HELP! HELP!

I am on CD 12 and just started EWCM late last night. Figured tonight would be the perfect time to DTD as I usually have 1.5 days until my temp drops (my temp was still low this morning). Well I went a long stretch this afternoon without peeing so I could take my OPK and when I went to the bathroom my EWCM was drying up (not completely, but somewhat), still negative OPK (I never get a positive), and my pH had dropped to about 6.4 (from a 7.0 yesterday). What do I do? Everything changed in a matter of 4 hours and I think I lost my chance!! Do I use a little pre-Seed and hope that ovulation is happening as I type? Called DH and he is leaving work pronto. When I inserted my finger (TMI!) there is still a little EWCM left up by my cervix. Do I do it or wait until next month? Don't want to risk o+12 but there's no way it's o+12 yet since I just had EWCM at noon today. HELP!

Im sure you did not O'd yet! We always have more ewcm on the days before O and less on O day. Some girls are dry or don't have any on O! But that does not mean you don't have any ewcm left usually we still have it up in the tubes.
Also my pH is jumping around too this cycle I got 7.4 and 6.4 too it just don't stay on the same number all day till O.
I think you are good to dtd tonight!
You can use pre-seed or ew it will help.

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Originally Posted by Flava

Im sure you did not O'd yet! We always have more ewcm on the days before O and less on O day. Some girls are dry or don't have any on O! But that does not mean you don't have any ewcm left usually we still have it up in the tubes.
Also my pH is jumping around too this cycle I got 7.4 and 6.4 too it just don't stay on the same number all day till O.
I think you are good to dtd tonight!
You can use pre-seed or ew it will help.

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ITA with what Flava said re: EWCM before O, and that there is likely still some left in there. Did you take an OPK yesterday at all or is today the 1st day? Just wondering if you can see any fade in pattern? Do you normally O CD12/13?

I'd def go tonight!!!!

Ladies, thank you all so much! Seriously, what would I do without this little community?! :) So I came to the same conclusion that all of you did and as soon as DH got home from work we DTD! I laid in bed with my hips propped for an hour and then came down and joined DH and the kids for dinner. I did use a little pre-seed with a dab of baking soda in it and my pH was up to 8 right before. I was having some ovulation pains as I laid in bed with my hips up so I'm hoping despite all my worries that I ended up timing it just right. We'll see.

To answer some of your questions... the past few months I have O'd on CD 12 or 13 and today is CD 12 for me. I did get some faint lines (last night and today at noon) on my OPK's and then at 3:30 today it was completely negative (not even a faint line). Everything seemed to change very fast. I guess we'll see. Best of luck to everyone else.

Fingers crossed!!!!

So then I wake up this morning and my temp does not shoot up! It's still low! WTH? Seriously? Then I have some EWCM this morning (although it could be the remnants of Pre-Seed and DTD last night). More ovulation pains this morning. Either way I was most likely a few hours before to the day before ovulation. I think. I hope! Ahhh! Watch I won't ovulate for 3 more days and then my sway will be in the girl range! I don't know how you ladies do this for long... I'm going batty and it's only my first month! Good luck to everyone else out there swaying right now!

My temps don't shoot up after O. I have gradual rise, and it makes it really hard to tell when O is. If you think you might be fertile still, DTD tonight! Good luck!

It sure does your head in!

I think there is no suck thing as "girl range" right? You can always get pregnant with both gender any time! I say dtd again today!