Husband's cooperation?

Hi all,

I'm a long time lurker but don't post much - I've read through almost all info and feel I'm ready to start my diet at least.

We are planning to TTC end of this year (December) - I've got the whole game plan down but it's highly unlikely that hubby will take any sort of part in swaying.

I'm just wondering if it matters that he doesn't 'play' along - He probably won't take any meds or change/alter his diet - he will certainly not go along with FR so we'l just have to abstain eventhough he's 36.

He's always been a vegetarian and eats a pretty healthy diet - He drinks a cup or 2 of coffee/tea a day and takes some herbal meds. Not that it matters, but he's heavily into yoga and breathing excercises..lol

Anyway, whatever help ya'll can provide would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance :)

Men are a stubborn species! I was only able to alter DH diet a bit cause I'm the only one that makes food... But he eats out everyday at work and drink like 2 energy drinks a day and a couple coffees also...

I haven't asked my DH to do anything different, he is cooperating by having sex on a schedule and not umm...relieving himself in between lol.

I haven't talked to my dh about it because I know he would not be on board nor happy. I can work around the sex thing and can get him to take zyrtec (horrible allergies all year round) other than that and the fact that I cook, lol he wouldn't change. He also doesn't know about me wanting a dd so much

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My hubby is taking the supps and will abstain but isn't doing the diet at all. I think it's your condition that matters most so you can have a good sway all on your own

My husband is aware of the fact that I want to sway, and as a scientist has started research of his own. So far the things he agrees with are the same things I am willing to try, which is diet, exercise, antihistamines.

Other things, such as douching with lime or ions etc. seem rather extreme or nonsensical to us both.

He won't be taking supps, but wears tight briefs and cycles to work everyday, so he is already doing some of the stuff that is mentioned without knowing it.

I haven't figured out the timing thing yet, but I am the one to usually initiate sex, so that will sort itself out.

In general, I think that agreeing on all this is important and that doing things your husband disagrees with may ultimately lead to bigger problems. Basically, I'd rather have another son in a happy marriage than a daughter while divorced.

My husband wouldn't do a thing with either sway. Didn't take a supp, didn't change his diet whatsoever, no frequency whatsoever. We did end up doing one ttempt but that was an accident rather than by design.

I think a vegetarian hubby is a decent pink sway tactic so I would feel very happy about that.

Just want to clarify for any newbies who are reading this thread, I also do not recommend douching or ions, that is stuff that comes from other sites and not this one.

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

My husband wouldn't do a thing with either sway. Didn't take a supp, didn't change his diet whatsoever, no frequency whatsoever. We did end up doing one ttempt but that was an accident rather than by design.

I think a vegetarian hubby is a decent pink sway tactic so I would feel very happy about that.

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Good! My hubby is a vegetarian. Chubbier....I say that loosely....than when we got married. With our boys he weighed 125 now he's like 155-160 so hopefully his pouch helps. And LR plus other stuff. He did whatever I asked because he wants a girl too!

My husband is completely on board. We talk about swaying and he is excited to try next year.

Sorry - I didn't see the original message and took this as more of a poll hence my previous post.

Just wanted to wish you luck with your sway! :)