee
About the nausea thingie
I cant eat every 2 hours as anything I eat stays in my stomach for looong that I wish to throw up to get rid of it :(
I wish I could tell you it was sunshine and rainbows on the other side of the fence. A good majority of our family still refuses to accept shes a girl. Because I was disappointed that our first was a boy and based off ultrasound pictures that no other doctor could make heads or tails of. I was just in denial giving the doctors a hard time because thats not what I wanted to hear. And now this time since I got told what I wanted at 15 weeks (no such thing in their eyes its 20 weeks or nothing) they are all "we will see what they say at 20 weeks). Our happy happy announcement left us both wanting to hide in the house to avoid the drama. We told ourselves the entire time its most likely a boy, we dont have that kind of luck, etc etc etc. And of course we heard the same thing from family. So we dealt with it and even still get the comments raining on our parade. So I definitely feel all of you in the current and from the past pregnancy! THIS is a girl, we are happy they need to keep their misery to themselves lol!
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Nahri- Sorry that they are bringing your should be happy time down! Still when your 20 week scan comes and says girl again you can middle finger them lol! Ha ha!
Business woman- your m/s sounds awful, poor you! Food helps for me but god am I going to be huge if this carries on longer than the 12 weeks lol.
If this baby is a boy I'm afraid the need for a girl will go on in my life till I'm going to be a crazy old lady buying life like baby dolls and putting them in girls clothes pushing a blooming pram down the street! People will say "look there is the crazy baby lady" ha ha!