I've lost my baby

I can't believe it, scan showed no heartbeat, baby died at 8+5. I don't know what to do, I'm in bits.

I'm soo soo sorry:( Is someone staying home with you? Big hugs my thoughts are with you and your family:broken:

oh Emmy, I'm so sorry... :(

I had a MMC with my first and they are utterly devastating. *hugs*

pm me here (or on BC) if you want to talk

I'm so sorry.

Oh no, I'm so so sorry to read this. I don't even have the words to say. Please let me know how I can help.

Oh Emmy, I'm so sorry for you. It's utterly heartbreaking and I hope you have plenty of support and comfort at home at this terrible time. Sending you a big hug x x

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So sorry, that's awful. Hope you're getting lots of hugs at home, it must be devastating for you xx

Oh my goodness. I am soooo sorry to hear. :( incredibly sad for you.

Oh Emmy! I am so sorry honey. There really are no words to express how deeply sorry I am. Sending big hugs your way. :LotsofLove:

I am so sorry. Sending you massive hugs x

So sorry for your loss ((hugs)) xxx

Im so sorry....hugs

Oh my god Emmy, I am so sad for you, I'm so sorry this happened to you. Sending lots of love and strength to you.

(sorry, realise you don't know this username, but I noticed your profile pic and realised I know you from BC uk site private Boy girl forum)

Thank you everyone, your support means a lot. I'm at home with DH, my parents are on their way. I need to decide if I have a procedure to remove the baby or let it go naturally. I don't want to let it go at all. I'm just devastated. I hoped I'd never have to deal with this although I had a horrible fear it would happen this time. Not sure where to go from here.
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so sorry did you have any symptoms or anything?? was just reading your post from last night. glad that your family is there for you and you have someone to lean on

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Originally Posted by EmmyRoo

Thank you everyone, your support means a lot. I'm at home with DH, my parents are on their way. I need to decide if I have a procedure to remove the baby or let it go naturally. I don't want to let it go at all. I'm just devastated. I hoped I'd never have to deal with this although I had a horrible fear it would happen this time. Not sure where to go from here.
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Aww Emmy this must be so so hard for you. I remember we just talked about it yesterday and you were so worried. I'm just devastated for you. I wish I lived closer so I could give you a huge hug. But since I don't I really hope this virtual one will do :hug2: Give yourself some time and be kind to yourself.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Very sorry for your loss. Heart goes out to you. (((Hugs)))

I am so sorry :hugs:

Oh no emmyroo, I am so so sorry. It's the hardest thing in the world, and nothing anyone says will make it hurt any less. I hope you are able to find peace...HUGS.

so sorry for your loss

Oh, Emmy, I am so sorry. I don't know what to say. I was excited to see your update from your scan today, and was not expecting to see this. :( Big hugs heading your way.

I am so sorry to hear of this. How heartbreaking for you :-(

So so Sorry... I had a missed miscarriage at 16 weeks. Its devastating... I wish no mother would have to go through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you.. Big Big hugs <3

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Thanks everyone. No symptoms at all atsaukina, I was so worried this would happen so maybe on some level I knew something was wrong. I did feel my bump hadn't grown in the last couple of weeks but other than that everything seemed fine. My boobs are still sore now so there must still be hormones. I'm wishing they got it wrong but I could see there was no heartbeat as soon as it came up on screen, and it was so small. Just trying to get my head around the loss now, it's so hard.
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My prayers are with you.......

So sorry Emmyroo

Oh Emmy... I'm heartbroken for you. I'm so sorry. xoxoxoxoxo

I'm so sorry hon. Big hugs xx

oh Im so sorry for your loss sweety.... :sad:

oh emmyroo i am so so sorry to hear about your loss....can't believe it. How awful especially when there were no signs or symptoms. hope you are getting all the support you need. take time to grieve. thinking of you xx

Oh Emmy I am so so sorry :-(

Really sorry for your loss, we seem to be having more than our fair share in this group :sad:

I'm so sorry, sending you a big hug. xx

So sorry to read this :( I hope you will be ok.

Oh Emmy I am so sorry. Take time to heal, it is so hard.

Take care xx

so sorry........:sadflwr:

Emmy I am so so sorry for your loss. I hope that you and your DH look after yourselves and support each other through this difficult time.

Thank you all so much, your support means a lot. I'm exhausted and still in shock. I just don't know what to do. I couldn't sleep then when I did I dreamt I was bleeding which woke me up. Still nothing happening which just makes me hope they were wrong and it's still alive. I feel like I'm trapped in a nightmare and I can't wake up. How can this happen? How can I ever get over this? I feel like it's punishment for GD, I just want my baby back.