Lost my pregnancy :(

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April 1st, 2011, 09:51 AM
Jojogirl

Lost my pregnancy :(

I'm ready to move onto another cycle but since this section isn't getting a lot of posts, I thought I would get the ball rolling.

I was due Dec 3rd. I had a chemical pregnancy. This is a first for me. I am not sure how I am supposed to feel about it. I'm sad but not devastated like I feel I should be. I guess I just figure it wasn't healthy and my body did what it was meant to do. I hope this month works out a little better.
April 1st, 2011, 09:54 AM
atomic sagebrush

I am sorry, J. Thinking of you and hoping that April is the month for you.
April 1st, 2011, 09:58 AM
LolaInLove

Oh, so sorry Jojo. I think you have a perfect attitude about it. There is not much you can do but keep your spirits up and move forward. You are right, too, your body did what it is supposed to.:HH:
April 1st, 2011, 11:26 AM
Freya

I'm so very sorry. I had two chemicals so I know exactly. At least you can get straight onto next month, and hopefully the added hormones will support you that extra bit you need for a new pregnancy really soon. GL :luck: !
April 1st, 2011, 11:53 AM
nuthinbutpink

I am so sorry. Good luck to you this month!
April 1st, 2011, 01:27 PM
familiesr4ever

I'm sorry too, JoJo. Hopefully this month will be the one! GL.
April 2nd, 2011, 03:25 AM
iluvmyman

I've not had that personal experience but I know a little about feeling like you should be more depressed or crying more. Please don't ever feel that way. There is never a "right" way to feel, just coping and doing the best we can. I personally think it's God's grace.
April 3rd, 2011, 07:33 AM
fivecrazymonkeys

Hugs.I have everything crossed for you next month.
April 3rd, 2011, 10:32 AM
Liv

Sorry to hear that. Take care.
April 4th, 2011, 11:03 AM
Jojogirl

thank you! I am really planning out a wonderful attempt for this month. Bring on the BFP! I'm excited to try again!
April 5th, 2011, 04:37 AM
Kazz2011

I am so so sorry. My heart goes out to you.

I wish you all the best when you do TTC again and I really hope you are announcing a BFP with a sticky little (pink) bean. xoxo
April 5th, 2011, 09:12 AM
Jojogirl

thank you so much! I appreciate it :)
April 5th, 2011, 11:02 AM
skrimpy

((hugs)) so sorry for you - also glad that you are excited to try again :) I think April/May are wonderful months to conceive in, you get a cuddly snuggly newborn for the new year!
April 8th, 2011, 04:33 PM
Jojogirl

Thanks so much! It's actually an ideal time for me as school will be out soon and I want to be lazy and pregnant for the first few months when I'm all pukey! :) See where my mind goes? LOL!
April 9th, 2011, 06:42 PM
Lilhoney

I'm so sorry for your loss JoJo. I know how you feel. I had a D&E March 4th after a missed mc at 15 wks and a D&C end of Aug from missed mc at 6 wks. I too am excited to ttc girl again. So are you a teacher as well? Man I can't wait for June to get here!!! (not to just get to start ttc but the kids are driving me nuts) LOL
April 9th, 2011, 08:16 PM
Typical_Jules

sorry hun x good luck this cycle a nice sticky pink bean hugz
April 9th, 2011, 09:33 PM
TTC5

Sorry for your loss xxx
April 13th, 2011, 04:32 PM
Jojogirl

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lilhoney

I'm so sorry for your loss JoJo. I know how you feel. I had a D&E March 4th after a missed mc at 15 wks and a D&C end of Aug from missed mc at 6 wks. I too am excited to ttc girl again. So are you a teacher as well? Man I can't wait for June to get here!!! (not to just get to start ttc but the kids are driving me nuts) LOL

Hi there! I am a former teacher. I haven't been in a classroom in over 10 years. I'm getting old! LOL! I'm sorry for your loss too. Hugs!
April 14th, 2011, 08:06 PM
My Fabulous Children

so sorry again hun ((HUGS)).