Newbie dying for pink dust!!! :)

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May 9th, 2011, 08:46 PM
SugarSpice&EverythingNice

Newbie dying for pink dust!!! :)

Hi girls! I am a mommy to two sons. (DS1 is 4, DS2 is 2 1/2). I think my gender desire is driving me insane, and I think I have a worse desire than others, because my fiance and I were on a break, and he slept with another woman. He got the other girl pregnant. And...she had a daughter. :sad:

This only makes my gender desire THAT MUCH WORSE because I feel cheated out of "my" daughter.

I plan on doing EGS, O+12 method later this year :)
Praying for pink dust
:DD::DD::DD::DD::DD::DD:
May 9th, 2011, 09:36 PM
nuthinbutpink

Welcome!
May 10th, 2011, 12:00 AM
My Fabulous Children

Welcome!
May 10th, 2011, 01:03 AM
Cinss

Hey Sugar... sending you some pink dust :HH::HH:
May 10th, 2011, 01:56 AM
TTC5

Welcome!!
May 10th, 2011, 10:36 AM
SugarSpice&EverythingNice

Thanks mamas!!!
May 10th, 2011, 11:03 AM
Flava

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May 10th, 2011, 01:33 PM
ThreeLittleCritters

Welcome! I'm new here too but this site is great! I hear ya on the going insane part. It's way too easy to do. Good luck and I hope you get a quick bfp with a little girl!!! :)
May 11th, 2011, 02:23 PM
puppydogstails

Welcome!! :) :)
May 12th, 2011, 07:33 AM
indigoviolet

welcome!
I'll be ttc pink later this summer too.
May 13th, 2011, 11:00 AM
atomic sagebrush

Oh, no! That sucks, I'm so sorry. You are a very forgiving lady!! Best of luck to you, you so deserve your dream to come true!!
May 14th, 2011, 01:18 AM
DoulaMama

GOOD LUCK! :luck:
May 15th, 2011, 11:30 AM
Rose

Good luck sugar. One question: have you considered high tech? I also swayed for girl when my first two boys were your ages, and we now have three sons. The GD was extreme, and we are finally making the leap to HT even though we only wanted three children. I want to encourage everyone with two of one gender to consider HT for their third if possible. It is harder (financially and on a marriage) to have another child than it would have been to go HT. And the GD doesn't go away. It gets worse. I wish someone had given me this advice.

Wishing you the very best!
May 15th, 2011, 04:37 PM
Sunset

welcome! :)
May 15th, 2011, 09:54 PM
SugarSpice&EverythingNice

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rose

Good luck sugar. One question: have you considered high tech? I also swayed for girl when my first two boys were your ages, and we now have three sons. The GD was extreme, and we are finally making the leap to HT even though we only wanted three children. I want to encourage everyone with two of one gender to consider HT for their third if possible. It is harder (financially and on a marriage) to have another child than it would have been to go HT. And the GD doesn't go away. It gets worse. I wish someone had given me this advice.

Wishing you the very best!

I have considered HT, but I just don't have those kind of funds :( I wonder if there is a payment plan? LOL
May 16th, 2011, 12:33 AM
Rose

We also struggled with the $$$. There are companies that finance IVF cycles (monthly payments like a credit card), and insurance may reimburse certain aspects of IVF (drugs, diagnostic tests, etc). You may be able to find a local RE who would be willing to work with you for a private pay discount... or could help you find an IVF / PGD trial in your area. Some docs like working with gender patients who are fertile b/c it helps their success rates. But I totally understand and it's always a personal decision. Best of luck to you!!!