Having hard time with gender desire

Really having a hard time with gender desire!one of my friends had a lovely dd today and guess what baby is only named my 1st choice of dd names:.(I am really happy for her but ouch that hurts.

I'm so sorry. It's such an awful primal feeling. It's okay to feel down.

Think I may need to talk oh into trying before sep,must work out best months ttc a princess.

I'm sorry x

Sorry you are feeling bad GD today. Did you tell your friend that was a name you were thinking of using? I really think that is mean when women do that if they know you like it first, i have seen it happen a few times, so i am very secretive about names i like, its a shame.

Sending you hugs

I will have ds4 soon and after friends took my girl name when I was having ds2 I have kept the 2 names I desire to myself just incase one day I get to use them :) hugs to you

I'm sorry :( How hard.....:((( Hugs your way! I get SOOO nervous when friends bring up girl names, but I have such weird ones picked out, no one has taken them....yet :/

Big big hugs xx

Thanks girls,I had mentioned it was a name I liked:.(