Originally Posted by
LacePrincess
Well it depends on just one thing. Would you really, and you might have to do some soul searching here, REALLY consider termination an option if there was a problem?
If you wouldn't, then it's easy to not test. Testing carries risks too, and if you'd never end the pregnancy based on the results of that test then it makes no sense to risk it.
With DS3 we had a thickened nuchal scan come back from the standard first tri screening test (bloodwork and u/s) indicating possible Downs. Scared the bejeebus out of us, had a genetic counselling session which scared the crap out of us even more. We were scheduled for an amnio and everything, but then decided we'd never ever terminate no matter what. So we ended up cancelling the amnio and let what may, may....and figured if the baby had Downs it was meant to be and God's will and found peace in that decision. Turns out DS3 was just fine anyways, but we wouldn't have regretted it even if he was not.
So I guess you have to really really figure out if you would ever actually make the decision to terminate, and if you wouldn't then the tests aren't worth the potential risk they can cause since they ARE invasive.