Originally Posted by
LolaInLove
Hi and welcome! It is ridiculously expensive, that is for sure. There are good clinics in NY- I would recommend hopping on both the TTC Boy April thread (well, the May one is coming tomorrow, so maybe wait for that one), and also onto the HT forums, because there are a lot of moms who are doing HT across the states. I'm on the swaying forum even though not swaying myself anymore, I'm one of the only infertility people on this site, although I love everyone here dearly. We can give you lots of suggestions for natural swaying if you want to try that, but I am of the philosophy that if you hands down want your boy for #3 and have the means to pay for it, go for it. Some ladies have issues with the leftover embryos, so that is one thing to consider. But in my opinion, it is a price to pay for your desired gender.
Just some stuff to think about! But congrats on your DD2 and feel free to post questions galore around here!