How r u feeli g fox ?
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How r u feeli g fox ?
Ah, thank Booties. I'm a little better as have the actual sickness under control with a combo of medication, and a very strict daily routine of eating / drinking / Epsom salt baths etc! Have just taken the decision that DH will take the girls on our planned Xmas visit to both sets of grandparents and cousins tomorrow for a few days while I stay home alone! I just don't think I can handle the noise and the smells and the disturbed sleep (poor DH is currently on the sofa, but when away I would have both him and littlest DD in with us). Boo!Quote:
Originally Posted by Bluebooties
I'm also feeling a bit down about gender, was convinced for some reason that the baby I miscarried in August was a boy and therefore coming to terms with feeling that this little bubba is definitely another little girl (it seems so unlikely that we would successfully conceive boys twice in a row!), especially given that I have the sickness again.
Basically longing for this sickness to pass so I can perk myself up a bit and stop being such a misery guts, it's not like me at all! Sorry for the moan and thank you for providing a place I can vent (I feel super lonely with this sickness too as I feel a huge number of people just really don't get it at all, so I tend to keep it all bottled up).
Awe hang in there fox. Funny i have the same thoughts as u. I feel that the 12 week missed miscarriage was a boy and now this will be a girl. Really gets me depressed at times too ! Apart of me wants to know and a part of me wants to not know ... i am torn, the baby will be loved no matter but i will morn not having a son since this is our last. So i am slowly and gradually preparing myself or rather trying to convience myself its a girl so i wont be super disappointed when the tech say its a girl.
Strangly though i have had no inclinations about this baby thus far and no baby dreams.
Sounds exactly like me! I don't know if I want to know or not! She will be very very loved, but I always dreamed of having a little boy. I have a good feeling for you though - aren't your symptoms totally different from previous pregnancies?Quote:
Originally Posted by Bluebooties
Yes they r 360 degrees compared to both my girls who were carbon copy pregnancies but then i believe symptoms dont tell every pregnancy canbe different even with same gender.
The problem is my husband and i know how to read sonograms atleast at 20 weeks gestation so even if i wont look my husband will know and his expressions will tell me. For both my girls i knew even b4 the sonographer. Ahh i am afraid i will break down in the sono room which would be soooo embarasing !
Aww girls i feel the same. Part of me wanted to know and part of me doesnt. I just want to linger on hope of a girl a little longer. Sometimes i think its a girl and my dreams will come true. But then i dont want to be disappointment.
My ds1 best friends mom is having her fourth son. She just told me yesterday. Shes our neighbour n my friend as well. She was a bit disappointed but was trying to put up brave face. I was really hoping for her to get a daughter.
I feel like now i m going to get another boy as well.
I m feel so depressed n down now a days. [emoji37][emoji17]
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Sigh ! 😕
Bluebooties i dont want to bring anyone down here [emoji4]
Hun sorry if i sounded a bit depressed.
I ll try to cheer my self a bit. My kids are away at grand ma n i m feeling a bit lonely as well.
I have a scan today in 4 hrs. Hopefully i ll hear a girl. I want this wait to be over and get used to the idea of having another boy if it is
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