Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
See, what you're really after is some magic way to both sway pink and up odds of conception. And that simply doesn't exist.
If you want to be in with tons of attempts, you can have BD every day starting at the end of AF and going right through O. This is called frequent BD through O and it does seem to help sway pink. I am not a fan because it goes wrong a lot (something happens and people start skipping days and then this ends up to be every other day which I believe to be blue) And it also doesn't serve your purposes because it really depletes sperm numbers and many people have done this and not gotten pg.
I"m not sure how many more ways I can go over this, but your options are, DTD every 4 days, DTD every 3 days, DTD every 4 days plus one attempt at pos OPK, DTD every 3 days plus one attempt at pos OPK. While I don't know it as fact, I think any of those will be a heck of a lot better htan DTD every other day. The more attempts you add, I believe the lower your odds of pink are gonna be. I just can't pull something out here that will solve this dilemma, because it's really seeming to be a mutually exclusive thing - the more attempts just does seem to lower odds of pink. I don't know how or why, but I just can't draw any other conclusion based on the data.
The only other option is a bit of sneaky pool which would entail using jellies or something to cut odds of conception to nil with some attempts and keeping your husband satisfied that way, then dropping that for one or two attempts.