Frequency - how much does it sway? Experiences?
Ok so I've accepted that timing doesn't sway, after ds2 was a shettles fail, and reading this site.
There has been much discussion about frequency here and how that's more important than timing. But November will be my third month tax girl when previously I had two boys just by looking at my husband as he walked past (well, almost). We aren't I'm a rush and its not dire straights just yet, but am starting to wonder if there's something I can do different without compromising my sway.
Firstly, my boys were both born after my diet was heavily soy milk based, and huge supplicant intake along with green tea and high nutrient, all of which are typical boy diets and also increase fertility, unsurprisingly, as these go hand in hand.
I also tended to bd every second or third day to get them, but I doubt this really did much.
My girl attempt is no supplements except frolic acid and cranberry from af to o (don't want to drop this as my ph is naturally very high, interestingly i get a lot of urinary tract infections, so cran helps that, and this is something I really feel is going to sway). But so far our girl attempts have been hot shower just before, and antihistamines for me 2hrs before, and abstain 6-7 days before. This means we only get one shot and last month it was a day before o so we should have had good chances.
Should we scrap abstain and bd every few days though my fertile week, keeping antihistamine and hot shower tactics? I'm not up for frequent bd with two young kids around, and dh won't release on his own (fair enough).
Anyone who has girls want to weigh in with what their frequency was or boy mums of failed sways?