I was always told you are a lot more fertile following a m/c which for me was true, since i ended up with TWO babies right after a m/c! So wouldn't that favor boys since you are more fertile?
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I was always told you are a lot more fertile following a m/c which for me was true, since i ended up with TWO babies right after a m/c! So wouldn't that favor boys since you are more fertile?
no idea and have often wondered this so bumping your thread for you x
I have always wondered too
Me too. I miscarried last week and NBP said try right away for girl and wait 3 months for boy...hopefully she'll weigh in...
me too!!!
there was another thread on this a few weeks ago. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-...sway-girl.html
I tried right away Anchor after I consulted Mocha and Atomic. I was popping Vitex and Red Raspberry Leave capsules the day after my loss was confirmed. I got my +OPK like 2 weeks after.. and a month later on the exact day my loss was confirmed.. I got my BFP. It was crazy! My nurse and OB almost believed it was the same pregnancy the month prior!Quote:
Originally Posted by The Anchor
There is more than one way to think about fertility. After a miscarriage you can release more than one egg and your lining may be better which favors pg. But at the same time your EWCM quality may be different, making it slighlty harder for sperm to reach egg, thus swaying pink.
I had ds 1 after an ectopic strait after bleeding stopped.
I had ds3 after a early m/c at 6w after bleeding stopped.
I was told you are more fertile by the doctors but it is better to wait a cycle so it's easy to date. Something about hormones and the cervix being slightly open.
Might it depend on how far along you are before you have the m/c?
I had a m/c several years back that I got pregnant after. definitely a boy.
This isnt good news all these boys after losses when i had a loss less than 2 weeks ago and am already onto my next attempt but trying to sway girl !!! ooopps
There are always exceptions, just that overall it does seem to sway pink.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rainbow baby
See I am worried too.. This month I had more EWCM than last month. I am wondering if it is from my chemical last month and my body was really trying to be more fertile to get me pregnant.. Now that I am 1dpo, I am kind of freaking out :( I was super wet TMI last night for our attempt. I went to the bathroom straight away and pushed half of it out because I was freaking out.
I have read it sways girl too. Not for me though :) happy face. It was easy too fall strait away though.Both times 2 weeks after bleeding stopped. So must increase my fertility. The two I didn't conceive strait after a m/c were 8 months of trying. I have read others conceiving girls after a m/c!! I guess like pp said it either helps your fertility or hinders it. I remember having ewcm and a lot of it, I thought it was from m/c but maybe that's an indicator of how your fertility will go after a loss. So much so I remember and it was years ago.. My recent loss was a lot different as I was 19 weeks I gave birth and my milk came in. I have been having trouble with my cycle and I think it has made my fertility worse. This cycle past was number 3 and I just got ewcm with this cycle and I believe my others I wasn't Oing as no +opks.
Personally (and I am not trying to diminish anyone's loss at all) I think it's much more likely that later m/c sway pink, than that chemicals do. I somewhat doubt that chemicals do much of anything at all in terms of swaying.
This also fits in with the science, where rats who lost litters late in gestation went onto conceive mostly girls in their next litter.