okay, i know there is much debate about whether ph matters or not, but with two sons, i am desperately trying for a girl and want my sway to be optimal. i am set up to O in the next couple of days and my ph is seriously crazy high at 8.5. advice? i'm taking supps, drinking tons of CL, trying my best at the LE diet, doing all sorts of ion changers, much to my husbands dismay (lol), and even tried Replens. help please!