As requested by Nuthinbutpink here is thread no 2 for anyone due in June/July/August 2014 :)
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As requested by Nuthinbutpink here is thread no 2 for anyone due in June/July/August 2014 :)
Sweet, 105 pages was too long lol
Well I started bleeding heavily last night again and I had to leave the party that we were at to come home because it was too much :/ It makes me mad that I can't go to the ER to get checked out to make sure my little one is still ok. I would hate to go to London in 2 weeks only to find out things are not ok :( Thankfully, today the bleeding hasn't been as bad as it was last night, I am hoping it's just the bleed dissolving from my body!!
we're a chatty bunch :)Quote:
Originally Posted by GreaseMonkey
Hope everything's ok for you greasemonkey
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I'm sorry GreaseMonkey :( Hope everything is ok. Any type of bleeding during pregnancy is scary!! You've already have had enough scary moments!
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Oh no greasemonkey. Hope the bleed stops & all is OK. Fingers crossed for you & baby both!
Sorry to hear you are bleeding again Greasemonkey, you certainly had enough scares for one pregnancy. I really pray it stops for good and all is well with your little one. :hug2:
We certainly are a chatty bunch aren't we? :trips:
I have my Harmony test today. So glad my Doctor said I can skip amnio and go straight to blood test. My NT was fine but Doctor prefers to know for sure because of my age, I would oppose to an amnio in that case, but I'll get the Harmony done as there's no harm at all, and soon we'll find out what I'm having, can't wait but also soooooo afraid of hearing boy again. Please, please, please, let it be girl, just this once. :pray:
Wish I knew a new page was to be started! That was fast!
Let me know if you'd like me to add you to the listing (or of course update your listing when needed). All the best with your pregnancies!
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:luck: JUNE 2014 :luck:
Username: Dreamingof2girls
Due Date: 28 May
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcboy:
Sway thread:
Username: snipsnsnails
Due Date: 30 May
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: Pinkone
Due Date: 2 June
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: GT77
Due Date: 15 June
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: Cottontales
Due Date: 16 June
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl:
Sway thread:
Username: Jessila
Due Date: 16 June
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl:
Sway thread:
Username: 2bnaday
Due Date: 17 June
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: bunnywabbit
Due Date: 24 June
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcboy:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: Pumpkin2011
Due Date: 29 June
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl: :ttcboy:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: KikiCal
Due Date: 29 June
Swayed: :ttcboy:
Expecting:
Sway thread:
Username: savygrl99
Due Date: 29 June
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting:
Sway thread:
Username: Mum3blue
Due Date: 30 June
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcboy:
Sway thread:
Username: Quinn31
Due Date: 30 June
Swayed: :ttcboy:
Expecting: :ttcgirl:
Sway thread:
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:luck: JULY 2014 :luck:
Username: menlc611
Due Date: 6 July
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: bbgdreaming
Due Date: 8 July
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting:
Sway thread:
Username: TTCPink
Due Date: 13 July
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcboy:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: tandjmom
Due Date: 17 July
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcboy:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: momof3boyz11
Due Date: 18 July
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl::ttcboy:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: gafan
Due Date: 18 July
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcboy:
Sway thread:
Username: ashplus4
Due Date: 22 July
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting:
Sway thread:
Username: jen75
Due Date: 23 July
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcboy:
Sway thread:
Username: a&jmummy
Due Date: 24 July
Swayed: :ttcboy:
Expecting:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: aidansmum
Due Date: 26 July
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: dreams529
Due Date: 27 July
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcboy:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: jmm0616
Due Date: 27 July
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcboy:
Sway thread:
Username: Havingmyfirstbaby
Due Date: 28 July
Swayed:
Expecting:
Sway thread:
Username: Little Lunasa
Due Date: 30 July
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
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:luck: AUGUST 2014 :luck:
Username: Mumto3boys
Due Date: 6 August
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl:
Sway thread:
Username: Bigwish
Due Date: 15 August
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: maybebabythree
Due Date: 17 August
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting:
Sway thread:
Username: GreaseMonkey
Due Date: 22 August
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl:
Sway thread:
Username: Cdurkin12
Due Date: 23 August
Swayed: :ttcboy:
Expecting: :ttcboy:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...-boy-sway.html
Username: Gpgm
Due Date: 24 August
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting:
Sway thread:
Username: from2to3
Due Date: 25 August
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: prayforprincess
Due Date: 25 August
Would Like: :ttcgirl:
Expecting:
Sway thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
Username: carameline
Due Date: 26 August
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting: :ttcgirl: :ttcgirl:
Sway thread:
Username: Mrscaulfield
Due Date: 31 August
Swayed: :ttcgirl:
Expecting:
Sway thread:
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I'm so sorry you're going through this GreaseMonkey. Are there no checks they can do for you at all over there? Surely they can do an ultrasound for you to at least see if there's a heartbeat...
Well, I got my gender blood test results in today. It's horrible because they leave the results on an answering service that you call and call until your mailbox has a message. That made it so much more difficult to hear "It's a boy!" I think I am still in shock/disbelief. I was doing so good at guarding myself from thinking it could be a girl (wouldn't let myself think of names, look at anything girly, even talk about my desires for one to some of my closest friends), but the past few days, I had a change of heart and started feeling like maybe it actually could be a lil pink bundle, but nope - my gut was right from the beginning and here we are.....We have had a tough time with our second DS - just colic, cranky, horrible time with teething - just really unhappy all of the time, that I have thought I am just not sure how I will do this with another boy. At least with a girl, it would be a different and new experience (although I know it would still be tough, but at least different). It now just seems overwhelming to think about starting over with another one. I love my two boys more than words can say and know I will feel just the same for this one but it's a tough pill to swallow at this very moment. Sorry if I seem all down, it's just hard when I feel like you can't talk about GD with many people because either they have no clue what you are going through and can't relate for one reason or another or they feel like I am ungrateful for what I do have. Of course, I am not, but it is a whole string of emotions I just can't help but feel plus my DH wanted a lil girl just as much as I did and so I feel almost doubly disappointed. I hope the rest of you waiting to find out hear what you want, I really, really do!!
Sorry you didn't hear girl jmm0616. It must feel like you're sinking. I never had really bad GD although I've always wanted a girl, but I guess this time it will also hit me harder to hear 'boy' because I'm not having any more children after this one and it's very definitive. It is very hard to explain to someone who can't relate how upset you are for hearing the opposite to what you expected, but we totally understand your grief. I'm glad your little boy is healthy and I'm sure you love him to bits. You will even more when he's in your arms. It's good in a way that your DH feels what you feel, mine doesn't care and I know that if I hear boy I will be grieving for my little girl all by myself. Hang in there and come to us when you feel down about it, we can't do much but we will listen and understand. :HH:
So sorry you didnt hear girl jmm0616 but congrats on a healthy baby. At my age that was the important bit for me, but I understand your GD as felt it with my DS2.Quote:
Originally Posted by jmm0616
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I'm sorry you didn't hear girl jmm0616!! I truly think no matter how hard we try to protect and prepare ourselves, we're never ready to hear the opposite gender!! Don't apologize for being down!! We're all here to support you! I have my gender scan on Saturday and I know if I hear boy, I'll be crushed. Unlike you, I have very high expectations of a girl, even though I tried so hard to convince myself it's a boy. Your disappointment will get better with time hun!! HUGS!
Jmm0616- so sorry!! Praying that you find peace with your news soon...and that little boy is a dream child for you and the perfect fit for your family! Hugs!
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Jmm0616, I'm sorry that you found out your baby is not a girl. How sad :sad:
It is good that we have this board for support for GD to help us through the loss of the hoped for gender.
Jmm0616 ... So sorry to hear of your pain, I understand how you feel, we got DS4 news on Xmas eve and it was tough Xmas to get through and we still haven't told anyone about being pregnant and won't be revealing sex until birth ... Surprise it's another boy!!! It does get better my GD with #3 was terrible, I didn't get out of bed and cried for 3 days before I cried a little less each day ... That little man is now so scrumptious I can't imagine even a second without him. As we all know it's not about the children we have .. It's about he desire for the opposite. I find I still have good and days and sometimes I think we were crazy for trying for # 4, we should have done HT but that is difficult in AU. Unsderstand your pain and loss and unlike friends and family who don't understand, we certainly do. Take care of yourself and take the time to deal with it on your own way
Jmm, I am so sorry, I understand where you are coming from. I have everyone hoping and praying I get a girl but my gut tells me it's boy #3 for us and I feel like i will be disappoint everyone that has hoped and prayed we get our girl. From theories of the placenta from getting pregnant the first month after mirena it feels as though they want this as much as I do and I will end up upsetting them :(
Well the bleeding only lasted 1 night and the next day it wasn't as bad as it was. I really think it's the hematoma dissolving itself and being expelled form my body which I guess is a good thing. I will be leaving for London in 2 weeks so I am hoping I get a good nub shot :) I have saved some pictures and info on my phone to show to them and hope they comply or else I will have to wait until February 25th at 15 weeks to find out what I am having :/
I am already dreading it, I feel my GD flaring up from time to time and I get too depressed and blame my husband for putting me in this situation and that's not a good thing :(
Grease monkey-glad to hear the bleeding is resolving and hopefully it's just something minor. Good luck with your scan.
Jmm-I'm sorry you are feeling down about hearing boy. We are all hear to listen and support for GD. Most of us have been through it. I had it during the pregnancy with DS3, once he was born and I held him in my arms I was over the moon happy with him. I think it's hard with the pregnancy hormones, that I think makes GD even worse. Glad to hear he is a healthy little guy!
Hi Ladies,
I have also had the dreaded news i did not want. I realise now i should never have swayed and let Dh convince me it would work and try again after hi tec failed. I am completely devastated and unfortunately for me GD has never left me and i find raising my 3 boys really hard and not very satisfying, I just am sick of hearing stories about cowboys super heros, guns and X box. I really really do not think i can do this. I am the terrible mother who should not have been able to have any children as she cannot be happy with her lot. i just do not think i can do this again. All the pain of a 4th c section the loss of all hope makes me think everyone would be better off with out me and that i might find some peace 20 years is a long time to be disappointed and now i have potentially another 20 ahead. I would not wish anyone to feel like this. I hope those of you left get your hearts desire as no one should have to feel like this. I thought i could cope as its DH's first child, but in reality it just makes me hate him as yet again i allowed another man convince me to take a risk so they could have a child and he gets his DS and will never know how i feel.:tissue::tissue:
jmm & jen75 so sorry you both did not hear girl. ((hugs)) to you both.
Greasemonkey glad the bleeding has stopped hope the next few weeks are quiet for you!
Jen75, I'm sorry for your sad news and that you feel so alone in your relationship dealing with this. Maybe this little boy won't be as into cowboys and guns. :::sending hugs and tissues:::
GreasMonkey - I am glad to hear that the bleeding stopped. Good luck this week!
jen75, I'm sorry to hear you didn't hear pink. I really hope you can pull through and start enjoying your pregnancy and your boys, like gafan said, maybe this one will be less into the very boyish stuff, they tend to have such different personalities. Anyway, I'm sending you good vibrations and hope you make peace with it soon x
Now, go figure this. I am in Australia, I did my 10 week blood test and my 12 week NT scan and my doctor told me to call yesterday for the result. It turns out the clinic who did the scan found out I was doing the Harmony test (I mentioned it to the sonographer but didn't confirm anything) and just took upon themselves to make the decision, without consulting me at all, NOT to send my scan results to be combined with the blood sample. I am in disbelief as to how they do that without asking the patient! I know I'm supposed to receive the Harmony results in 2 weeks, but hey, a little combined test result could put my mind at ease until then, and the lady who collected my blood for the Harmony says sometimes the results are inconclusive. What then? I am so angry at the U/S clinic. They sent it now after my rant but it will be another week to get the result for that. Am I overreacting? I just find it wrong not to ask someone if they want their results regardless of any other future tests they will do? Frustrating! :hair:
No your not overreacting aidansmum. I would be super angry also. If you took the time to go in for the tests they should've known obviously you'd want the results. At least they are running them now.
Aidan that is crazy I feel that would never happen in New York! Weird u will probably get your harmony results in business days and you meet to have a NT scan too. I don't understand why the dr wouldn't want both. It makes no sense
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It beats me! I just don't understand the reasoning behind that, and even if there is one, how about giving me a call to explain and maybe ask if I agree with not having that result. Absolutely brainless!Quote:
Originally Posted by GT77
The Harmony will take about 2 weeks here, as it comes from where you are :) I won't be able to sleep well until I see a low risk result, and the gender of course :)
I guess the only thing that is keeping me cool is that the sonographer reassured me there were no trisomy marks during my scan, which is always good to hear, but I am obsessive when pregnant (and when not :) )and need to know everything.
No, Aidansmum, you're not overreacting. That's ridiculous that they would do that! Another week- how frustrating!
Aidansmum, I'm obsessive too, and hearing those low risk numbers helped me feel a lot better about the odds of a genetic problem. Hearing that everything was measuring right and no clear markers is a good sign... I hope that helps you feel a little less anxious.
Thanks everyone for the kind thoughts and comments. Today is definitely better than yesterday, but I know there's still some grieving to be done. It's so nice to know I can come here and talk with you ladies. It's weird because I feel like I am almost grieving a loss of someone that was never even here. I swear I am hearing of all sorts of celebrities and my friends and people I know on Facebook, you name it - they are all having girls. I feel like each one is a stab to my heart and sometimes it is just hard to separate that from myself. My sweet DH said last night if we wanted to try again, he would support me because he really wants it too. We always talked about a possible 4th, but it's hard to even think about that right now as it seems like an eternity away and I know I need to focus on DS3. It is hard to separate those feelings and push them aside for years, knowing it will always be there yet wanting to give my all of myself to this new one. Thanks so much for listening :)
Aidansmum I would flip out too!! You had the test done, so obviously you want the results!! Regardless of what other testes you've had!!! Ugh some people just don't use their brains!!
Jmm - so glad to hear you're doing better! I feel it is a grieving process for sure! That's wonderful news DH will try for another! But yes, of course you need to focus on DS3 right now! My DH and I had the same talk when we found out DS3 was a boy and I obsessed over how to get a girl the next time. (Didn't know about this site at the time) and of course I felt like a horrible mom for spending so much time thinking about the baby I wanted, not the baby I had. But once he was born the thought of another one completely left my mind for a few months, which was nice!
Wow I have some catching up to do! I didn't know there was another thread started!
I'm so sorry you didn't get your desired gender, Jmm0616 and Jen75 - I know how it feels. But they're determined little babies - they'll be so special xx
Aidansmum, that's insane! There are no words (well, apart from you can't cure stupid)... Yes, you are right to be fuming, I'm sure I would be. :hug2:
UGH!!! My sister scanned me two weeks ago when I was 14+1.. The baby was very active and she couldn't get a real good shot but said "there's nothing between then legs. If I had to guess, I'd say it's a girl".. I knew this did not mean it was a girl for sure. However, hearing those words were amazing and I was over the moon (even tho I tried SO hard not to be).. Well, she is scanning me again on Saturday to confirm the gender and we were just talking on the phone. She said "I will try my best to tell you for sure, but it depends on the baby cooperating. Like when I scanned you two weeks ago, the baby was moving so much, at one point I though I saw girl parts, but then a few minutes later I thought I saw boy parts." BOY PARTS?!?! Why were those words never spoken to me in the last two weeks?! It would have made me a lot more levelheaded about this. She has no idea my deep desire for a girl. As far as she knows, I'm perfectly fine either way. But my heart sank when she told me that! I know I'm jumping the gun and I'm stressing over something I have NO control over. I just simply wish she would have told me sooner that she thought she saw boy parts. :(
menlc hope the scan on sat confirms girl for you.
menlc, hope those boy parts are just a mistake. But you're right, there's no point sweating over what's out of our control. Hope you hear pink.
Need to vent for a moment. I have to come to terms with the fact that this is most likely a boy but I am sick & tired of being sick & tired. My house is a mess, I still feel nauseous all of the time & I have been a poor excuse of parent to my kids. I just want to feel somewhat human again! I have to admit the frustration that I'm doing all of this for what most likely is my 4th boy doesn't help. I think I would be pretty OK with everything if I could just eat & keep it down, so tired of being nauseous & dizzy constantly!
Sorry I'm just really frustrated I have been miserable since the end of Nov & I feel like there is no end in sight. Needed to vent thanks for reading....
Awww dreams I'm so sorry your feeling so crappy! I'm 16 weeks and just started to get my energy back. I know what you mean about the frustration of doing it for your 4th boy. I know sometimes that can make you feel like "is it even worth it?" Or it would be me tolerable it if were a girl. I really hope you start feeling better soon and you can start enjoying the pregnancy! Keep your head up!!