If you're wondering about any aspect of the Custom Plans, please feel free to ask!!!
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If you're wondering about any aspect of the Custom Plans, please feel free to ask!!!
hey atomic.. i understand you probably have 101 things to do right now, wanted to ask how long my plan would take.. im just raring to start lol i also wanted to ask will you tell us which supps are advisable im aware fish oil supps and primrose are a big hit.. x
Yes, I'm nearly done with yours afy - just doublechecking some stuff and will send to be posted within the next 1/2 hour or so.
supps are included both EPO and fish oil for you!!!
Hey Atomic,
Thinking of trying in May. 3 boys, my last chance at a girl. Can you include biorythems and moon in a plan? Also custom towards/against things that didn't work in my previous sway? Thanks!
I don't include the moon and biorhythms in the plan but there are people in the forums who can help you do that.
I absolutely can customize your plan to include anything you think didn't work for you before, and I will also help you figure out if the things you think didn't work for you were really swaying the opposite direction or if you just had bad luck.
People think they need to do the opposite of what they did in their failed sways, but even perfect sways can fail just from bad luck and you might have better luck the second go-round.
I decided I want to purchase the Sway plan mainly because I'm a person that is highly stressed and stresses easily. I feel it would be best to buy the plan, it would take lot of my shoulders. I already have anxiety every day and I haven't even started.
I know that your supposed buy it 6 months ahead of time but we moved up our ttc date from October to this July. I will be fasting all that month so I think it would be a great month to ttc a girl.
My question is: Is it too late since I it's now barely 5 months away?
I want to have the best results possible.
I must say I'm a kitchen sink swayer. I'm desperate to have a girl join our family. I've wanted a girl since my first. Yes I know swaying is not 100% and I know I will love my baby no matter the gender. BUT I REALLY WANT TO UP MY CHANCES I was even considering clomid but since I don't need it I really want to try naturally.
I trolled IG and was convinced about the calcium since I'm ANTIMILK since I was little haha (just not my taste preference) The only dairy product I eat is cheese. No yogurt, no milk. Love salt and bananas. But since I came here I've become overwhelmed with information.
First of all I'm really sorry because my MIL had emergency surgery this last week and I have had hardly any time to do questions - I keep seeing your questions coming in and have not had a chance to answer them! :(
Whatever is swaying, it's probably not the calcium because there are tons of us who had tons of calcium with our boys! I got my girl with barely any calcium (and a lot of salt too) after eating dairy all the time with my boys, and even a failed IG sway where I was taking tons of calcium and limiting salt.
5 months is PLENTY of time to do a sway plan! We have people who buy them even 2 weeks before TTC.
I'm sorry to hear about your MIL. I hope she is doing better. I will pray for her health.
Thank you. I will be probably purchasing it today or tomorrow. I look forward to the private forum.
Hi Atomic, I paid for my personalised plan today, was wondering if I need to give any information before I get my plan? Also, wanted to know how long will it take for me to get my plan?
Thanks.
thank you! Once your payment goes through, you will be able to access a couple of questionnaires, and if you fill them out, then I'll have the info I need to be able to design a personalized plan for you. It takes me 7-10 days to do the plan (almost always 7)Quote:
Originally Posted by S4724
Thanks. I have filled the form :)
i got it ! thank you!
Hi I am new and was wondering if you have an age cut-off for ladies purchasing your swaying plans. I am over 40 and would like to have another dd, I have 3 boys and 1 dd.
No, not at all! I have done several plans for ladies over 40 and I actually consider that something of a speciality of mine. I have a different set of guidelines for older moms than I do for the spring chickens! ;)
I concieved my DD at 41.
Hi Atomic,
I'm wondering if you can help me come up with a plan if I am still breastfeeding? Does this help sway pink or blue (trying for pink)? Hoping to start TTC fairly soon.
Thanks!
Yes I have done dozens of plans for breastfeeders. I do think it sways somewhat pink but is in no way a guarantee. :) Now is a good time to get a plan because I only have two that are nearly done and then nothing after that so I could have it done very quickly for you.
great thanks! have signed up so am happy you will have some time to get to it quickly :)
Hi gretta, I got your questionnaire and will get right to work on it!
I would love to purchase to custom plan but am not planning on TTC until May of next year. Would it be too soon now to purchase the plan or should I wait until next year? I like to plan ahead when I can!
It's totally up to you when to purchase your plan. Some people find it gives them peace of mind to have a plan in place and all their q's answered far in advance of swaying, and there may be some advantage to this in terms of testosterone levels as well - if you are the type of person who tends to get a bit obsessed when you begin projects, it may allow that to run its course and then when the time comes to actually enact your plan, you may be able to jsut relax and go with the flow a bit more easily.
The custom forum runs for 6 months after you buy the plan (coaching and questions answered first) and you can renew it indefinitely for $25 for each additional 6 months.
Atomic, how much are your plans please? x
$79 USD (so would be a bit less in pounds/Euros)
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/have...-plan-faq.html
Thank you, I may well be purchasing one soon, just need to get my head in the right place to give it my all :-)
Just bought my plan, so excited! What happens next? x
I can see you found the link! Thank you!Quote:
Originally Posted by cherryswirl
Hi Atomic,
I am from Melbourne,
I have a daughter 13 months old and would like to try for a boy from november this year. I work and would like you to do my research and want to buy your custom plan for boy.When do you suggest i should start planning. I only want two kids and always wanted to have one each.Let me know the details as am new to all this
Atomic - I will be purchasing a plan (both) but won't be TTC until spring/summer of next year. When do you suggest I purchase? I'm definitely a planner but I also don't want to start anything too early. Is there a benefit to losing weight right before an attempt? Would losing some slowly over time be as beneficial? Thank you
Hi! I would allow at minimum 6 weeks for diet and exercise regimen and you may want to have a month/6 weeks lead time for planning and tracking down supplies and just to wrap your head round the whole thing. It can feel a bit overwhelming at first, and the sway plans do of course come with the coaching where I'm available to answer all q's you have every step of the way, so giving yourself a bit of time going in may help because you won't feel so rushed.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ewpnx1
I like all blue swayers to get pg within 2-3 months of beginning TTC under ideal circumstances so I would hope you would get pg before the end of the year!
When to purchase a pink sway plan has a lot to do with your personality type - many moms who have boys tend to be a little bit anxious and tend to get obsessed about swaying, and so for pink swayers it can be beneficial to buy a plan in advance, allow that to run its course to some extent, and then TTC when you're feeling a little bit over it all, if that makes sense. You can buy a plan and then print it off and have it when you're ready, or renewal is also an option, or you could just wait and buy it about 8 weeks-3 months before you're ready to begin. Whatever works best for you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Raining
We honestly don't know if it's best to lose weight right before conception or if it's better to take off weight slowly over time. I wish I had the answer to that but I really just don't. For my successful sway I had really done both, I had lost all my baby weight from DS 4 down to a normal size for me, then I lost 3 lbs right before I conceived. But this was just what worked for me and not any kind of magic bullet.
Thanks for the response. I'm thinking I will purchase 4ish months in advance. I'm one of "those". :)
Hi Atomic, im one of those mums too lol, I don't know when im going to start but I know im not ready yet but I just need to feel like im doing something if that makes sense.
Do I just fill in the girl questionnaire? looking forward to receiving my plan, no rush for you though :-)
Yes just fill in the girl questionnaire that appears after you pay for the plan and I will get right to work on it as quickly as I'm able to.
I think for pink swayers in particular, getting the plan a fair bit in advance is the best course of action. One of the most "swaycessed" gals I know started planning her sway literally a year in advance and I was SURE she would get a boy! But then as her sway approached she had her plan in place and just chilled out and sure enough got a girl. She went onto sway a second time and got another girl!! :)
I also think that worked for me too because even tho I was thinking swaying all night and day, I had been doing it for so long it was no longer a big new exciting project and more a mundane thing that was just my normal day to day life, and my second sway worked whereas my first one, it was still fresh and interesting. :)
Thank you :-) will get that filled out for you. Theres no rush in doing my plan though honestly. Wow, that's so amazing that the lady got 2 girls in a row!! id love that :-)
I got them! Thank you!!
HI Atomic, I Know your super busy & by the look of things there has been a ton of plans coming your way. Don't want to be a pest, just wanted to dbl chk you did get my questionnaires.
So excited so see my plan & I REALLY appreciate all your help! Thank you!
Yes I did get it, normally I go thru and message everyone but I had a whole bunch come thru all at once and I thought gee whiz by the time I message everyone I could have 2 plans done so I just started working.
I expect to have your plan to you within the next 2 days max.
I thought as much seemed like a lot of people were saying they had just signed up for plans. So exciting, hoping everyone has great luck with their sways!
Thanks again!
I just want to chime in. I know it takes a week or so to get your plans but I do want you guys to know that atomic takes the time to read and evaluate your questionnaires and puts A LOT of thought into each plan. They are ALL customized. We may get to the point where due to sheer numbers we create a standardized plan that will work for "most" but what we've seen is that many people have extraordinary issues like PCOS, breastfeeding, medication they are taking, etc and a "general" plan wouldn't be the right thing for them.
We will stick with this format until atomic cries Mercy!!
So, hang in there. I promise it's worth it!
Can't even imagine all that goes in to the plans. I know I stressed myself out several times over the past year trying to create my own. Have to say I def agree about needing to be slightly over swaying for a girl. A year ago I was willing to do everything even throw the kitchen sink at my sway. Life got in the way though & I had to back away from trying.
I can def say now I'm much more relaxed about the whole thing. Going to give it my best shot & be absolutely grateful for whatever will be!
By the way, Atomic ROCKS!
The primary consideration with the plans is my children's sleep schedules - my husband is away for the month of July my older sons are working full time this summer, so it's mostly me and the little ones, which has been a bit more of a challenge when it comes to work. I like to be able to fully concentrate on a plan from beginning to end so it all comes down to, when do I have 2 hours to sit and knock out a plan? :) Whereas I can easily answer a question here or there and then fill up people's milk cups and change a diaper.
Please don't anyone NOT buy a plan because of this, I'm happy to do them and in fact really appreciate each and every one of them. Just that it does take me 7-10 days to get them done sometimes. It's usually sooner than that though. :)