Please share your BD pattern with baby boys

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July 27th, 2014, 09:53 AM
timi10

Please share your BD pattern with baby boys

Hello

we are ttc baby #4 we would love a boy after 3 gourgeous girls.

we meant to follow shettles, we used condom before my first + opk, and we BD since that day which was 4 days ago my cycle was 28 days last month so I started opk on CD 10

got my first (perhapsfalse) + on CD 15

I am CD 18 today,

however today I got a + again even on the cheapie on which I had never had a + before

please share if you can how you ended up with your boy, i need reassurance, we really planned this pregnancy and meant to BD only on O day, but it seems I am just about to ovulate and I have girlies waiting for eggie?

any input?

any chance still conceiving a boy?

thx
July 27th, 2014, 10:12 AM
bluebonnet22

Sorry I dont' understand your post 100%, but on this site we believe TIMING DOES NOT SWAY. It does not matter what day you DTD and has zero correlation with gender. There does seem to be a pattern on this site towards "number of attempts" meaning, the number of BD attempts you make in your fertile window. The general advice for boys is at least 2 and ideally 3 attempts. If you want a boy, I would try to BD 3x in the 36 hours following your + OPK. When we got my son, this is what we did.
July 27th, 2014, 10:55 AM
timi10

Sorry if I posted on the wrong thread, I only wanted to hear some stories about timing, I also take supplements to make my CM alkaline and I diet to favour a boy

I only meant to ask mommas with boys who BD days before O.

thank you
July 27th, 2014, 10:57 AM
timi10

thank you for your input. that is what we meant to BD before O day on O day and a day after O day.

however it seems that my body is just gearing up to O . which means that we BD on days leading up to O

I had a + 3 days ago but today I got 3 + in a row, which means I still havent ovulated
July 27th, 2014, 10:59 AM
bluebonnet22

Didn't mean to offend, sorry, just didn't want you to get hung up on timing. If you ask haven't ovulated, I would keep up BD until you have ovulated. I think lots of attempting sways blue!
July 27th, 2014, 11:02 AM
timi10

you didnt offend at all. English is my second language ;-) and THANK YOU so much, I really hope we havent messed it up
July 27th, 2014, 11:18 AM
bluebonnet22

You definitely haven't messed up! Just keep up trying, it will only help.
July 27th, 2014, 11:43 AM
timi10

Quote:

Originally Posted by bluebonnet22

You definitely haven't messed up! Just keep up trying, it will only help.

:fingers::fingers:
July 27th, 2014, 01:54 PM
Alexis2007

Hi! We bd the 2nd day of +opk, which turned out to be O day! Got our boy too! For what it's worth, my hubby had a very low sperm count, so we abstained 4 or 5 days prior to O so that's why the one time of bd.
July 27th, 2014, 02:59 PM
timi10

That is how we planned, however we got a + on opk and jumped to bed LOl
I still havent ovulated as I have had 3 + opks this afternoon so the plan that we should only BD right at O day has just failed. I am really hoping that other factors, like making my body more alkaline WELL in advance will work FX
July 28th, 2014, 09:32 AM
dloui128

I DTD O-3, O-1 and O, I was using pre seed with each attempt and I was doing the HE diet.
I wanted more than one attempt because I got DD2 by doing it once on O day, hope this helps :)
July 28th, 2014, 09:50 AM
Abifasc

Only one attempt heavily sways girl. If you want a boy I would bd the day before +opk! twice the day of +opk! and the day after.
July 28th, 2014, 12:10 PM
timi10

Quote:

Originally Posted by Abifasc

Only one attempt heavily sways girl. If you want a boy I would bd the day before +opk! twice the day of +opk! and the day after.

when I conceived our 3rd daughter I was advised to bd only once on O day. Ihad a girl, whom I love of course. but why not wish for a BOY 4th ? ;-) THX so much!!!
July 28th, 2014, 12:31 PM
Abifasc

Quote:

Originally Posted by timi10

when I conceived our 3rd daughter I was advised to bd only once on O day. Ihad a girl, whom I love of course. but why not wish for a BOY 4th ? ;-) THX so much!!!

I hope you get him! Boys are precious.
July 28th, 2014, 01:01 PM
jmomof3girls

I'm a mom of 3 girls hoping and swaying for a boy! I hope we both get them. Good luck.
July 28th, 2014, 01:07 PM
essnce629

Both my boys were conceived with 2 attempts before O day. Good luck!
July 28th, 2014, 02:29 PM
timi10

Quote:

Originally Posted by Janamomof3girls

I'm a mom of 3 girls hoping and swaying for a boy! I hope we both get them. Good luck.

:fx::fx:
July 28th, 2014, 03:17 PM
stephk

My boy was conceived with 4 attempts in the fertile window. Good luck!
July 30th, 2014, 08:40 AM
timi10

Quote:

Originally Posted by stephk

My boy was conceived with 4 attempts in the fertile window. Good luck!

Thx so much! :D
July 30th, 2014, 01:06 PM
atomic sagebrush

If you are trying for Shettles you need to be in with another attempt. No matter what, 2 attempts is better, and even if you are going for Shettles, it's much better to be in with an attempt at actual ovulation in case O was delayed.

Timing does not sway at all and it's been totally debunked.
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...le-timing.html

I got ALL my boys with 2 or more attempts in the fertile window and at least 3 of them were with cutoffs. My 4th was a sneak attack and not sure exactly when I ovulated.
July 30th, 2014, 01:08 PM
atomic sagebrush

Quote:

Originally Posted by timi10

when I conceived our 3rd daughter I was advised to bd only once on O day. Ihad a girl, whom I love of course. but why not wish for a BOY 4th ? ;-) THX so much!!!

Yes, that old Shettles stuff is NOT working. We are getting best results with more than one attempt in the fertile window! :)
July 30th, 2014, 01:41 PM
timi10

Quote:

Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

Yes, that old Shettles stuff is NOT working. We are getting best results with more than one attempt in the fertile window! :)

I just couldnt be happier. Thank you so much for taking the time to write. I cannot wait to post my U/S pics here for guessing. :bluesperm:
August 6th, 2014, 07:11 AM
timi10

so I think I am pregnant. I am 9DPO and getting faint lines on all kind of HPTs LOL.
I will confirm the sex of the baby in like 9 weeks ;-)
August 6th, 2014, 09:51 AM
jmomof3girls

Congrats and good luck!!! Keep us updated!! :happy:
August 6th, 2014, 03:49 PM
timi10

Quote:

Originally Posted by Janamomof3girls

Congrats and good luck!!! Keep us updated!! :happy:

thx so much! I will update tomorrow . and I will stay here to follow you too :D
August 6th, 2014, 06:38 PM
jmomof3girls

Thank you! Us 3 girl moms have to stick together!! LOL :happy:
August 10th, 2014, 07:46 PM
atomic sagebrush

congrats and blue dust!
August 16th, 2014, 05:22 AM
timi10

Quote:

Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

congrats and blue dust!

Thank you I am so excited!
October 6th, 2014, 08:17 AM
Mamato3?

Have you had your NT scan yet??
October 11th, 2014, 01:44 AM
timi10

Thank you ladies! ITS A BOY!
October 11th, 2014, 10:03 AM
atomic sagebrush

congrats timi! thx for updating, keeps the threads more helpful for others.
October 11th, 2014, 11:49 AM
jmomof3girls

Woohooo!!! Congrats, a boy after 3 girls! Very inspiring. I'm so happy for you!!!!!

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