failed sways, 7boys,want to ttc girl again but where do i start?

I thought I was fine with just having 7 boys but baby girl fever has hit once again. I've had plenty of failed sways. I did supplments, the "other site" supposedly girl diet which actually swayed boy, I took vitex,rephresh,diet coke&crystal light,things for ions,took metformin,etc. Did douching to the point of yeast infection :( Seriously where do I start! What kind of plan do I do to increase my chances of a girl finally? I did pay for the custom sway plan but Got pregnant with boy #7. I was actually doing some of the things Before I got pregnant. I loss weight the month before conceiving my 7th boy. I am getting to the point of being desperate for a girl. I know I'm pushing it because it will be 5th c section. My dh say no more which he said after all our other kids together kids 4-7. My baby is 6 months so I'm not ttc just yet but I can't help but to be researching ttc girl in the meantime. I am breastfeeding and decided to get on the mini pill for now. All this stuff is overwhelming because all I really know is this boy friendly lifestyle. I am sad and feel like this is a joke how can't I get a girl when it seems just about everyone else around me get to experience having a daughter with less boys than me. I'm sorry to be a downer but I truly need help I really want a daughter I so long for. I'm tried of dreaming :(

Just going to ask- is HT an option? If not, did you use the plan or you got pregnant before you could sway?

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Originally Posted by nuthinbutpink

Just going to ask- is HT an option? If not, did you use the plan or you got pregnant before you could sway?

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Somethings i was able to do but I must admit I gave the diet a break the month I conceived. I did stay away from some of the things I normally would eat. I wish HT was an option but I can't afford it :(

Can you still access your plan? Do you want me to send it to you?

I can revise to include the breastfeeding and would be happy to do that, might take me a few days tho

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

Can you still access your plan? Do you want me to send it to you?

I can revise to include the breastfeeding and would be happy to do that, might take me a few days tho

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I appreciate that! Can I send you my email to send it to? I am wondering do breastfeeding actually sway girl because I conceived 3 boys while breastfeeding. Next sway I'm thinking about swaying well after breastfeeding.

Did you have just one attempt last sway? Did you exercise at all? Did you have a lot of EWCM?

I don't know much about HT but maybe you could do Microsort IUI along with your sway?? That might be a lower cost option?? Maybe NBP knows if this type of thing works or not? IDK, supposedly a sister of a friend of mine did this and got a girl??

Gonna try one more time too 6bluewant1pink!!!!
Hope it works out for us this time!!!

I know how you feel about it not being fair! I love my six boys to bits but seriously can't believe I haven't had a daughter! And it does seem like everyone else can have a girl without even trying and without having 6+ kids! Why can't we??! 😞

My DH said no more kids after our twins, but he came around like yours and hopefully you can convince yours to try again! 😉

All we can do is try, follow Atomics advice and plans and have faith that surely it's our turn!! (Although I must admit your 7 boys scares me, as we are trying for number 7 😉)

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Originally Posted by maidentomother

Did you have just one attempt last sway? Did you exercise at all? Did you have a lot of EWCM?

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Yes I did 1 attempt. I used rephresh night before BD and few minutes after BD. Not sure about ewcm I probably had some. I went on walks some days. I loss a great amount of weight the month before. People noticed my weight loss.

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Originally Posted by pebmcpd7

Gonna try one more time too 6bluewant1pink!!!!
Hope it works out for us this time!!!

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Yay glad to know you are too :)
I think we both are so deserving of a daughter after many many sons! When are you ttc?

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Originally Posted by WantingPink

I don't know much about HT but maybe you could do Microsort IUI along with your sway?? That might be a lower cost option?? Maybe NBP knows if this type of thing works or not? IDK, supposedly a sister of a friend of mine did this and got a girl??

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Never heard of that. I really wanna do a natural sway and hopefully luck up with a girl.

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Originally Posted by MumofSix_TTCPink

I know how you feel about it not being fair! I love my six boys to bits but seriously can't believe I haven't had a daughter! And it does seem like everyone else can have a girl without even trying and without having 6+ kids! Why can't we??! 😞

My DH said no more kids after our twins, but he came around like yours and hopefully you can convince yours to try again! 😉

All we can do is try, follow Atomics advice and plans and have faith that surely it's our turn!! (Although I must admit your 7 boys scares me, as we are trying for number 7 😉)

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Thanks for the kind words and understanding. 7 boys is fun for the most part lol. I just can't have fun dressing them in dresses and bows. Or go shopping. When I do take them shopping they say mommy are you done we are ready to go lol.

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Originally Posted by 6bluewant1pink

Thanks for the kind words and understanding. 7 boys is fun for the most part lol. I just can't have fun dressing them in dresses and bows. Or go shopping. When I do take them shopping they say mommy are you done we are ready to go lol.

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Yep! I know where you're coming from!! Lol! Although, our DS2 does like shopping, as long as it's for him though! 😄

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Originally Posted by MumofSix_TTCPink

Yep! I know where you're coming from!! Lol! Although, our DS2 does like shopping, as long as it's for him though! 😄

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A cute thing about my boys when I'm wearing a new outfit or get my hair done they always tell me how pretty I look :o

I can't imagine how unfair it feels to you! I mean I thought it was unfair when I got 2 and 3!!! I have nothing against boys and in fact like the idea of boy heavy but I like you would just like a taste of the other side!!!!

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Originally Posted by 6bluewant1pink

I appreciate that! Can I send you my email to send it to? I am wondering do breastfeeding actually sway girl because I conceived 3 boys while breastfeeding. Next sway I'm thinking about swaying well after breastfeeding.

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yes, breastfeeding really sways pink. IT's not anywhere near 100% but it does help somewhat. It's up to you what you want to do and if you want to wait till you've weaned that is totally your call to make.

Yes if you send me your email I'll just revise your plan and resend. I felt very badly that you never got to really use it.

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Originally Posted by 6bluewant1pink

Never heard of that. I really wanna do a natural sway and hopefully luck up with a girl.

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the Microsort IUI had terrible pregnancy rates and now they are no longer doing it.

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

yes, breastfeeding really sways pink. IT's not anywhere near 100% but it does help somewhat. It's up to you what you want to do and if you want to wait till you've weaned that is totally your call to make.

Yes if you send me your email I'll just revise your plan and resend. I felt very badly that you never got to really use it.

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Thanks so much! I was shocked to become pregnant once getting the plan. It was me rushing well thinking it's not gonna happen that month but I think dieting the month before really boost my fertility. This time I got to be patient and take my time. I may sway while breastfeeding. Do you know why it sways girl? Also I'm now a type 2 diabetic. I'm on double the metformin. My sugars are pretty stable,they never get low.

Here's my 7 boys! They are my world but some pink would finally be great.
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You have some very handsome boys! Love their braids!

Everyone of them is adorable!!

They're gorgeous!! ❤️❤️

absolutely gorgeous x

They are so handsome! Little man in the front with the peace sign reminds me if someone I know.

hi another mom of 7 boys but my youngest is just 3 months old, ive tried lots too but still got the same outcome. my DH has 3 girls with previous marriage so it must be me, granted he is no longer smoking and not drinking anywhere near as much as he used to so maybe its his fault lol

[QUOTE=marriedmomof2;565293]They are so handsome! Little man in the front with the peace sign reminds me if someone I know.[/QUO

Lol. I think it definitely captured their personalities lol.

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hi another mom of 7 boys but my youngest is just 3 months old, ive tried lots too but still got the same outcome. my DH has 3 girls with previous marriage so it must be me, granted he is no longer smoking and not drinking anywhere near as much as he used to so maybe its his fault lol

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My dh drinks and smokes too. I thought that swayed girl, I guess not for us lol
I pray you get your deserving girl someday!

Thanks ladies!!!

what a beautiful family you have

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Originally Posted by 6bluewant1pink

My dh drinks and smokes too. I thought that swayed girl, I guess not for us lol
I pray you get your deserving girl someday!

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It still sways girl, it's just that some people can withstand it. :)

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Originally Posted by 6bluewant1pink

Thanks so much! I was shocked to become pregnant once getting the plan. It was me rushing well thinking it's not gonna happen that month but I think dieting the month before really boost my fertility. This time I got to be patient and take my time. I may sway while breastfeeding. Do you know why it sways girl? Also I'm now a type 2 diabetic. I'm on double the metformin. My sugars are pretty stable,they never get low.

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What a lovely family!!!

Breastfeeding reduces fertility, and we believe that is the reason it sways pink.

I'm so sorry to hear about the diabetes but the metformin does seem to be a good pink sway tactic.

You don't need to have low blood sugar readings. When I say low blood sugar, I don't really mean a low reading on a blood sugar monitor. I just mean that your body is forced to burn off stores of fat and muscle to keep your blood sugar levels in normal range. Your body doesn't like or want to have low blood sugar and will take steps to raise it, so our levels never really truly get "low", or at the least they don't stay there long!

:wave: Hi 6blue (guess that should be 7blue!)...I hope you get your girl :)

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

What a lovely family!!!

Breastfeeding reduces fertility, and we believe that is the reason it sways pink.

I'm so sorry to hear about the diabetes but the metformin does seem to be a good pink sway tactic.

You don't need to have low blood sugar readings. When I say low blood sugar, I don't really mean a low reading on a blood sugar monitor. I just mean that your body is forced to burn off stores of fat and muscle to keep your blood sugar levels in normal range. Your body doesn't like or want to have low blood sugar and will take steps to raise it, so our levels never really truly get "low", or at the least they don't stay there long!

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I took vitex when ttc while breastfeeding child #6. I wonder if I should take vitex again. Also I was taking 500mg metformin once in the morning once at night. Now I'm taking 1000mg in morning 1000mg at night. So I hope that will help more.

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:wave: Hi 6blue (guess that should be 7blue!)...I hope you get your girl :)

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I wanna change it to 7blue not sure how to if I could lol.

I think your little guy is still too young to start the vitex. We have gotten mixed results with it and so for now my instinct is for you to leave it out.

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

I think your little guy is still too young to start the vitex. We have gotten mixed results with it and so for now my instinct is for you to leave it out.

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I still haven't had my period so doubt I'm even fertile right now. I'm definitely taking my time. I'm gonna get on the mini pill for now. Sorry tmi but when we dtd I immediately shower and jump and dump.

Gonna start trying next month!!! I was 40 in September past so I haven't much time to waste!!! GL everyone!!!

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Originally Posted by pebmcpd7

Gonna start trying next month!!! I was 40 in September past so I haven't much time to waste!!! GL everyone!!!

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I wish you the best of luck! I can't wait to see your post it's a girl after 7 boys :)

Your boys r gorgeous ! I can only imagine how cute your girl will be. Hope she can be a addition to that photo. Best of luck :-)