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As title suggests I'm now in a 2ww after DH & I DTD last night and got a bit caught in the moment and he pulled out after he had O'd. I may have been 2dpo so I was probably still very fertile. I was following a loose boy sway but I know it could well be a girl under the circumstances.
I'm a little disappointed but obviously stuck in this 2ww limbo till I can test.
Anyone want to join?
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If you're 2 dpo you're not fertile, the eggie only lives about 24 hours... If you're sure you O'ed 2 days ago I wouldn't be worried. I would also add that pulling out isn't a reliable means of birth control as pre ejaculate can have sperm and pulling out early is actually a pink sway tactic some people use!!!
I agree above...atomic wrote an essay about how O+12 isn't even possible because the egg dies. Do you know for sure when you ovulated?
If she had a + opk though it doesn't necessarily mean the egg dropped that day it could have been within the next 36 hour range right? Did I understand that wrong from the opk guides?
No, Rosie, you're right. That's why I was asking if she's sure she o'd then.
okay so dreamin, was it the actual O or just a + test?
I didn't test as I wasn't expecting to do any testing etc till next month. I'm only going by the ewcm I had on the Saturday, hence why I said may have been 2dpo. Also I had AF 17th, am usually 27/28 days cycles but no chance to work that out for sure as just had mirena coil (IUD) out begin February. I'm new to all this stuff as first pregnancy I winged it and 2nd caught on first try.
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Well hate to be a Debbie downer but I think there's a chance. This just happened to me although dh swears he pulled out in time and hence I am pregnant! I didn't even want to post on here when I was in the tww because I was sure I was delusional for thinking I could be!! (I had sensitive nipples that made me think hmmmm) anyway I should have lol!!
Good luck!!! I'll check in on yah in a couple weeks;)
Thanks for the replies. And Coocoo thank you, not a Debbie at all. Without testing I can only guess when I o'd according to what my body is telling me and using various calenders, my fertile days are all coming up same with today being the last.
I'll keep you all posted especially you Coocoo, what naughty hubbies we have eh?
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Well if you end up with a bfp, you have to join the due in oct/nov/dec thread. It's like the year of the oops in there lol!!
For sure and most of the people I know who have had November/December babies were from a whoops lol. I'm an October baby and I was a whoops.
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Coocoo-- if you are pg the pulling out would probably sway girl!!
Carmella yes this is what concerns me as a blue swayer. I'm fully aware the pull out is not a bc method and sways pink. Hence why I'm gutted. As I said we got carried away and completely forgot about condom. I'm peeved at hubby but more peeved with myself. Guess I'll know for sure on 17th :rolleyes:
But Coocoo could well be your pink one.
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My mom got fraternal twin boys from pull out. All is not lost!
I know my sister used the pullout method with her ex and had a girl but than later a boy even though she is sure he pulled out before so anything could happen. I'm being a bit hard on hubby though as he thinks I'll blame him if it is a girl and is a bit sulky. I can't help but be annoyed though, I had only just looked into swaying when I caught with DD2 so this time I've been planning my sway in advance and prepping myself with vitamins but wasn't following a 100% HE plan. Disappointed
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Don't beat up on yourself dreamin! We are all here to support you and what will be will be but I am betting that you don't get pregnant!
If it helps though ds2 is a whoops but he is because the condom broke so I got little sperm and he was still a boy and born in November!
I am a born worrier. My family, friends and even DH don't tell me stuff because I get myself in a tight little ball of anxiety & worry.
It's the waiting that's going to be annoying as I'll be symptom spotting. Meh
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I am a born worrier too dreamin. At least you have a place here to vent!
Oh, I'm for sure pregnant!!! No denying it here, nauseated to the core:/
Thanks for the pink vote but I ain't getting my hopes up for that! Lol! Have a pretty long blue track record!!
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Yah, but you said he o'd before so technically is that really considered a pull out? Lol. Pretty sure there's a lot in there!! Plus, if you're pregnant, I'm sure I'll prove the pull out= girl theory wrong! Lol!
QUOTE=dreaminginblue;540235]I know my sister used the pullout method with her ex and had a girl but than later a boy even though she is sure he pulled out before so anything could happen. I'm being a bit hard on hubby though as he thinks I'll blame him if it is a girl and is a bit sulky. I can't help but be annoyed though, I had only just looked into swaying when I caught with DD2 so this time I've been planning my sway in advance and prepping myself with vitamins but wasn't following a 100% HE plan. Disappointed
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He forgot he wasn't meant too so yeah he was cumming on the way out (sorry tmi). I'm not sure what you'd put that under but there was a lot externally. All I can do is wait it out. I'm probably worrying for nothing, but hey why break a habit of a lifetime
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I agree I think there is def. a chance. FX for best outcome whatever that may be - either BFN or blue BFP!!
Thanks Atomic, hoping for BFN if I'm honest. I'm still unsure but I don't feel bloated or achy as I did yesterday. I'm trying not to dwell on it and have kept myself busy. I've also started eating more HE foods to fill me up. Guess I'll know for sure by the 16th :/
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Panic over. She's arrived. Now I can go explore what's been going on in my head for past few days. Thank you for your advice along the way xx
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Glad af is here xx