My DH passed away...

I joined this site in hopes to adding a boy to my family. I asked a million questions along the way. I did all the tricks to help ensure we would have a boy. Recently my DH has passed away suddenly. I am in so much pain. And now when I look at my lil girl, I think I wish she just had a sibling to keep her company. No matter if it was a boy or a girl. Now I could careless if I had a boy. Another girl would have been just fine. Just a second child. And now theirs nothing that can change that. My story is really just to share that I know we can not control gender disappointment, but it doesnt matter if a baby is a boy or girl, it is a blessing from god, and I would give anything to just have another baby with my DH. I miss him so badly.:broken:

Oh my! What happened? How old was he? I'm so sorry.

I'm so sorry, sending you a bug hug. Words just aren't enough, but I hope and pray that you find the strength to get through this. xxx

I am so sorry for your loss. I really can't imagine how difficult it must be. I can understand your sadness about not having another baby, regardless of the gender. Hugs to you.

Oh my god I am so sorry!! I hope you are having a lot of support from family and friends. I cannot imagine in how much pain you must be. :sad:

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your little girl have people there to support you both. This is heartbreaking.

Prayers for you and for your daughter. You seem to be full of love for her and she is so blessed to have that!!! I will really pray for you both!

:( sorry for your loss

Praying- I am so very sorry for your profound loss. I know our words can't touch what you're feeling right now, but I think I can speak for everyone that our hearts are truly breaking for you. It's so humbling to hear something like this- and you're right, it gives us perspective about gd living in the hopes for tomorrow when we should be cherishing each day. Hugs to you and your daughter, I hope you have a good support system to hold you up.

My heart hurts for you...
I pray you & your beautiful daughter find peace.

I am so, so sorry for your loss. :(

Oh no....I am so sorry praying.... :sad: please dont beat yourself up for having GD, its natural to want what you dont have... hugs ...be kind to yourself and what your DD really wants is a mother like you and thank God she already has that....may the Lord bless your DH and give you enough courage to ride through this calamity with patience....You will be in my prayers

Oh praying I understand your pain losing a dh. I lost mine almost 4 years ago and not a day goes by that I don't think of him. If you want someone to talk to feel free to PM me. Hugs.

I am so very sorry for your unspeakable loss. Thank you so much for thinking of us and sharing your message during this difficult time. I will be praying for you and your family.

So sorry for your loss.

I am so very sorry for your loss. So sorry.

I am so very very sorry x

Dear, I am so sorry for this terrible loss, May God Almighty give you the grace to to hold up during this moment. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please kindly take it easy.

I'm so sorry for your loss :(

So very sorry for your loss :( devastating x

I'm so sorry xx

How devestating. :( I'm so sorry about your husband, I'll be praying for you and your daughter and keeping you both in my thoughts. xxx

Oh my god Praying4boy this is devistating news, i am so so sorry you have to go through this right now. I will be thinking of you and your daughter today you will be in my prayers.

I am so so sorry for your loss.

So sorry to hear this. You are absolutely correct, any child is a blessing no matter what the gender.
It is times like these I wish life made more sense. Praying that you find peace in the sad time. Never think you are alone, our hearts break for you.

Oh wow, I am so very sorry for your loss. :( I pray God brings you and your daughter peace and comfort during this difficult time. Big (((hugs))) to you. :(

I am so sorry for your loss :( My prayers are with you and your family.

I am so, so sorry to hear this. I don't even have the words to say. :( I wish you the very very best.

I am so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine the pain you are going through but I hope that you and your family find peace

So sorry to hear you are going through the loss of you DH. I wish you all the best for your and DD's future.

I'm so very sorry for your loss :( I can't even begin to imagine the grief. May you & your daughter find peace xx

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry for your loss

Im so sorry for your loss. Hugs

So sorry xx

Thank u everyone for ur kind words. I am tying to be strong but I cry everyday.

Oh my god I am so so sorry for your loss! :(

So sorry for your tremendous loss. You and your daughter are in my prayers.

I am so very sorry for your loss.

Brings tears to my eyes. You had really put things in perspective and are exactly right. Can't think of the right words but my thoughts and prayers are with you and your little girl xxxx