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Good luck HBP!! Thinking of you!!!
Here in California our weather has been ridiculous. In the 40's at night and 90's during the day. One day it's cold and the next it feels like summer again. It was 85 on Thanksgiving! So I'm a bit jelly of the snow too!!! I want to bundle up with boots and scarves already!!! For goodness sake... It's fall Mother Nature!!! :wink:
HBP, this is it TODAY!? You confirmation PINK scan.. I know with 100% certainty that your classic girl nub isn't going to lie!
YAY, I can't wait to hop on later!
Ask if you can get a 3d/4d if it's a medical one!!!!!
Well its official ladies I'm definitely having a girl haha! Scan was brilliant but miss willow was naughty and kept hiding her face so only got a few good pics! She's very healthy and super cute looks just like her brothers and apparently she has hair! The tech told me to take off all tags on clothes she's 99.9% positive its a girl :)
Any way here's one pic will add more later
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So is soooooo pretty,so pleased for you,my scan is thur 29th can't wait :.)Quote:
Originally Posted by homebirthing princess
She's sooo cute!!!! Congrats on your DEFINITE girl!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by homebirthing princess
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Congrats on your pink, HBP! Relax and enjoy shopping for all that girly stuff!
Little Willow is certainly a cutie, congratulations again on your little girl hbp x
Awwww! Huge congratulations she is adorable! What fantastic pics!! I am so happy for you, a fantastic early Christmas present. :)
Now get yourself to Next and go crazy buying pink!!! :D
Awwww!!! HBP, I'm so happy for you!! Reading your post brought happy tears to my eyes!! She is so beautiful!! You got some really great shots... Can't wait to see more!! :) Have fun shopping for all that pink!!!!
Congratulations!!!
Thanx to all you lovely ladies, you are all amazing I wouldnt have gotten through this with out you all, thanx for listening to me through all my crazyness lol, and thank u for all being so happy and positive towards me even though a lot of you didn't get your dg which u all so deserved!! ((((((((hugs)))))))))
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YAY HBP!!! I KNEW it my friend! It's Official, I swear you have the best girly nub on this site! ;)
And you got some 3D/4D pics AWESOME Luv!!!!! Now nobody can disprove you!
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She's adorable!!!!! :) And shy like my DD too!
Aw thank u sweetie :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Butterfly Spirit
The shyness must be a girl thing...total divas lol :) just seen your New pic, have u added more? Your princess is adorable :) xx
I know right! She gave the tech crap at the 14 wk 4 day gender scan lol but I'm glad she did because I got much better pics the week afterwards with a real OB!Quote:
Originally Posted by homebirthing princess
I just took a pic of my pic with my digital cam and uploaded in on the comp and made it my avatar. It's too blurry to upload the whole pic for now :)
And thank you! I will add the few I have when I can get to the office supply store.
I'm sure that we do have total drama divas! But that's what we asked for, isn't it? ;)
Congrats HBP :) Willow is a doll xx
HB she is adorable! Congratulations again xo
Girls, can you please have a look at this 3d pic that I hadn't uploaded before.
(Yes I'm still obsessing, sorry)
There are 2 protrusions between the legs??
One to the left, and the other to the right.
Is one of these likely to be a penis??
Or scrotum?
I think the one on the left is probably to long to be a penis (what on earth is it though?)
But what about the other one?
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Originally Posted by Lassie1982
I think the protrusion to the left could possibly be the leg but the image got distorted. I think the bump on the right could be the nub. Then again I've been told a few times recently (in so many words) that I'm pretty crap at this ultrasound guessing stuff - so it's really just my guess. LOL!
Yep when I saw it I also thought the protrusion on the left was the other leg. :)
I have no clue Lassie but all I would say is that at that stage girly bits and boy bits look pretty much identical so try not to worry too much - easier said than done I know!!
I'm having a tough day today with gd, I keep thinking I am fine with another boy and it doesn't matter that I won't have a daughter but then I have days like today and I just feel sad. I think about all the experiences I won't ever have, won't ever know what my daughter would look like. I even toy with the idea of having another baby in the future but I know that wouldn't be a good thing. I know that if it was another boy the gd would be unbearable and it just wouldn't be fair.
I seem to see little girls with one or two brothers everywhere, and although I don't begrudge their mums I do feel so envious and think 'why couldn't have that?'. Then I feel like a horrible person for not just being happy with being lucky enough to have three children.
I thought once I found out for definite one way or another I would stop obsessing but I'm still not, even with the pretty much 100% definite boy scan that I had there is a part of me thinking maybe they got it wrong. I keep searching around online for boy scans that turned out to be a girl but I know that at this stage it is very unlikely for the scan to be wrong. Even my friend said the techs at the hospital I had my scan have been known to be wrong, but I think that was quite a few years ago and it sounds like they have told people girl when it was actually a boy and not the other way round. The tech was so thorough and lovely, and although she said she couldn't ever say 100% she did say she would be extremely surprised if she was wrong and it was a girl.
Can someone invite a special pill please that takes all our gd craziness away?!
Also, I'd love to know what Atomic makes of the stats on our group. I just don't get it! Surely in a sample of random people there should be a more even spread of girls vs boys even without the swaying. It isn't even like we all did the same sway, we had our variations on it and the ones that seem to have got their dg didn't really sway at all.
Maybe my dh was right and I should have just dropped all the sway stuff and concentrated on getting pregnant, maybe then I would have got my little girl. :(
Lassie i love the little hand in that pic :)
These are all the same thoughts I have... Would if I never swayed at all?!? But if we didn't I think there would have been more regret! I am honestly now just feeling peace with this... It's been 6 weeks of all over the place emotions. Give yourself time, you just have to find the good in it and I really think if I could you will too... It may just take a while:(
When you do have a happy thought if 3 boys, try to keep that close. I have my 2 boys school pictures side by side on the wall both with little ties on... I see the 3rd there and it really makes me smile:)
me too :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinss
I always marvel at how perfectly formed our little babies are at such a young gestation, its amazing.
HBP Congrats, your LO is already adorable!! I just went back and had a look at your nub pics & they look like my babies so you are giving me more hope of a princess.
Mummypink I'm so sorry you are feeling sad, I know I would be exactly the same, even though I say Im happy either way I know deep down Im really pushing for pink. I wish I could give you some magic powder that takes the pain away, I know when you have your LO in your arms you will be so happy & couldnt imagine anyone different in your life but until then all I can offer you are super big hugs. Please vent away whenever you feel you need to. I know my DH would be of no support to me if I was in the same boat as they dont seem to understand so feel free to come on here for it :)
Lassie, your babies hand is sooo cute! I have no idea what the things are between the legs.. I wish I could help x
Lassie I have no idea what those could be, I don't think 3d is the best for gender clues as the images can be so distorted...but bubs is super cute hun :)
Mummy I'm so sorry your finding it hard today :( wish I could give u a hug for real....Im not very good with words but plz give your self time to grieve for your daughter and don't feel bad all your thoughts and emotions are completely normal!! Have u thought about having a bonding scan hun? It really helped me with ds2 I would totally recommend one also u could get the gender confirmed so it could help you with all the what ifs in your head! I don't understand why so many of you are having boys its crazy!!
Bunny I'm glad I have given you hope hun :) did u sway? Xx
Ha should say bimby not bunny lol x
HBP- No I didnt sway. This LO was a complete surprise. Id just had surgery to remove a huge fibroid 3 months earlier so Id felt like Id just given birth lol - We were going to think about it next year but in all honesty I dont think Id be very good at swaying anyway, Im a bit lazy lol. Did you sway?
Hey Bimby i just noticed that we are exactly a week apart in our due dates :)
Will you be finding out the gender??
Hoping you get to see some pink!!
Thanks Coocoo, it really helps to have support from people who know exactly how I'm feeling. I'm so glad you are ok now, I'm sure I will be too once I have got my head around it. xxQuote:
Originally Posted by coocoobananas
Lassie my EDD based on my LMP is actually the 24th May but every scan Ive had (except for the 6 week one) has me a week ahead so thats why I changed my ticker. My ob hasnt changed my date yet but as Im having a C/S because of recent surgery Im keeping my ticker based on that so I can keep track. Im terrified of rupture as the surgery was 3 months before I fell pregnant so Im scared I'll go into labor early (I went 8 days early with DS2) so yeah we basically are due the same day :) - did any of that make sense lol
Oh Jark - take no notice of any such comments.
At the end of the day, unless someone is a technician, then all anyone does is 'guess' we all guess based on what we have seen before, there is no crap guess or good guess.
Mummypink, I just want to give you a big hug.
I wish I had the words to make it right, but this is one of those things that only time will heal.
If there is one thing that I have learnt from this site it's that the GD does fade away, that once you have your baby you love them all the same.
You will heal with time, let yourself grieve, cry it out, pamper yourself if that makes you feel better.
I hope you feel better soon, and remember the old saying 'no matter how dark the dawn, the sun will always rise again'
Thinking of you xo
I know. But it's hard when I seem to be the only one being corrected (by the same person). It's happened at least 3 or 4 times now. These stupid hormones make me extra sensitive as well :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Lassie1982
Thanks Lassie, I know I will be fine. I think it is just the come down after all the swaying and then hoping about getting pregnant and the hoping that we got our girl, psyching up to the scan etc. It is bound to take some time to come back to reality and realise that it is a boy.
I know I will never regret having him, we always planned to have three and I know I wouldn't swap my other two for anything so as soon as I set eyes on him I will feel the same way about him. I'm also glad I found out the gender though too as I think I would have been at a high risk for getting pnd otherwise. Loving our new little man to pieces doesn't take away the part of me that has always longed for a daughter, and I would hate to be feeling sad when I should be cherishing the moments with my newborn.
I so hope now that everyone gets their desired gender, I would hate for anyone else to feel like this. The stats have GOT to improve for this group surely!! xx
Jark, I know what posts you are talking about and I see what you see sometimes so I don't think you were wrong lol
Thank you :). And it's not so much about whether I'm right or wrong. I've never, ever claimed to be an expert.....or that I even know anything about what I'm talking about. I'm just guessing like everyone else. Sometimes I question the pictures because I've seen so many turn out to be the opposite of what everyone guesses. I'm not sure why it has to be brought to my attention or challenged multiple times. I don't get it.... When I ask legitimate questions so that I can understand better- they never seem to be answered. Oh wellQuote:
Originally Posted by spinningmadly
Never take anything personally on the forum, its hard to know sometimes if someone is being helpful or having a bad day or whatever just by reading what they type.Quote:
Originally Posted by jark22
Very true. I'm just extra sensitive with these silly hormones. It's really more irritating than anything else. Especially since I don't see it happening to anyone else.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinss