All gone terribly wrong ? Maybe ??

This was my first month swaying blue and I was really good and stuck with my diet, increased folic and for the first time I started Soy I on CD3.
Then I fell ill and had really high temps for over a week.
I chart my bbt by the way.
In between all that it looks like I missed my O day.
I have a 28/29 day cycle and using OPKs will O on day 14.
I think the SI brought my O day forward cos I was using the OPKs from CD14 onwards and never got a positive
Although on CD12 I did get loadsa EWCM but I was so ill that no BDing really happened at the 'right time'..
If by some miracle I get a positive this month - do u think my sway is ruined ?

no I don't think it'd be ruined - you were doing the most important aspect (the diet)
when DID you manage to DTD this cycle (before CD14?)

There's no such thing as a ruined sway - you ALWAYS have a chance at your DG no matter what!!!

If you O on CD 14, you need to start the OPK more like CD 11-12. You get a positive OPK 8-48 hours before you ovulate, and so if you wait till the day you expect to O to do your OPK, you will miss your surge.

We actually DTD on CD11 and 14.
Normally I start my opks on CD 12 and get smiley on CD14/15
Being unwell this time kinda threw me off track. Hence hardly BDing and forgetting to opk
As I was so ill I felt my chances were v slim however I'm bit surprised to be feeling bit like I've got bfp symptoms!!
Seeing as this is my first soy cycle though, maybe thats what's making me feel nauseous the closer to AF I get..I dunno.
She's due on Fri I don't wanna poas till then..

It IS possible that you're pregnant! good luck!

Have decided to.poas after all. Been cramping amongst other things
Would rather.just know now than wait til Fri for further disapp. I shud be about 13 or 14 dpo

Goodluck!

Keep us posted!

BFN today. AF due on Fri..

Boooooo!

So i'm spotting this afternoon.
I feel like crying. I dunno what to think but am also trying to be strong